Sleeping Together

[Rick19421942]

  I have had sex with guys that were good in bed but, once they cum, lose interest in sex or maybe want to just get up and leave.  I hate it when that happens!

  Being mostly a Bottom, I can understand it to some degree.  I love a cock in my ass even after I cum and can't get hard for a while again.  I know it's different for a Top, as far as always being able to keep fucking after he cums.

  What I can't understand is laying next to a naked guy who turns him on enough that he wanted to fuck him and doesn't want to fool around until his is able to get it up again.

  My buddy and I fuck all the time and what I really love is spending the night and sleeping together.  We have the whole night, no pressure to get it up again right away and when we wake during the night hard, all he has to do is slip it back into my still wet and slippery cum filled hole.

  When he spends the night, we usually take Viagra so it's easier to keep him hard after he cums or, at least, get him up again sooner.   I like to finish off spooning on our sides.  With the Viagra, I can usually talk dirty to him, reach between my legs and play with his balls after he cums and keep him hard enough that he doesn't slip out of my ass.

  Oh, how I love to drift off to sleep after a good fucking and orgasm with a hard cock still in my cum drenched ass!  If we manage to actually fall to sleep with him still hard enough to stay in me, I know he slips out right away but, falling to sleep in that post orgasmic bliss with the feeling of his cock inside me is so wonderful!

[Guest]

I agree. I love to cuddle, and talk , or go to sleep with a guy after he fucks me. That gives him time to recover and fuck me again. Unfortunately, a lot of guys get up and leave as soon as they cum. I’m not sure why. Maybe they are afraid to learn too much about me, their hookup. And that will destroy the anonymity. Maybe they are avoiding intimacy. But it’s their loss. They could have hd my ass again and again. 

 

[Guest]

I have to admit I would love intimacy be it before or after a fuck. but sadly most men just want me on my knees sucking their cock then they fuck and go. I have had a rare guy who after a fuck wanted to hug, kiss me and tell me he likes me and be intimate, but I think it only happened once. I want to be a mans bitch not just a quick fuck but also more if he is into it. In any case I never refuse the fuck what ever a top wants he gets and I'm there to satisfy him in what his needs are.

[Rick19421942]

On 12/8/2020 at 11:23 AM, flexbtm said:

I agree. I love to cuddle, and talk , or go to sleep with a guy after he fucks me. That gives him time to recover and fuck me again. Unfortunately, a lot of guys get up and leave as soon as they cum. I’m not sure why. Maybe they are afraid to learn too much about me, their hookup. And that will destroy the anonymity. Maybe they are avoiding intimacy. But it’s their loss. They could have hd my ass again and again. 

 

@flexbtm,

  I think that the guys that fuck and go are in denial or having an identity crisis.  They want gay sex but, after they cum, they get embarrassed because they are still trying to hang on to the "Straight" image or what others might think of them.       Intellectually, I can understand what they are going through, but I don't feel that way myself.  While I don't go around "in your face" flaunting it, I don't go to any great lengths to hide it either.  I love being who I am, gay and a Bottom.  I wouldn't want to offend anyone that it would bother but, I feel proud that my boyfriend wants me and don't care who knows that I'm carrying his seed inside me.