Words and their meanings in profile text

[AirmaxUK]

On 11/27/2020 at 12:16 AM, funpozbottom said:

I like reading threads like this since these definitions sometimes change regionally and there's usually something I hadn't heard before. There's also a good bit of cross-over between terms, plus, most sites sensor what can be put on a profile so that may require a little creativity if you want to hint as some particular interest. All that combined make finding a concrete definition somewhat difficult. Here's how I define a few of the terms you listed:

• Raunch -  involves body excretions and waste. (There are 3 P's and 3 S's: pee, poo, puke, sweat, spit, and snot)
• Filthy - unwashed and sweaty. Can refer to body or gear.
• Grunge - Also unwashed but with the addition of dirty, mud, and oil.
• Dirty - a generic catchall that could mean anything that's not vanilla depending on the site. (Some sites ban any mention of raunch so on those sites the closest term may be dirty)
• Pig - Insatiable. Into quantity over quality.
• Pervert - Corrupting influence. Could be voyeur, exhibitionist, or predator.
• Breed - Cum in the hole after a long fuck. With a good breeding, the top will stay inside as long as possible to prevent the load from leaking out. This may lead to a second fuck.

I really like your definition of Pig being into quantity over quality.  I think that totally nailed it.

Interesting definition of Pervert being a corrupting influence - I guess that's why the shortened form means what it does and is banned here. That's pretty much what the dictionary definition is too.

In the UK you sometimes hear a group of friends accuse one of their number of [banned shortened form]-ing over someone. This is usually noticeably paying excessive attention to someone they desire, but from a distance rather than being direct or cruisey. Usually if the target is considered to be above the league of the admirer, or if the attention is making them noticeably uncomfortable. 

You also often hear the banned shortened form used to describe someone who's paying unwanted attention to someone and ignoring social cues/body language to stop. eg: That guy in the darkroom who won't take no for an answer. 

Edited November 28, 2020 by AirmaxAndy

[funpozbottom]

7 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Interesting definition of Pervert being a corrupting influence - I guess that's why the shortened form means what it does and is banned here. That's pretty much what the dictionary definition is too.

In the UK you sometimes hear a group of friends accuse one of their number of [banned shortened form]-ing over someone. This is usually noticeably paying excessive attention to someone they desire, but from a distance rather than being direct or cruisey. Usually if the target is considered to be above the league of the admirer, or if the attention is making them noticeably uncomfortable. 

You also often hear the banned shortened form used to describe someone who's paying unwanted attention to someone and ignoring social cues/body language to stop. eg: That guy in the darkroom who won't take no for an answer. 

Yeah, the pervert is the guy always watching porn, sees a hot guy and tells you all the things he'd like to do to him, always at the sauna watching, wears clothes that accentuate his crotch. May be into younger guys in a stereotypical "you want a piece of candy" kind of way. Can get touchy-feely but it usually stops there before it crosses the line to full molestation. I could be wrong on this but I think the guys who say they are perverts are more interested in chatting and jacking off to pics and stories, while the ones who say they are into tabboo are the ones interested in crossing the line to participate in their misspellings. 

As for the "guy in the darkroom who won't take no for an answer", I just think of him as a "gnat".  A little bug that hovers 3 inches from your face. You swat it away and it come right back.

[Guest CuriousDallas]

On 11/21/2020 at 4:51 PM, RawPlug said:

Fascinating topic Andy. The meaning of words - and their interpretation - is important, especially online.

I must admit that “breeding” has always confounded me as I always thought it meant pozzing. Or at the very least that the top is poz, either on or off meds. But I now realise its meaning for many encompasses bareback in general. 

I got confused the other way around on this as I thought breeding meant a guy fucking me raw and cumming inside me. I think that’s where I got into trouble as I was asking guys to breed me not know what I was getting myself into. A lot of guys my age believe that breeding is what I thought it was but are getting more than what they bargained for.

[AirmaxUK]

Freak/Freaks/get Freaky are a term I've been noticing a lot lately when looking at USA based profiles - and the context would seem to imply different meaning from my normal understanding: .  My understanding is that it is used to describe something outside what is normal, but done to some kind of extreme or excess and I'd usually associate it with a fetish, like Rubber Freak, Gear Freak, etc.  But having seen it in so many non-fetish profiles, I am wondering if this term is used as covert drugs reference? 

[BootmanLA]

9 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Freak/Freaks/get Freaky are a term I've been noticing a lot lately when looking at USA based profiles - and the context would seem to imply different meaning from my normal understanding: .  My understanding is that it is used to describe something outside what is normal, but done to some kind of extreme or excess and I'd usually associate it with a fetish, like Rubber Freak, Gear Freak, etc.  But having seen it in so many non-fetish profiles, I am wondering if this term is used as covert drugs reference? 

EVERYTHNG these days seems like a covert drug reference.

The oldest references I recall for this term is from the early 80's, and Rick James' song "Superfreak", about a sexually adventurous woman. Unmodified, I took it to mean not so much something itself extreme, just indulging in the pleasure of sex. Adding a fetish (rubber freak, leather freak, dildo freak) suggests someone very into that particular fetish or interest.

I just wish the drughead crowd would stop appropriating useful words from the language and corrupting them so that you can't make even casual references ("it was a cloudy day yesterday") without some junkie wanting to know who your dealer is.

[NoFucksGiven]

35 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

EVERYTHNG these days seems like a covert drug reference.

The oldest references I recall for this term is from the early 80's, and Rick James' song "Superfreak", about a sexually adventurous woman. Unmodified, I took it to mean not so much something itself extreme, just indulging in the pleasure of sex. Adding a fetish (rubber freak, leather freak, dildo freak) suggests someone very into that particular fetish or interest.

I just wish the drughead crowd would stop appropriating useful words from the language and corrupting them so that you can't make even casual references ("it was a cloudy day yesterday") without some junkie wanting to know who your dealer is.

Your last line (not in a drug sense, obvs) made me smile. For years, I was puzzled when I accepted a guy’s offer of G & T and he didn’t hand me a gin and tonic. 

[ErosWired]

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

EVERYTHNG these days seems like a covert drug reference.

And that’s why I think the practice of banning specific words from use on platforms is both ineffective and unsustainable. It’s a game of whack-a-mole, and the mole has an entire dictionary of holes to pop out of, at any time, on any whim. That’s the thing about substitution codes - you can substitute anything to mean anything as long as the meaning is understood. The only thing that is accomplished through word bans is that use of a word for its actual meaning gets gagged, while communication of the undesirable meaning simply shifts to a different code and continues unabated.

It’s like trying to keep a guy from walking away by nailing his boot to the floor - all he has to do is unlace the boot and put on another one, and you’ve ruined a perfectly good boot for nothing.