Slutdom vs Relationship

[Achilles765]

I debate this all the time because I like both so muc I can't choose. I love being in a relationship... the comfrot, the emotion, most of the aspects of it, but I cannot be totally monogomous. when i have been, i always wish i were still being a slut. but just being a total slut, while awesome, and fulfilling to me, still has some things missing. like sometimes i would like romance and a date and stuff... so I have decided if I am to be with anyone, it has to be someone who is either also a slut, or into my being one... but i wouldnt cheat and lie... there would have to be rules to keep anyone from getting hurt or anything. another bb slut, especially one who is vers or bottom vers would be great cause not only could we do it together, we could have tops come and fuck us together, side by side or face to face.

but all the guys i meet that are dateable want serious, monogomous commitments, and the ones that would be what i want either don't live here in houston, or are not ready to commit. though i have an ex who would be perfect for this role, that would never work lol... so the search continues

[rawentry]

i agree with bigdick4u ... you can have both!!!

[Guest Deviant_Angel]

you can have both. a LTR and be a total slut with others. the only thing is you need to find a partner who thinks like you! its perfectly normal to have a BF with who you can be yourself and enjoy the things in life and have sex partners who are just that:they are there when you want sex. hate it when people are dishonest to their partners and let them believe they are monogamous when in fact they are screwing others. simplify your life. always be honest to your BF and embrace being a slut!

I guess I'm one of the lucky few who has a ltr (10+ years now) and who also enjoys being a slut with me. So it is true, you can get the benefits of both sides, just as long as you're the type who can be open and honest about it and not get easily jealous!

[evilqueerpig]

To begin with, even considering a relationship should not be for your Mum's sake but your own.  That said. a relationship, open, of course, is possible with someone who is your slutty equal, a slut who shares ALL of your likes and kinks. A long list of ground rules would need to be set...play together or not, tell each other what you do or not, is the bed you share sacred, chems...etc.  I was in an open relationship for 10 years, technically 8 because the sex had stopped for the final 2 years.  We started out as slutty equals, but when I embraced my kinky side, he remained 100% vanilla.  In the end, he betrayed my trust and only recently do I trust myself to take a chance.