What's your story when you went bare with a safe-only partner?

[leakyhole]

Interestingly, like 4 out of 5 tops who were supposed to fuck me with a condom never did so, sliding their raw dicks in me in no time. Either I subconsciously select the "safe" guys who crave bareback sex or almost all men are bb pigs 😄 

One top "safe" top once told me "I just felt that you need it raw," another one told me "Look, I never play bare outside my relationship, but with you, I just had to." Who knows how many guys he told this before 😄 Anyway, most often it just flows naturally into bb fuck with no questions asked, though their profiles clearly said "Safe only" 🙂

[Tractor0773]

It was with my current boyfriend. We met on GROWLr and had been condoms only from the start, he also insisted he was only looking for sex and nothing more initially. His hole was pretty tight so I didn’t mind wearing a condom and I was coming out of a relationship where my ex had a tight cunt and would milk my cock multiple times a night, so I wanted to practise with a condom. One session, after 4 months of knowing each other and getting closer, he was particularly slutty. Whilst rimming him he was pushing his arse up and fucking himself on my tongue. I was super horny too and started grinding my cock against his hole. Normally I’d grind for a bit then put the condom but it had been ages since I’d pushed inside a hole bareback so I decided to try my luck. Pushing just the tip in I heard him moan and push back more onto my cock. Taking this as a sign of consent, I started shallowly thrusting inside of him, until eventually I was fucking him relatively hard. After a while I got nervous and pulled out, then asked if it was okay me barebacking him. He said, “it’s a bit too late now”, but then parted his cheeks to reveal his now slightly gaping and sloppy hole. Taking the hint I went back in and bred him deep a few minutes later. Not used a condom since. 

[clickdude]

On 5/26/2024 at 5:08 PM, leakyhole said:

Interestingly, like 4 out of 5 tops who were supposed to fuck me with a condom never did so, sliding their raw dicks in me in no time. Either I subconsciously select the "safe" guys who crave bareback sex or almost all men are bb pigs 😄 

One top "safe" top once told me "I just felt that you need it raw," another one told me "Look, I never play bare outside my relationship, but with you, I just had to." Who knows how many guys he told this before 😄 Anyway, most often it just flows naturally into bb fuck with no questions asked, though their profiles clearly said "Safe only" 🙂

I have had many of those married guys who always have a new excuse. 

[Iker80]

Happened a few times over the years. It happened when I'd just started prep and really wanted to try it. We didn't talk about condoms on the app and I show up at his place. He's teasing my hole with his dick and I'm thinking this is probably going to happen bare and getting excited. But he's trying to go in without lube so I ask if he has lube and he leaves the room, then comes back with lube and his dick with a condom on. I don't want him in me with a condom, so I clench my hole tight and don't let him in me. I figure I'll get it off and see what happens next, so I say I'll blow him and start pulling it off. He just asks me if I want bb and before I can say anything he's pulled it off, squirted on lube and is on top of me poking it in me.

[Cream4u]

I went straight from zero to bareback with my father. He turned out to be a 100% bottom.... seduced me and road my cock while I was lying on my back looking at a hardcore porn magazine with loads of horny pictures of Bi MMF couples fucking that he just had given to me. He said .. that that was better material than a comic. That was my first time having sex and instandly fucking bareback. When it happend it was the mid 70ties, I never used a condom. Because I ws instandly introduced  to bare fucking. I have used a rubber but only if the other side wanted it. I never came, unloaded because I did not like the feeling of a condom. I just looked for another bottom that did nog mentioned the use of a rubber. I do not think that my cock was the only one that my father had up his ass because he was craving almost every day to have me fucking him where possible and noticed at times that is hole was very sloppy and extreme slippery cum smelling.  He never mentioned any safe sex to me. 

Edited June 1 by Cream4u

[rock-cock-jock]

A few months ago I did an anon motel cumdump thing in Edmonton. A few hours in,  I think around 9 or 10pm, I get an email replying to one of my more tonally subdued vanilla-esque ad variations that I'd put up (gotta use different bait to catch different fish I figure). Annoyingly, it just says 'hey' but it's got a  hot af dick pic of a nice rock solid 7.5  incher that had me instantly category tag the email as a VIP  without hesitation. Based on his pubes, cock shape, hairiness and skin tone I'm like 75% confident in guessing  he's hot, Italian, probs in his low 20s, plays sports and likely straight.  I send the location deets and tell him he can come over if he's free now,  and like 45 min later he's opening up my unlocked room door.. He has me suck his cock first for a few min then as we rearranged ourselves getting into our respective positions,  he reaches into his jeans pocket for a fucking rubber. Uggggggg. Pissed me off that's for sure.

But! it just goes to show that you shouldn't count your chickens before they're hatched because I was somehow able to pull a hail mary switcheroo without him noticing so you never know what might work.  You see, after he'd been fucking me for a bit, he slipped out. At that point, I'd arced back up under the guise of trying to get him back inside, my hand luckily reached his cock before his did thus giving me a small window of opportunity.  I was stroking him while pressing his shaft against the upper part of my ass crack. My other hand quickly scooped up an overly generous dollop of vaseline and did a messy smear of our privates while still grinding and just the moment before penetration, I quickly inched the condom up and over his cock head with my thumb but kept the loose dislodged condom in place while having him penetrate me. I held on for a few more seconds then switched back down to standard face down ass up cumdump pose hoping he hadn't noticed and he'd keep fucking. He kept fucking. Yayyyyy! Luck roll checks out. It wasn't until after he'd cum (huge explosive shots that I def enjoyed feeling) and as he was pulling out he got all panicky and said that the condom had fallen off. I acted dumb (What you say? ?You're saying the condom is in my butt along with your cum?! no wayyy. But it seemed like you had that all under control and stuff, like how could that even happen?Maybe we used too much lube? Is that a thing? Things got a bit hot and sweaty back there as well. I dunno. You really didn't feel it slipping off at all? Wait, you're clean right? ) Apparently from what he then told me, he'd  always always gone safe in all his previous times and not even with his current girlfriend do  they go bareback. This was the first time that this had happened. (Oh, yikes. Well, I mean, nothing we can do right? it is what it is. On the bright side I guess, I'm for sure clean and since you are too, at least there's nothing to worry about in that regard y'know. And like, even if it wasn't exactly something we wanted or expected to happen, a part of me is a little turned on by the idea too. does that sound weird? 

(Well, I was honest in saying I was clean but as for the 7 loads of fresh stranger cum currently co-occupying my anal canal that your dick was swimming around in before cumming, well, who knows. :X )

 

No regrets. Cum is the ultimate goal for a cumdump and not ashamed to say ill do anything to get it 

[gregboi]

For me, one of the biggest turn-ons is discussing going bare with my partners beforehand, especially after we have been safe leading up to that point. The nerves, the thought of breaking that last barrier between us, making that mutual decision, the foreplay, those first few strokes, and of course that look on my partner's face when they take that first load, I love it!

Unlike my condom-to-bareback experience, which was totally spur of the moment by my boyfriend at the time, one of my greatest experiences with going bare with a safe partner was with another boyfriend a few years later, who we will call Matty. Also, keep in mind that this was before PrEP was a thing, so there was a definite element of risk to this.

By this time, Matty and I had been dating for about eight months, and we had been safe the whole time, respecting each other's limits; the sex was good, if a little routine, but we were happy. I'm a vers top, white, 5'10", thinner build, brown hair with blue eyes and twenty-six at the time, and Matty was twenty-three, primarily a bottom, also white, about 6'2", muscular, with black hair and grey eyes.

We had not moved in together yet, and he was back living with his parents for a bit while finishing school, when I came over for dinner one evening. The rest of Matty's family was upstairs, chatting and hanging out after dinner, and we had gone down to Matty's room in the basement for a little before I headed home for the night. We talked a bit, and Matty playfully had rolled on top of me, looking down with those big grey eyes, bangs falling down to shade his face, and asked if I wanted to fuck as he started grinding on my cock through my pants.

I had no intention of having sex with the whole extended family in the house, it was just too weird with his family upstairs, not to mention the chance of one of his many relatives walking in on us. I told Matty this, and he considered me for a moment or two, bent down to give me a peck on the lips, then rolled off me and agreed that having the family around was maybe not the best time to get laid. I also pointed out that we didn't have any condoms or lube, so even if we did screw, it would be bare and just with spit, unlike all the other times; when I said that, my heart did a flip at the thought of dumping a load in my boyfriend's ass, and despite my best efforts, ended up with a raging hard-on. 

My boyfriend made a little noise like he had just tasted something really good, then said that barebacking would be totally fine with him, but had to admit that without lube it wasn't going to happen, even if the family weren't there. We then talked about our sexual histories, when we had both last got tested (both negative), and decided that he would come over to my place the next afternoon, after I came home from work, and that we would go bare. 

A little while later, loaded down with leftovers from Matty's mom, I headed home, fighting a boner the whole drive. I made sure I had lots of lube, and even double checked that I had condoms in case Matty changed his mind and wanted to stay safe; the thought of getting to finally bareback my boyfriend was just such a massive turn-on, that I ended up cranking out a load before bed, even though I wanted to try and keep it all for the next night.

The next afternoon, I got home, cleared the bed off, put out the lube, but kept the condoms in the bedside table drawer. I had just finished dimming the room when I got a text from Matty saying that he was just leaving home, and would be over shortly. I was buzzing with excitement the whole fifteen minutes or so it took for Matty to arrive, and I damn near sprinted to the intercom when he buzzed my code to get in. Finally, a knock at the door, and I let in my big lug of a boyfriend into the apartment, and after he took his shoes and jacket off, I pulled him in for a deep kiss, then led him to the bedroom.

We decided to do it the way we usually did, taking our time, making things sensual with lots of making out, groping and dirty talk. Soon, Matty was down to a tight-fitting set of briefs, laying on his back, while I was totally naked, on my knees between his legs, as hard has I had ever been. I lay down over top Matty, my cock grinding against his through the briefs, our breath hot against each other's faces, his legs wrapping around me as we made out.

"You want me to fuck you bareback?" I breathed, our foreheads pressed together, and all Matty could respond with was a breathy "Yeah."

I gave him one more deep-tongue kiss before I kissed and licked my way down Matty's lightly haired chest, stopping briefly to run my tongue around the edge of his bellybutton, before hooking my fingers on the waistband of his briefs. Matty's good sized cock caught as I slid them down, then hit his stomach with a smack as I pushed his legs up to his chest to finish taking them off. Now we were both stark naked, rock hard, cocks oozing freely.

Matty brought himself up onto his knees then wrapped me up in a bear hug while I groped his big, firm ass, our cocks pressed together, my head tilted back as Matty tried to stick his tongue down my throat. After a bit, Matty said he wanted to suck my cock before we actually fucked, so I stood beside the bed as he got down and easily deep-throated me, and it took all my self-control not to blast my load down his throat. For both of us, oral was fun, but it was never the main event, and it wasn’t sex unless it involved cocks in asses.  

I pulled back from the brink, reached down, and helped Matty up so he was sitting on the bed, and we could make out again for a bit. I asked Matty of he was ready, and he responded wordlessly with a nod and those big “fuck me” eyes, so I gently pushed him down onto his back, got onto the bed, and manoeuvred us both so I was again kneeling between his legs. Running my hands down his thick, hairy legs, I grabbed them by the knees and pushed them up to Matty’s chest, then kept pushing until his asshole was pointing straight at the ceiling.

Matty’s hole was staring back at me as I pulled his cheeks as far apart as I could, then leaned in and softly traced the edge with my tongue. I kissed and licked my way to the middle, feeling Matty relax and sigh as I worked my tongue deeper inside him, then slipping a finger inside to stroke his spot, making my boyfriend gasp in pleasure. This was enough foreplay for Matty, as he quickly pulled my face from his ass, furiously made out with me, wrapping his legs and arms around me so there was no escape, even if I wanted to be let go.

Wordlessly, I reached over for the lube as Matty let go of me and pulled his legs back to show his vulnerable pink hole while I covered my bare cock with as much lube as I could before closing the bottle with a snap. I lined my raw cock up with his pouting anus, and pressed, Matty easily letting me inside before stopping at his second hole for a moment; I looked deep into his big grey eyes as I saw my boyfriend take a breath, hold it, then allowed me all the way inside of him.

That wonderful, velvety texture I had missed so much from my previous boyfriend, was there inside my man, and I quickly found Matty’s spot with my cock as he let out a gasp of pleasure. Matty pulled me in for another hug, wrapping his legs around me as I hooked my arms under his shoulders, gently rocking us back and forth as we kissed deeply. The thought of my leaking cock, deep inside his ass, our moist, delicate tissues rubbing against each other, my fluids leaking into his vulnerable guts, my cock stewing in his juices, sharing absolutely everything. It still gets me rock hard to this day!

I don’t know how long we stayed like that, but eventually I picked up the pace, sliding in and out of Matty’s hole as he whispered encouragement. When I told Matty I was going to cum, he pulled me tight as I pushed as far inside of him as I could, cumming hard enough for his eyes to go wide and let out a “fuck yeah!” as I did my best to het him pregnant.

My chest still heaving, I thought we might take a break, but Matty had other ideas. Still holding me tight with my hard cock inside of him, Matty rolled us over so I was pinned to the bed, then leaned back and rode me mercilessly as he tugged out a huge load, coating my chest in sticky white ropes as his ass rhythmically gripped my poor cock as it marinated in our mixed juices inside of him.

When it was all over, and Matty eased himself off me, we lay side by side wordlessly for some time until we went to the shower together to clean up. I want to say we went for round two later on, but the truth is that we were both totally exhausted floating on one hell of a post sex high, and I’m pretty sure Matty kept my load in him for as long as he could.

After that, it was no more condoms for us, and once we moved in together most nights ended with my load in Matty’s ass. With a little gentle persuasion, I was able to convince him to be the first guy to top me bare, and I was instantly in love with the feeling of sexy vulnerability as he squirted inside me; even with that experience, I’m still mainly a top, and happy to be one. Matty and I stayed together until he had to move for his career a couple of years later, while I had to stay put for mine, but this remains as one of my greatest sexual experiences.