Iker80

Yeah, there's always a bit of a risk, but a lot of the guys I meet are either limited experience and bi curious, or they've not had a chance to do any douching. So they either don't know about clearing out, or they haven't been able to do it cause they're meeting up right after work, etc. Well, I get horny and want to top anyway, and most the time it's completely alright. When I'm rolling around with a hot guy and my dick ends up on his hole and he says he's not got ready, I'm going to be telling him it's cool, let's just give it a try because I don't want to miss out. I don't always go deep in a guy though, if it's unknown how well prepped he is then I'm happy with a couple of inch inside him, that's plenty to feel his hot, sexy hole around me.

I like durex play lube, it's good, stays put and doesn't go sticky when you're at it for a while. The worst lube goes sticky after about 20 minutes and screws everything up. I discovered it when visiting a guy years ago. He had the vanilla scented stuff and that was annoying, but the actual lube felt great and just kept going no problem. We fucked for ages without it going sticky, just nice and smooth the whole time. Good news is they sell stuff that doesn't smell of anything.

So what's really got you attracted to him? Is he that good at saying the right things to your sub wants? The risk of it? Or because he's a cousin? Or something else? I figure that knowing what's got you so in to him is the thing that will teach you about yourself and what turns you on. If you've got to follow this idea though is a different question. You can learn about yourself from this with or without him from now on. Carrying on talking to him is a type of following this though, even if you never meet. It comes with some risk. Anyway, sounds like the general opinion here is don't do it. These guys are probably a lot wiser than me. I sometime get in to things and wonder later why I did that. Not saying I don't have fun, but sometimes it isn't as fun as I imagined. All I can say is when I take a chance with something that's part of why it's exciting, but I go in to it knowing it might go badly and I'm accepting that from the start.

Sounds hot. Knowing how 'straight guys' are I bet he'd vanish if he found out you know it's him. I'd say come over to my place and I'll be blindfolded and lying face down on the bed waiting for you. Make it clear you want to keep the blindfold on the entire time so he feels more confident there's not going to be some unexpected reveal while he's nuts deep in you. No guarantee he won't scarper when he knows it's you, but I bet he'll top. He wants hole and cash. Well, that's what I'd do if he's just a horny douche, but if you think he's actually sketchy in some way then I'd block him. Sketchy guys might be hot but it's not worth it if they get weird. Anyway, these straight guys are twitchy, you'll probably need to keep up the whole thing like you have no idea who he is so he doesn't freak out and shut everything down. Even if you meet ten times don't let on you know it's him.

I think a guy who looks at least late 30s, masculine look and personality and usually has a good full beard or goatee. Body hair and greys help. But extra dilf points if the guy is an actual dad. As a teenager I wanted a load of my mates dads, so I love having some down low bi dad top me and knowing he's got good sperm as I feel his hot cum spurting inside me. So, if you've got some of this going on you can be an early dilf, which isn't a bad thing.

I like scruff for a bunch of reasons. Sounds like the app works better too. I've still got a grindr I drop in and out of occasionally, but yeah, it's doing weird stuff and not sending messages a lot and I have to try again a few times.

I was getting quotes for electric work couple of weeks back and had some hot guys turn up. Maybe some of them would be up for it, but who knows. They're on good behavior at work. And they don't know I'm bi. One guy was interesting though. A kinda handsome guy, next door kind of man in uniform that looked good on him. He showed up at the end of the workday, he was sweaty smelling and had this all over the place energy. I'd guess ADHD. I've got it myself, it looked familiar. I had to keep saying we've got to focus on a thing before moving on. So I show him around as much as you can with a guy like that and he sees a copy of a gay magazine. Then it got interesting. He asked me if I've got a girlfriend or boyfriend. Ok, I can work with that. I say I've broken up with my boyfriend. Never had one, but whatever, I'm just saying the right stuff. Then he asks me how we met. Maybe he's just a curious guy, but I sensed a bit of something. Problem was he was heading out the door and in the apartment hall at this point. I didn't want to say lots with neigbours about. I wanted to say on a hookup app to get the idea of hooking up on the table, but I just said online. If he'd held back in the apartment longer we could have talked a bit more. Problem I've got is I'm big and hairy so everyone guesses I'm always top and rough, so maybe not what he wanted. But I'd have blown him or let him top if that's what he wanted. I was tempted to hire him to get another chance at it, but he was expensive and who knows what my electrics would have turned out like. If I need any more work I'll give him a call, see what happens then

No big deal. When I top my bottom's dick isn't super important. I know how to connect with a guy and tease and fuck his hole properly and we don't need anything else. Some guys will get hard and teasing his dick is part of the experience, but only enough for him enjoy being fucked more, not to take over from it. I'm not going to wank a guy to cumming when I'm topping him. Other guys don't get hard and I don't do much with his dick. It's cool, there's the whole guy to connect and interact with. Some guys their dick just shuts down when they're being fucked. Totally normal for him and doesn't mean anything to worry about. It's all good. I'm top and we only need my dick. On the other side, when I get fucked I don't need to cum or anything I'm just happy how good my hole feels. Even if I don't have a prostate orgasm the feeling is great. I think maybe talking about cancer is a bit too real for guys on apps? Which is dumb, but app guys like it simple and horny. I find wearing a jockstrap and keeping it on means a guy doesn't want his dick bothered, just top him. At least that's the unspoken rule here. Or lie face down and let your top ride you. Saying you want that might get you tops who aren't interested in you getting hard.

I'll top all kinds of guys when we're feeling good about doing it and got the chance. Otters and bears are hot though, if I'm at a club or looking on an app they're the guys I'm usually going to go to. Love a guy with some good body hair and beard. Slim, chunky or muscle is cool. Can't tell you the exact thing that gets me in to a guy, it varies, but those things always help. A nice hairy butt and hole are always hot, so definitely more an otter or bear kinda guy for me. But I also love a sexy daddy. And some of the older ones have super fuckable butts, the kind that feel like they melt around you as you slide your dick in. The first guy like this I topped without a condom was amazing. He felt so hot and sexy around me. I had to keep slowing down so I didn't cum in him too soon. Handsome guy I'd say yes to in any situation, but wow, his hole is something else. You can tell he's been topped so many times his hole can take a dick with zero resistance, but it's still so hot, tight and intimate. I've been lucky and met a small number of guys with holes like this and they've mostly been hot older daddies, the kind of guy who have been getting topped a lot for years.

Same, I don't think anyone really cares. Frankly, every guy is going around with something in his pants that could make my ass feel amazing, so I'm not looking for reasons not to have him fuck me. If the guy is right for me, let's just do it already,

Yeah, I feel it. There's the throbbing and the hot liquid feeling, that's what I always feel. Actual squirts though depends on the guy. If they're big squirts then I'll feel them.

It's kind of complicated. And what's ugly? Sure some guys look like models and some are conventionally handsome, but is everything else ugly. Attraction isn't all about what society says is good looking. I've been hard for all kinds of guys and had fun with them. Beastly hairy guys, scruffy guys, just guys that aren't exactly handsome to society but are doing it for me. I've got to like how a guy looks, but his energy, like way of being is important. Situation too, that's a big deal. Getting cruised by workmen is great, I'd have fun doing that with all kinds of guys I might not want to get up to stuff with in any other situation.

No big reason it was just a gap between filling prescriptions when traveling. And I got randomly horny and found a guy online. He was hot and we just got each other, we connected great, so it happened easily with him.

There's been a few homeless/hostel guys over the past few years. I actually met one at the hostel after I'd been out at a bar. I saw him nearby on scruff. We swapped pics, but he wasn't very talkative. I was horny though, profile said bottom, and he was a good looking guy, so when he said come over I figured I'd give it a try. He let me in and we went to a room with multiple beds, but nobody else was around. Hard to say his exact age because he was handsome but kind of rough. I'd guess 30. White guy with dark hair and stubble in a hoodie and jeans. Kinda lean build and not much shorter than me. He was a bit beat up with scratches on side of his face and back of his hands. I didn't ask him about those. He seemed chill and was drinking beer. We had the usual small talk when you first meet a guy you're planning to do stuff with and then we kissed. Started slow but after a bit we kind of went in to the zone where the kissing is so good you could do it for hours. I remember rolling around with him, feeling his lean body against me through our clothes, kissing softly, hard, slow, fast, and every kiss was great. We just kissed a long time and rolled around different positions, stroked each other's dicks through our jeans. It was cold in the building and we were getting close to keep warm. Ended up with me spooning him and kissing. We were still wearing all our clothes because of the cold, but I pulled his jeans down to play with his dick and balls. He had big chunky balls and a tapered dick that was very thick at the base and slim at the tip. Would have been interesting to bottom with him. Things went pretty quick from there, I pulled my jeans down too and started teasing his hole with my dick. His crack had thick soft hair that felt great around my helmet, and then I found his hole. In the cold air his hold felt intensely hot so it was easy to hit the target. I asked him if he had any lube and condoms, he said no. I was on a break from prep at the time so would have wrapped. I just couldn't take my dick off his hole though, it was way too warm and inviting. So I'm still teasing his hole and precumming like crazy because it feels so good. I'm telling myself I won't go too deep, I'll stop soon. Yeah right. Things just happened from there, as his hole got wetter I started dipping inside and eventually we were fucking. Just the tip easily becomes the whole pole. He's one of very few guys I've done it totally unprotected with, but I wanted to have the experience with him. It was a mix of just physical fucking and making love, thrusting and grunting, then sexy kissing as we spooned. I eventually wanked him off while I was inside him and his orgasm contractions as he leaked cum all over the bed made me cum too. Awesome guy, I hope he's made a lot of tops as happy as I was that night. I never saw him again though, but we messaged a bit and he was far away.

Hot story! I love filling up a sexy guy with hot piss and feeling him enjoying it.

I've seen the number too. I think the big thing is it's for each time you have sex with a detectable guy and he tops and cums inside. It's an average so some stuff will make it more likely to transmit. I bet longer time fucking has an effect. But even going with a flat 1.4% that's low, but not super low. You might find a guy online who's at a hotel and do it one evening, stay the night and get fucked again in the morning. If he's detectable that gives about 3% chance, and if he was great in bed and you get in one more fuck before he goes home you're closer to 5% now.

Deep down I've always been really chill about things, sex included. If it's a hot idea and doesn't hurt anyone, why not? This takes me to places and situations that sound dirty and pig, but it's all just fun.

But are they hot? If they're hot I wouldn't care, I'd smash, but that's just me and my dick. Even if they're not that hot topping asshole guys can be weirdly hot, it's good to dominate a guy that's pissing me off. I've been horny for some guys mostly because I just want to fuck the asshole. If I didn't want a group thing with them I'd just get them one at at a time, tell them I want them face down, no messing around and just get on top and hard fuck. Definitely rawdog, use my weight to pin him and grunt dirty things in his ear. I told one asshole guy I was fucking him because I'd lost my fleshlight, and that I'm going to make a big disgusting cummy mess inside him and he'll have more of my sperm in him than his own. Personally I love getting cum in, but I play the angry straight guy who thinks cum is gross to make them feel dirty when I fill them up. They'll either get hooked on it or they'll never do it again, but it's all good, no matter how they annoy you in the future you'll both know about that time you pounded him and left a big messy load of cum in him.

Yeah, just today I was talking with a guy then discovered he's someone I kind of know at work. Well he gives me the creeps, you know, gut instinct bad vibes, so I blocked him soon as I realised. Not a very sexy story! I'll be more careful in future though as there were clues who he was before he sent a photo.

Diet matters a lot. I eat 100% plant based, mostly wholefood, and I'm usually good to go with no prep and no problems. In the past when cleaning inside I found the main thing was to not use loads of water. Using loads of water just goes deeper and deeper, way deeper than your guy will ever go, and it becomes endless. And uncomfortable. By this point I'd be pissed off with it all and uncomfortable and just want to stay home and watch TV with the dogs.

Cold weather I'll have a coat so plenty of room for pocket junk like my phone, wallet, beer opener, etc. Always keep a couple of lube sachets in there and a condom in case I meet a guy who wants to use one. All good to go if anything happens out and about. Summer time I like cargo pants with lots of pockets for all the stuff. They're great for hooking up too, it's easy to just pull out some lube while making out. I find with some guys you've got to seize the moment before they over think getting topped, so having a pack of lube in grabbing distance when you're teasing their hole is good.

That after the fuck feeling when my hole is sensitive and juicy, that's a big deal for me. It feel good for hours. Sometimes I lie on my side or back with my legs up and just squeeze clench my butt over and over again so I can feel that juicy, slippery feeling teasing my hole until I have a prostate orgasm. I guess it's like wanking my butt. Never been able to do it with anything other than real cum though. There's the big mental thing with sex, it's knowing there's real cum in me. Awesome, glad you're enjoying it. You're right too, he was teasing my straight guy fantasy. Usually guys have to put in work to get in my pants. But then a straight guy shows up and I get horny and that goes out the window. They just have a hot way of being and something about them being so horny they'll top anything turns me on. Yeah, there's all kinds of stuff in cum. I think there's mind altering molecules that make you feel good in there. I like thinking about that too when a guy is inside me, and later when I can still feel his cum. Sounds like sperm can keep doing their thing swimming around for a decent amount of time. Good to know!

If there's a nice ass, I'm good. But it depends on the guy really. Some guys like to kiss and be spooned, which is hot. A lot of the guys I find local are not out and they're pretty straight to the point with it and just want to get fucked, so they'll lie on their stomach for me to get on top, or on their back, and they just want me to stick it in and pump until I cum. I also like a good missionary session with the right kind of guy. Intimacy is the best for me, but if a guy is hot I'll say yes to whatever kind of session he'll do.

That all sounds weird to me. Just ignoring stuff doesn't make sense. I figure you either got it from a guy you won't see again, or it's from a partner and he'll hopefully get tested and treated if he needs it because you tell him about it. Either way, getting treated makes sense.

I had a fun experience with a guy yesterday. I'd been casually wanking my dick through my jeans and thinking about having a guy in me all evening. The idea wasn't going away. My butt needed that feeling way more than ever before. So I went online to see who was around. I found some guys I liked and talked a bit but nobody was free. Then a guy comes up about 300m away, looking now, and he's my type. No full face pic, but I can see a thick beard, muscular guy, bit shorter than me and one pic he's in some kind of security guard uniform. All cool for me, but he's looking for fem. A lot of guys are now looking for trans and fem, which rules me out. I'm a big hairy hockey player, so not a match. Whatever though, he's nearby, my type and I want to just get some dick in me because my hole is hot for it. I want to know how it feels when I want it that bad. I message and tell him I know I'm not his type but I'm horny and will be cool to just lie down, pull my jeans down and let him do it. He doesn't reply. After a while I say hey, it's ok if not, but it's free man hole, I'll come to him, no strings, just enjoy it. He replied that time and we talked a bit. Turns out he's a mostly straight guy who wanted to try with a t-girl or fem boy his first time and riding a tall hairy guy with a beard was way off plan for him. Fair enough. He starts sending me dick pics though so something is going on. Eventually I end up at his place and we have a very awkward greeting at the door and showing to the bedroom where I lie down and pull my jeans down. He's a hot guy though and my hole is still eager. He asked about a condom and turns out neither of us had any. He's unsure, I say it's ok, just tease the entrance, it's warm and feels good on your dick. He gets on top, dick out, but isn't performing well, for a bit. He keeps trying to wank it and harden up. But I'm horny and it's just good to feel some dick on my hole. Eventually he's hard and I can see in the mirror his eyes are closed and he's doing his thing, poking inside a bit. It feels nice. I say it's good but we're going to need some lube. He pulls some out the drawer, lubes up and goes back to work, and drops the tube on the bed. It's conception lube, the stuff that helps sperm live longer. This was hot and unexpected. I guess I know what he's been up to lately with his wife or gf and why there's no condoms in the house. I'm enjoying him inside me and watching in the mirror as this guy is pumping inside me, eyes closed, imagining whatever he likes. He started out just teasing my hole, but fucked me properly in the end and when he finished I felt him throbbing and spurting cum inside me. Later that night I was lying in bed and could feel his cum and thinking maybe his sperm are still swimming around in me. I'm thinking about it again and I don't know how long sperm can live inside a guy like that? I know they can live for a few days inside a woman, but in a guy, has that ever been figured out?