MAIKOL20 Posted January 21, 2013 Report Share Posted January 21, 2013 Me neither and my men want to enjoy my boy cunt, so anything else is out of place. I have never gotten hard nor cum while being fucked. A bottom's experience is totally different than the top's. The top needs to unload . The bottom focuses on milking the top's balls and cock and getting that load. For sure, that is our job! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sentry75 Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 like many others it seems like an odd question. as a bottom i have no desire to cum while being fucked. i usually don't even get hard. i love going home and jacking off to the memories. i have only been close to cumming twice. first when i lost my cherry splayed face down with his thrusts rubbing m cock against the mattress. and another time of multiple firsts, It was only abot the fourth time I was fuckedand was also the first tine I was fucked standing up which was also the first time I was fucked i front of a room of people and the first time I was fucked while sucking cock. the rhytym of being fucked swung my dick back and forth andwhen i got a mouthful of cum i almost lost it. Then the top pushed my head down and slammed into me so that my cock swung forward and strands of my own pre-cum splashed me in the face Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vrsbbltn Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Your problem is very intriguing. When I get fucked deep and hard I cum about 10 times faster than when fucked slowly and not so deep. I have no idea what can be done to solve it :-( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happidaz Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 I also agree - that as a bottom I am more focused on the tops pleasure and as a result my pleasure is returned by the top - I do not need to cum in order to receive all the loads that I can get.. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uclatinosj Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 As a bottom i agree with the rest. a bottom is to be concerned about milking his top's cock, working his hole to give his top pleasure. if you feel the need to cum that should be done on your own time not when your serving a top. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gangbangtheblackboy Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 i worry about cumming on my own time. an anal orgasm is 10x stronger than anything my dick could imagine feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samson Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Well put me in the camp as someone who understand your plight. This is sex and you deserve to get your rocks off just as much as he does. I'm still figuring out how my pleasure centers work down there myself but it do think a key thing is not to worry about whether you are going to cum. You need to focus on the feeling of being fucked deep. What does being fucked deep mean to you? What does it mean to him? You're totally letting someone else own your body in that moment and that's a very powerful thing. When I don't think about trying to cum that's when I start to drip everywhere and then my hole really begins to open up. It's almost like you have to let the orgasm cum to you than you go to it, you know? Hope that helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DepravedIndifference Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 Don't and don't want to think of my cock when I'm getting fucked. Only thing on my mind is being the best possible bottom I can be. Would love to get chastity cage for my cock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
porkboy101 Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 The only time I think of not cumming and taking a top's seed is if I desire to be filled and used as a cum dump. As such, when I top, there are times I could give a rats ass if the bottom cums or is even hard...I want to nut in his ass. However, depending on my partner and if I'm topping or bottoming, that is not the case, so for me it de.pends on who I am with and my mood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
man4uall Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 From another point of view, as a predominately top, I like to fuck the cum out of my bottom and feel his ass twitch and pulse as he shoots his cum - and then keep pounding even if he can't take it any more until I flood his ass with my seed. As a bottom - I can stay hard the whole time and only cum if the top wants me too - I really like the feeling of cumming while I have a good cock in my ass, but usually save my load for a flip with him if he flips, and if not, the next willing bottom in line.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
not_sure_bb Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 is it possible you are focusing on being a good bottom too much ? i rarely cum when getting fucked and most times never get hard cause im in bottom mode. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NWUSHorny Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 I agree that it sucks. I love to fuck the cum out of the bottom. Although right now I have FB that doesn't even get hard and seems to get true anal orgasms and has his hole fill up with creamy cum like lube from them. As a bottom I love to get the cum fucked out of me (I can cum hands free), and if I'm getting a good fuck from someone I'm really into it can be difficult too hold off long enough to get off at the same time as the top. My only suggestion is to lay back and forget about cumming and hope nature takes it course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bottomboyinca Posted January 24, 2013 Report Share Posted January 24, 2013 I have the same prob too sometimes! I hate it when I'm sooo horny and the top plows me hard and deep that I can't cum anymore. Also, my top fuck buddy wants to see me cum becoz he likes the feeling of me cumming while his cock is inside me. What else to do aside from concentrating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barefuckfl Posted February 3, 2013 Report Share Posted February 3, 2013 I've never cum while getting fucked; don't see why not cumming would be a problem after all we're there to do nothing but be cum in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slut4anyload Posted February 4, 2013 Report Share Posted February 4, 2013 I tend to be in the camp that says that not cumming is a good thing. Cumming just reduces my desire to be fucked and cummed in. Why would I want that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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