Reverse Viagra

[NWUSHorny]

3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

You’re warning the guy, with zero scientific support (because there isn’t any) that he’s going to damage his mental health if he doesn’t embrace his boner? You’ve made it abundantly clear in another thread that you don’t understand men who seek to avoid cock stimulation, but telling a guy he’s going to hurt himself if he doesn’t use his cock is about as useful as telling a guy he’ll go blind if he masturbates.

Sorry, but I disagree with you on this point. While I will concede that there is little or no medical research on the mental health effects of intentionally using a chemical to suppress your bodies natural sexual reaction. There is medical research on the positive effects of ejaculating on prostate health, as well as studies that indicate mental health benefits from the hormones released by natural arousal. While I will admit I don't see eye to eye with bottoms that do not want their penises included in sexual play, I also never, ever recommend using any drugs or chemicals that are not medically advised, and I don't see how drugs could possibly be medically advised in this situation.

Until now I had steered clear of the chastity device aspect, and you know how I feel about that, and that is all I am going to say on it.

[tupolino]

10 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

[...] when in a way that in the long run it may do more harm than good to both your physical and mental health?

1 hour ago, 1stimebare said:

[...]I find it hard(pardon the pun) to believe any man doesn't enjoy a hardon.  But then I am not a total bottom. 

I am a little perplexed, to say the least, that just a simple question is raising a discussion where harm to my physical or mental health is discussed, only because I don't like to have a hard-on all the time. 
Just to remind myself, I'm on a site here, where bug chasing is discussed and people are happily posting about their conversion, at the same time people try to put me in a position to doubt that I would really not enjoy to have a hard-on. Seriously? Didn't think that this site is so niche that not wanting a hard-on when getting fucked is becoming an issue.
Fun fact: I'm versatile and enjoying to fuck a nice hole quite a bit at times and on these occasions I'm super happy with my rock hard dick. But I can also switch quite well to be a bottom and then I don't like it that much - complex world, isn't it?

 

26 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

There is medical research on the positive effects of ejaculating on prostate health, as well as studies that indicate mental health benefits from the hormones released by natural arousal.

No one said, I don't want to cum at all. By the way: getting a hard-on doesn't mean you cum, nor not getting get a hard-on mean you do not have the hormones released. (e.g. viagra is not a hormonal treatment, guess why...)

 

17 hours ago, Sissyslut said:

Try a chastity cage

Not having a hard-on would also help to wear a chastity cage indeed. But as mentioned, it takes ages if it does work at all to put one on.

 

17 hours ago, austin_submale said:

I've read the Propecia (the anti-baldness drug) can cause inability to get erections.  But it's effects may be more permanent than you'd want.  I've also heard it can cause sometimes permanent shrinkage.

 

That's actually the direction I'm looking for, just without killing it all (as you had mentioned already). This killing libido I read about as well. I'm more looking for the physical effect only, very comparable to viagra, which doesn't get you horny, but allows for an erection in case you will.
The effect of viagra was actually a side-effect of the research on Sildenafil, when they originally were looking for a heart-disease. 
So, I'm just wondering if there is any other medication with probably the side effect of just killing your erection for a couple of hours...

 

[tupolino]

22 hours ago, Pampix said:

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That looks just perfect... 🤤🤤

[blackrobe]

It's disheartening seeing threads of someone inquiring about something they think they'll enjoy turn into "Why would you want that?" threads instead.

Men get to want what they want, and be turned on by what works for them.

[Guest]

On 7/12/2022 at 8:23 AM, austin_submale said:

I've read the Propecia (the anti-baldness drug) can cause inability to get erections.  But it's effects may be more permanent than you'd want.  I've also heard it can cause sometimes permanent shrinkage.

 

So you're saying there's a drug that will shrink my (bottom) dick, keep it from getting hard, AND prevent balding? 

 

/s

[Pampix]

Being myself a totaI bottom I can assure you that I do not like, want, need or use my penis in the way it was intended to by nature for breeding. I only use (sometimes) the head of it as a woman uses her clit. By stimulating it with a vibrator and that makes make me cum indeed as a woman with an ejaculation but without a hardon. I almost never have erections and I do not want it. Also when I am having sex with a guy I do not want my penis played, sucked  or stroked. When I am horny or sexually excited I get shivers in my balls and behind them (perineum) and my ass relaxes automatically instead of having an erection. So it is really possible that a guy, me for instance hasn't anymore the standard natural reaction and cravings linked with his penis. Long time ago I was heterosexual but got so disgusted and mentally shaken by a cheating girlfriend that I did not want to have anymore the role of a standard male heterosexual guy. I wanted to be more like a kind of neutral genderless human.

Next to the physical aspect of having an orgasm with or without ejaculation (through anal sex in my case)  there is also the psycholohgical satisfaction of making cum your lover, beeing bred, used,dominated etc. what makes that it is not necessary for me to really have an orgasm.

Using testosteroneblockers and/or female hormones (I tried that for quite some time in the past) will have the extra effect next to become impotent, fewer to no hard-ons, no morningwood, never hard enough, not long in time erections to penetrate somebody. After six months penis and testicles will start yo shrink and ejaculate will be much less and transparant and your breast will get very sensitive. If you take this products for many years some changes will stay permanent. BUT in fact that is MTF hormonetherapy that wil change you in a woman. Your butt will also get a more female form and your breast wil grow and you will gain some weight if you're not lucky. Also my libido dropped so low and got depressed that it was not fun anymore. I stopped with it beacause the goal of making my cock unusable was changing me into an asexual woman and I did not want that. I still have some effects of that therapy from years ago but staying soft and negating my cock has come by habit, the pschycological reprogramming of my sexuality (no hypnosis), the way I am having sex with my lovers and wearing most of the time a chastity cage.

As a conclusion: have sex with focussing on you ass and wear a chastity cage!

[BabyBobby]

I have been on Ritalin for years and take them only morning and lunchtime and cannot get hard top at least 6 hours later.

[Guest]

On 7/12/2022 at 1:20 PM, Pampix said:

Mainly it is all in the mind, habit and training. I suppose taht you are younger guy with a high sexdrive. With getting older (more then 30) and a lot of anal stimulation you should get your ass reprogrammed as your main sexual organ and you will be able to be fucked without having an erection. In fact you should never stimulate your cock when you are riding or using a dildo so that you do not make the link between ass and cock. For most men, as for me you loose your erection when you get strong stimulation in your ass. This is what I do when I wear my chastity cage and get morningwood and it hurts. I push then one of my bigger butplugs in my ass and I loose my erection right away to loose the pain.

I love this pic, I want to play with him and be him