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is it just me or are the gays in this city kind of racist?


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I mean I feel like this is just the gay community in general the community has always been a bit racist paying attention to only the cis white gays while ignoring POCs even tho we owe all of our right to our trans brothers and sisters of colour. 

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Someone once mentioned "An average white guy is often preferable to [insert race here]" and I think about that a lot.  

I get a response to maybe 10% of the messages I send out. No response is actually better than some of the actual responses I sometimes get. Also, look at any porn site. It's 90% white guys, the interracial section is solely black/white, and there is a tiny selection of other races. I think it says a lot.

 

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Believe it or not, things are actually getting a lot better now compared to the 80’s and 90’s.  I came out in 1981 and there was hardly any POC in town and very few people would even consider having sex with someone of different ethnicity back then.  Yes there will always be sexual preferences and there will always be people that don’t want to have anything to do with us. My advice is that don’t get discouraged by this and just be yourself. You will always find someone who sees us as who we are and appreciates us. 

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