First time fisting

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I'd add see if you can find a top who has ACTUALLY taken fisting cherries before. It's a really intense sensation and the top needs to know how to do it with the right blend of compassion and lust. If they are thinking of their own horn for more than two seconds, and not of you, then they don't know what they're doing. Fisting bottoms, especially in the first time, should be in control of the process and the tops, whilst challenging your hole, will need to know when to push and when to back off.

It should happen relatively naturally - punch fucking is an advanced art - and the first time you may only get a hand in your hole before you need it out. That's not embarrassing, or disappointing to a top who knows the art - we like taking the cherry 😈