Partyleather Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Recently, I have been started playing with this hot guy in his early 30’s with big thick dick. He likes to throat fuck me first before pushing his big dick and big dildos in my ass. The problem is that I am a very small guy so my mouth is not that big either. When I am sucking his cock, I struggle to prevent my teeth from scratching his cock once it gets fully hard. It is simply that I cannot open my mouth wide enough to suck his cock comfortably. That gets me nervous. Furthermore, he likes his cock deep in my throat. Of course, that makes me gag. He doesn’t mind me gagging very much but he complains that my tongue starts to push up against his cock when he is throat fucking me. As a result, my tongue closes up the space inside my mouth and blocks his cock from going further down my throat. I kept trying to push my tongue down but apparently it was quite hard to do so and couldn’t do it. That frustrated the guy. I have been testing myself at home by pushing my fingers in the mouth and place them on my tongue. I notice that my tongue does automatically push up against my fingers. I am wondering if anyone has any suggestions or exercise I could do so that my tongue would lay flat when it feels foreign objects in my mouth? Also, what can I do so that I don’t gag too easily when I am being throat fucked? Honestly, I have been known as a great cock sucker when the other guy’s cock is of average or smaller size. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CumdumpAmsterdam Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 8 minutes ago, Partyleather said: As a result, my tongue closes up the space inside my mouth and blocks his cock from going further down my throat. That is exactly the purpose of your gag reflex. To get it out. Our body is beautifully designed to have such reflexes, but in some situations it is not very useful. The only option is to simply gain control over your gag reflex. There are a number of techniques available on the internet. If you do it every day for a week you will already have great results. My personal advice would be to buy one of those thin, flexible dildo's. They are most comfortable 😉 I have been training my throat for over 10 years now. No more gag reflex left. Good luck! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallbootsleather Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 I DO AGREE WITH AMSTERDAM THAT PRACTICING WITH THE DILDO WILL DEFINITELY HELP TO IMPROVE YOUR PERFORMANCE. FUCK YES! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topblkmale Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 what you consider a big thick dick matters with regards to throat fucking also everyone is a great cocksucker of small dicks practicing on a non-flexible dildo would be better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1Exhibitionist Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 I suggest using your toothbrush to help desensitize your gag reflex. After brushing your teeth, brush your tongue - especially at the back of your throat to trigger the gag reflex. Your mouth and back of throat should start to be less sensitive or more accustomed to an object in that area. I have incorporated this practice into my daily oral hygiene regimen. I have read there is also a pressure point in your hand that supposedly suppresses the gag reflex when sucking cock; I have not tried this method, but am looking forward to testing it out soon. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wh0rehole Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 After a couple of years of not playing like I used to, my gag flex returned. I have been using these 2 toys to help train it. It's been a long, slow process, but we're getting there! [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-short-plug-supersoft-graphite [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-supersoft-graphite 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CumdumpAmsterdam Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 3 hours ago, wh0rehole said: [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-supersoft-graphite Yes, that is the one I ment. Good one for gag reflex training! Very addictive 😉 Just keep fucking the bent where the mouth meets your throat. But keep in mind: you are training to gain control over your gag reflex first. It doesn't need to disappear 😉 It takes longer to train. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Partyleather Posted April 24 Author Report Share Posted April 24 7 hours ago, wh0rehole said: After a couple of years of not playing like I used to, my gag flex returned. I have been using these 2 toys to help train it. It's been a long, slow process, but we're getting there! [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-short-plug-supersoft-graphite [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-supersoft-graphite 7 hours ago, wh0rehole said: After a couple of years of not playing like I used to, my gag flex returned. I have been using these 2 toys to help train it. It's been a long, slow process, but we're getting there! [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-short-plug-supersoft-graphite [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.mr-s-leather.com/square-peg-toys-the-slim-supersoft-graphite Thanks for your suggestion! Just rushed to Mr. S site and bought one! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Partyleather Posted April 24 Author Report Share Posted April 24 12 hours ago, 1Exhibitionist said: I suggest using your toothbrush to help desensitize your gag reflex. After brushing your teeth, brush your tongue - especially at the back of your throat to trigger the gag reflex. Your mouth and back of throat should start to be less sensitive or more accustomed to an object in that area. I have incorporated this practice into my daily oral hygiene regimen. I have read there is also a pressure point in your hand that supposedly suppresses the gag reflex when sucking cock; I have not tried this method, but am looking forward to testing it out soon. Good idea. Thanks. I will give it a try right away. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wh0rehole Posted April 25 Report Share Posted April 25 7 hours ago, Partyleather said: Thanks for your suggestion! Just rushed to Mr. S site and bought one! I love this for you! A little tip: I've been watching porn where the bottom deep throats and sort of "matching" or playing along. It really helps! For the first time today I felt my tongue voluntarily flatten, and I was able to hold it in for a full 10 seconds before my reflex pushed it out. Every day trying to hold it in 5 seconds longer... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topblkmale Posted April 25 Report Share Posted April 25 I have a real gag reflex suppressor if anyone needs to use it. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1Exhibitionist Posted April 25 Report Share Posted April 25 1 hour ago, topblkmale said: I have a real gag reflex suppressor if anyone needs to use it. I’m certain you’ll get all types of offers, most from the wank fantasy brigade that are nowhere near your geographical location. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wh0rehole Posted April 25 Report Share Posted April 25 *starts researching flights to NYC* 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Partyleather Posted April 26 Author Report Share Posted April 26 On 4/24/2024 at 11:13 PM, wh0rehole said: I love this for you! A little tip: I've been watching porn where the bottom deep throats and sort of "matching" or playing along. It really helps! For the first time today I felt my tongue voluntarily flatten, and I was able to hold it in for a full 10 seconds before my reflex pushed it out. Every day trying to hold it in 5 seconds longer... Great suggestion. I will give it a try. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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