Sounding

[Guest]

One of the more intimate things a long distance master and slave can do together. I've never ventured beyond porn but want to so I can improve as both dom and sub. Does anyone have exp? 

[ErosWired]

Sounds are actually medical tools used for enlarging the size of the urethral opening and passage. There are different types, from straight rods to long s-shaped rods to narrow rods with a bulb on one end and a handle on the other (‘rosebud’ sounds, which are what I use. A set of sounds will usually start with a diameter of about 6mm and increase to an eye-opening 13mm. So far I have not been able to manage anything larger than a 10.

Most sounds are made of stainless steel, which is the material of choice because f the ease of sterilization. (It also makes them handy as electrodes. 🙂  ) There are other urethral insertables out there made of other materials - silicone in particular - but I have no experience with these and cannot make any recommendation other than to avoid anything that is porous and cannot be made sterile.

Sounding has to be done with care, and with attention paid to cleanliness. This is really important. Your urethra is naturally sterile, and if you go shoving bacteria-covered rods down it you will end up with a urethral infection, bladder infection, or both. Pre-play sterilization of the sounds is essential, and there are several means to do it. My low-tech method is to clean them thoroughly with hot, soapy water, immerse them for five minutes in an alcohol bath, and then wrap each sound individually in a wet paper towel and place them in a 350° oven for 30 minutes. This may sound like overkill, but you do not want an infection down there. Do not sound your cock with the sound that was just hilt-deep in your buddy’s cock.

Sounding should be done with gloves, no matter who is doing it to you. Your lubrication should be sterile and applied directly from the bottle. Never use force. If the sound isn’t advancing, reposition and let gravity work. Sounds must be absolutely smooth, without any roughness or projections, or they will scratch you inside.

If you allow someone else to sound you, make sure that person has experience, and is attentive to your response. If he acts like he wants to get rough or stabby with it, ccall it off. My former Master used to deep-sound me and then stir, so that it felt as though he was stirring my reproductive system like soup. He was a demon, but he knew what he was doing and then some, and never damaged me.

Sounding can be fun and rewarding, but it can’t be done quite as casually as some other forms of play.

[astrokc]

This has always been something I wanted to explore with a knowledgeable experienced partner.

[xxbjn2]

I'm currently living with a catheter inserted, that's the closest I've ever come. I am now getting a bit of fun by moving it back and forth when my cock is hard and enjoying it more than I should lol.