Do your friends and family know you're a slut?

[TaKinGDeePanal]

My family sure as heck don't know. My wife never knew (and actually I was monogamous with her until we separated - as she was a VERY good fuck and we liked to do it in places that seemed odd, e.g., the drying hut on the (flat reinforced concrete) roof of the house). My friends? No - with very few exceptions.

[marriedsub]

Nope, not a single one knows. Would like to keep it that way, but can't stop thinking about being caught on film while taking cock and cum from several gay men...

[suolsu]

Only the people I have sex with know.

[vers46]

My family and friends have no clue what i get up to.

[gaysubcbt]

Yes, my father and older brother know.

One day, I used the wrong SharePoint site, so they saw a picture of me naked, in a chastity cage with sperm on my face. We're pretty open-minded in our family, so I don't think they were surprised because I'm openly gay and very feminine (unlike them, who are straight and masculine).

They asked me about it; they were genuinely intrigued. It was really humiliating for me, but looking back, I'm glad they know my true nature: a submissive gay boi.

[blackrobe]

2 hours ago, gaysubcbt said:

Yes, my father and older brother know.

One day, I used the wrong SharePoint site, so they saw a picture of me naked, in a chastity cage with sperm on my face. We're pretty open-minded in our family, so I don't think they were surprised because I'm openly gay and very feminine (unlike them, who are straight and masculine).

They asked me about it; they were genuinely intrigued. It was really humiliating for me, but looking back, I'm glad they know my true nature: a submissive gay boi.

I have to ask. 

What SharePoint site were you intending to post to where that pic did belong?

[1Exhibitionist]

No

[wheelchairfag]

Yes everyone knows family and friends i have no secrets about anything 

[Starrrcream]

My cousin surely knew.  After all, he was the one who introduced me to the fun of cock play and ass play before giving me my cock to suck and cum and piss to swallow.  And he was the one who introduced me to his schoolmates to be their cum dump and toilet.

[PervBugChaser]

It's a true story:

My sister is superstitious. Once she went to a fortune teller she believes very much and asked him about me. I've never met the fortune teller before. But my sister told me that he said I am a slut. I was astonished. 

Some close gay friends know I am slut. I never tried to hide it. But just don't like to talk about my sex life with everyone. Only shared with some FBs. Too bad I still haven't found a FB same like me. 🙂

[PozToxVersPig]

The majority of my friends don't play in the Breeding Zone / NastyKingPig / advanced bareback / poz universe so have little exposure to the vast majority of this part of my life.  Those that do play on this field know and we talk openly about it or share stories or bitch about a hookup gone bad - my friend the other day called me horrified after a hookup and told me how he had to "waffle stomp" in the dudes shower for 20 minutes and the guy eventually got so concerned he came in to the bathroom and pulled open the shower curtain and witnessed my friend waffle-stomping.  I digress.

All of my friends know that I am very highly sexually active, and this has been almost my whole life since 15.   They all know that I'm poz.  They all know that I used to hook up a lot, frequent the bathhouses when I lived in Seattle, had a vast array of sex toys and gear, and even in my former house a sling room.  They can make assumptions from there.

I don't hide anything and if I were asked or a friend/family member wanted to know more or talk about it, I would and I'd be candid.  I'm at a point in my career where I'm not concerned about any exposure to all of this in the workplace - this has made things like fuck pics and videos much more accessible for me to consider than they used to be.

Of course, there have been some shocking moments at sex parties over the years.  At a Cumunion in Seattle I was in the dark room for many hours taking dick and there was another bottom next to me the whole time.  He was high like me.  We never really made eye contact or could see each other that well, but as the party was wrapping, we both got up at the same time and realized we were CLOSE work colleagues - on the same team.  I would have never thought him the type to take raw loads at a sex party and also to do drugs, yet here we both were.  We formed a pretty close friendship after that.  There were less ideal suprise encounters  but nothing to write home about.

[PervBugChaser]

There is another true story.

I go to the naked party at Black Eagle very often. Last year I met a co-worker at the party. We both were very surprised and he tried to avoid me after. But after seeing him at the party for several times, We now got used to it. We just don't talk or play with each other. Just nod and walk away and play separately. He saw me getting fucked, and I saw him sucking and fucking others. We also met at Steamworks a couple of times. 

Once we partnered working together. During the break I asked him why he hadn't come to Black Eagle for a while. He then stopped talking with me. I do still meet him at the naked party now and then. We just act like strangers.

[PozToxVersPig]

55 minutes ago, PervBugChaser said:

There is another true story.

I go to the naked party at Black Eagle very often. Last year I met a co-worker at the party. We both were very surprised and he tried to avoid me after. But after seeing him at the party for several times, We now got used to it. We just don't talk or play with each other. Just nod and walk away and play separately. He saw me getting fucked, and I saw him sucking and fucking others. We also met at Steamworks a couple of times. 

Once we partnered working together. During the break I asked him why he hadn't come to Black Eagle for a while. He then stopped talking with me. I do still meet him at the naked party now and then. We just act like strangers.

Yeah, there's a lot of psychology in that.  Some of gay culture began in "dark rooms" because as an overall demographic, we had to stay hidden regardless of the activity...some of that continues to persist into our section of the gay counterculture which is pervy, bb, poz, whatever sex.  Sounds like your coworker hasn't accepted this about himself so simply by interacting with you, he now has to face that truth about himself which he's probably been surpressing....other than in the safety of the dark room.

My SHIT version of true story of this interaction - I was hosting anon dudes at my place back in Seattle.  Did this regularly where I'd leave the door unlocked and dudes would breed and go.  This one night, two dudes arrive, I'm spitroasted, it seems to be going fine and then the top wraps his hands around my throat and starts choking me.  Not like sex choking, like "I'm gonna kill you" choking me.  His buddy was clearly alarmed and told his friend to stop and the guy choking me is like "you really screwed me over and you think you're just gonna be able to not have any consequences.  You fucking screwed me..." yelling yelling.  His friend pulls him off of me (in my own bed), I pull up my blindfold and there's a colleague of mine who had done some very illegal and improper thing with a major multinational corporation that was our customer.  My team at the time had found out about it (not ever pointing the finger at him directly), and reporting it to Corporate Compliance who did an investigation.  The Choking Dude was ultimately fired (I didn't even know this before the hookup, it wasn't on my radar.).  He apparently blamed the whole thing on me and was going to enact his revenge when he found me on BBRT hosting anon hookups.  

(P.S.  I still took many more anon loads that way for many more years and still do.  One bad apple can't spoil the bunch...:)

[PervBugChaser]

6 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

Yeah, there's a lot of psychology in that.  Some of gay culture began in "dark rooms" because as an overall demographic, we had to stay hidden regardless of the activity...some of that continues to persist into our section of the gay counterculture which is pervy, bb, poz, whatever sex.  Sounds like your coworker hasn't accepted this about himself so simply by interacting with you, he now has to face that truth about himself which he's probably been surpressing....other than in the safety of the dark room.

My SHIT version of true story of this interaction - I was hosting anon dudes at my place back in Seattle.  Did this regularly where I'd leave the door unlocked and dudes would breed and go.  This one night, two dudes arrive, I'm spitroasted, it seems to be going fine and then the top wraps his hands around my throat and starts choking me.  Not like sex choking, like "I'm gonna kill you" choking me.  His buddy was clearly alarmed and told his friend to stop and the guy choking me is like "you really screwed me over and you think you're just gonna be able to not have any consequences.  You fucking screwed me..." yelling yelling.  His friend pulls him off of me (in my own bed), I pull up my blindfold and there's a colleague of mine who had done some very illegal and improper thing with a major multinational corporation that was our customer.  My team at the time had found out about it (not ever pointing the finger at him directly), and reporting it to Corporate Compliance who did an investigation.  The Choking Dude was ultimately fired (I didn't even know this before the hookup, it wasn't on my radar.).  He apparently blamed the whole thing on me and was going to enact his revenge when he found me on BBRT hosting anon hookups.  

(P.S.  I still took many more anon loads that way for many more years and still do.  One bad apple can't spoil the bunch...:)

Sorry for the horrible experience you had.

BTW, my coworker is Muslim, according to his name. 🙂

[Guest Ronnie]

Hello - not sure if the subject - going to visited my Friend - he has a son about 22 years old - went to the House - door was open - Hot summer day ! Knocked on the door but no one answered - went in the house - hearing some sounds - bed room !

I went there to see and found his son sucking a boy - if 18 yrs old - dick !  He noticed me - saying 1 moment - then he finished the job !  The boy rushed dressing and out the front door- while my Friend smiling / swallowing the Cum load - did not faze him - we chatted !