[Life In The Raw] Tip and Tricks for a fun bathhouse trip

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1. If you are a bottom, dress the part

Jockstrap, covers up your dick and exposes your ass, letting everyone know what part of you you're sharing that night. Whenever I see a guy wearing just a jock and not wearing his towel, I know, this guy wants to get fucked. And for god sakes, clean out before you get there, and do a thorough

2.If you are a voyeur, play nice

Don't rudely push someones hand away only to want to watch them when they snag someone.

If you are here to just watch and jack off, by all means say so. Many times a guy has come off as rude and unapproachable early that night, and is shocked that I wont let him watch me bareback someones hole in one of the rooms.

3. Respect opposing tastes

If you are a barebacker and you run into a safe sex only fucker, don't waste your time trying to convince them otherwise, just let them know that its not a match and be on your way. If you are a safe sex only fucker and you run into a barebacker, don't try to convince them to wrap it up. Men like barebacking for a reason and no matter how hot your ass is how how big your dick, there will be something missing.

4. Asking status in a bathhouse is pointless

Are you going to ask for a recent copy of their test? if you ask status you have to take them on their word, and if this dictates how far you go with a guy, you are asking for trouble(stealth fucking), hell, I can say right now that I have been negative all this time, and made up being poz... what proof do any of you have otherwise. if you are neg and in a bathhouse, understand you are putting yourself at risk for the sake of getting off. Condoms and not doing certain sex acts can reduce that risk, but the only safe guy here are the voyeurs.

5. For GODS sake, say what you want to get into if a man asks

"Oh, it depends" "Well, what are you into." "How about we go to my room and I'll show you."

"I'd rather surprise then tell you." All of these answers have gotten men dismissed from my room.

Now is not the time to be cute, you paid anywhere from 15 to 25 bucks to walk around in a dark building with terrible techno music in a goddamn towel, if you wanna nail a guy say so, if you wanna fuck a guy say so, if you wanna get fucked say so, if you wanna get sucked say so. Yeah, that guy may not be into that, but there are other men who paid to be here, you'll find a match, but only if you are man enough to go for what you want.

6. Tops, know when to rest

if you are trying to fuck a bottom and cant seem to get hard enough to get it in, don't keep trying. You will annoy the bottom and he will kick you out and get a hard dick, it happens to the best of us, if you want a marathon night, take a cialus, viagra or equivalent before coming to the baths, a good bottom goes through a lot of trouble to be ready for us, we should do the little work we need to be to be ready for them.

Go in your room, rest, relax in the steam room, you bought 8 hours in this place, give yourself time to rest, the ass will still be there to fuck.

7. No means no, and there are many ways to say no

if he moves your hand away, he has said no.

if he makes it a point to not look at you while you follow him, he has said no.

if he flat out says he is not interested, he has said no.

respect that and move on, no one likes a troll, and trolls comes in all ages and body types.

If he doesn't want you, it doesn't matter why, he just doesn't want you.

And if a guy said no, don't go and rub on his ass or grab his dick while he is getting the guy he does want.

All you are doing is pissing him off and being told to piss off in front of a crowd is embarrassing.

It really all comes down to this, be ready, be honest, be respectful, and don't take anything in a bathhouse personally.

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[a6uldeve84u]

The sad part about what you have written here--all sound and true advice--will either not be read or believed by those who will make the offenses.