Guest Posted November 4, 2021 Report Posted November 4, 2021 Hey guys, getting out of a long term relationship with a fem, and I’m ready to embrace my true self. I want to get into dating and fucking, but I’m pretty inexperienced. I’ve gone to the baths a bunch of times over the years, but haven’t dated many men. I don’t want to be awkward on dates or bad in bed. Any advice for an older newbie? Quote
BootmanLA Posted November 4, 2021 Report Posted November 4, 2021 First piece of advice: be upfront and honest with people about what you're looking for. As you note, fucking and dating can be entirely different spheres, and what you can get away with for a casual hookup/fuck, in terms of opening up, will be different from what you can do with someone you're hoping for something "more" with - whether it's just a series of dates, or a relationship of any sort. Someone who knows you're new to same-sex dating should be more accepting of your inexperience (and anyone who's not accepting is probably not a good dating candidate). But they have to KNOW you're new to it, or else they may just think your "flubs" are deliberate. Quote
theplayerking Posted November 5, 2021 Report Posted November 5, 2021 A lot of guys like breaking in newbies. Be upfront and honest. Quote
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