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I've been bicurious for a long time and finally think i should give it a try. Hope to try sucking and bottoming but will see how things go

I got myself on prep cause bare looks a lot hotter.

Any tips for making the first time a fun experience or where the best place to find someone would be?

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You say you're "bicurious" but you don't give any additional information, so it's hard to give specific advice. Your profile says you're 30 years old, which is certainly old enough to explore.

So here's two baskets of advice, suggesting you choose the one that fits.

If you're single, not engaged, and not dating a woman seriously - that is, completely free of any entanglements - then I'd suggest posting a profile on any website that allows Male-Male connections. Make it clear you're bi-curious, with no experience. But for god's sake don't jump right into bottoming for anal sex - even if that's where you think you'd like to end up. There are lots of things you can do along the way there, to find out if you're really bisexual (that is, enjoying sexual contact with both men and women). Go slow, not excruciatingly slow; if you'd normally not expect to get into fucking with a woman until, say, the third date, then that's not a bad benchmark to use when starting out with guys. (A lot of guys WILL move much faster with each other, of course, but you don't have to sign on for that right away.)

If you're attached in some form - you owe your wife/partner/girlfriend some honesty. Not necessarily a lot of detail, but I absolutely wouldn't go chasing bottoming for anal sex unless/until you're solidly sure that's not going to implode your relationship/marriage. Few things are as unsettling to *most* women in relationships as finding out their husband/boyfriend/partner likes to get fucked up the ass by men. Almost certainly that's guaranteed drama - and an unsettled partner dumped into that kind of drama could well lash out and tell everyone (on her way out of your life) about you.

 

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