Apps vs Bathhouse for Hungry Btms?

[cman54]

I've hooked up with as couple of guys from BBRT. They were great. Definitely we enjoyed getting fucked bare with them .

I go to a Bathhouse to. I really like the Bathhouse as it is much more anon. Alot of times no conversation at all. Which is fine with me. Some guys at Bathhouse's insist on condoms. Whatever. I normally tell the guy I would rather have his dick bare in me. A couple have ditched the condom and done me bare.

[KindaBasic]

For me it is bathhouses and adult theaters without a doubt. I live out in the burbs of LI at this time, and most of the time apps and websites are a waste of time. (Too many married “straight” guys out here who either flake on you or who have no real intention to meet up, just trying to live out a fantasy.) I’m in the city often, so hit baths and rarely go home without a souvenir or two. 

[DumpHere]

On 1/11/2025 at 2:09 PM, partying.hard said:

As I’m getting older, the chance of hooking up decreases.  It simply the way it happens.  At least, at the baths, they see what they are getting.

I’ve quit inviting strangers to my home. Too many things disappear or guys just aren’t respectful. Overall, my best to get a cheap sleazy motel room. I move in Friday afternoon and book to Monday morning.  

Can you get sleazy gay porn in motels?  Specific recommendations in LA?

[sluttyjimmy]

They both have their pros and cons.

As I have gotten older, finding guy's legitimately interested in my ass on apps has become more challenging, usually because guys are looking for younger and hotter guys.  As always, I need to filter through the flakes, but I can do that in the comfort of my own home.

At the bathhouse, I definitely get loads, but sometimes guys meander and do not seem interested in getting off.  Other guys are under the influence and cannot get off or do not want to, because their desire for sex has slipped in priority in their altered state.  During these times, I find it most convenient to lie on my stomach in my room at the bathhouse, with my exposed bare-ass facing up and toward the open door,  relaxing until an interested cock arrives and takes the plunge.

I usually do a hybrid method of having guys fuck me at the bathhouse while they are around and interested.  Usually when I go to the baths, I get a room with in-and-out privileges and when it gets dull at the bathhouse, I will cruise guys on apps to go hook up with while I lie on my bed ass-up, and then return to the bathhouse once I have travelled to get a load.  On some occasions, I have cruised guys on apps while at the bathhouse and they need to travel, so they will join me at the bathhouse to fuck me.  In those cases, I am happy to cover the cost of the guy's locker, if helpful, and to increase the chances of them investing the time and effort to come to the bathhouse.