Suggestions to get hard

[Guest]

I want to top/breed a younger Asian who is very interested in me, but I can't get hard... any suggestions?

[Searchingforit]

Cialis works wonders 

[BBBxCumDumpster]

I keep a fistful handy for my FBs. They do work wonders.

[tallslenderguy]

7 hours ago, voyeurbtm2 said:

I want to top/breed a younger Asian who is very interested in me, but I can't get hard... any suggestions?

i think it depends on why you cannot get hard?  Sex is physical, but it's also hugely affected by cognition and emotion.  

i get rock hard when a Top talks to me about wanting to breed me, use my hole, inseminate me, piss on/in me, etc.. (my list is pretty long lol).

 If a guy wants me to fuck him? No response.  Even when i want to try, nothing. i love Mens asses, they are one of my favorite parts of Their anatomy, a huge turn on, but i have no desire/need to penetrate.  Even getting sucked.  i've had FB's where i allow getting sucked, but it really does little to nothing for me. i will get sort of hard while it's happening if i don't think about it, but any focus on my penis as a penetrative organ, it goes flaccid. 

i do think meds like viagra can help, but i also think there can be a placebo effect in play with those drugs. 

[Guest]

8 hours ago, voyeurbtm2 said:

I want to top/breed a younger Asian who is very interested in me, but I can't get hard... any suggestions?

Obviously, as others have already recommended the ED medicine would be your first Go To solution. Almost instant gratification and minor side-effects. 

I did experiment with various ED drugs a decade ago: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra and something else I can´t remember. It did work as advertised at that time as I could stay hard for hours. Which for a vers guy like me was not a bad thing. However, the difference between a hard on with and without ED drugs was minimal for me. Aside from the novelty factor and a wee bit longer erections it didn´t do much for me and so I stopped taking them. 

But I have a few good friends who like to top from time to time and are finding that Cialis and Levitra work for them. They do take these ED drugs because it helps them get and maintain a good hard-on for some time. I don't know the underlying medical condition why they have been prescribed these drugs but I know they work (I've seem them in action LOL).

Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you should first check with your doctor. I see that you list your location as Canada. I am aware that some waiting times to see your family doctor are atrocious these days (depending where you live), but it would make much more sense to talk to your doctor as some other medication you take may interfere one way or another with the ED drugs. Just be upfront with your doctor and tell them in clear what seems to be the bother.

My other two cents advice is not to rely on popular opinion regarding any drugs. Let your doctor decide what medication and dosage you should use as there are underlying conditions which may affect the efficiency and suitability of one drug vs another. Also, ask the doctor to try different brands and dosages as they think it is safe for you. Some people respond better to a specific brand or dosage. This is one of the cases where what's good for the goose it may not be so good for the, well, your pecker 🙂 

And as a last piece of wisdom... Do not mix poppers with any of the ED pills. Potentially lethal. If you insist on poppers, talk to your doctor about injectable/ locally applied treatment, such as Caverject, Trimix, or similar. 

Let us know how the breeding goes. Happy fucks!

 

Edited June 6 by EuRawBull

[BlueSaphir]

I been asked a couple of times to top. But I said no. Cause I’m not interested of penetrating. I have to be the one penetrated and be receptive role. 

[tallslenderguy]

 

On 6/5/2024 at 10:49 PM, voyeurbtm2 said:

I want to top/breed a younger Asian who is very interested in me, but I can't get hard... any suggestions?

A bit more...

Beyond the chemical component of an added, external drug (i.e., the cognitive and emotional elements).

The fact that you "want to top/breed," to me speaks of a part of you that is not bottom.  As i see it, the sexual spectrum is infinitely individual, and can be fluid (for some more than others).  i wonder if you've been habitually bottom, and if you maybe psych yourself out, fearing you cannot get hard can keep you from getting hard. Do you wake up hard? Or do you get hard when not really thinking about it? That would indicate that, physiologically, you can get hard.  If that's the case, then i'd suggest that you keep nurturing your desire to breed this guy, fantasize, masturbate, imagine, etc., fucking and breeding this guy to sorta overwhelm your habitual practice of being a bottom?  i'm totally speculating here, just some thoughts. 

[Guest]

On 6/7/2024 at 12:27 PM, tallslenderguy said:

 

A bit more...

Beyond the chemical component of an added, external drug (i.e., the cognitive and emotional elements).

The fact that you "want to top/breed," to me speaks of a part of you that is not bottom.  As i see it, the sexual spectrum is infinitely individual, and can be fluid (for some more than others).  i wonder if you've been habitually bottom, and if you maybe psych yourself out, fearing you cannot get hard can keep you from getting hard. Do you wake up hard? Or do you get hard when not really thinking about it? That would indicate that, physiologically, you can get hard.  If that's the case, then i'd suggest that you keep nurturing your desire to breed this guy, fantasize, masturbate, imagine, etc., fucking and breeding this guy to sorta overwhelm your habitual practice of being a bottom?  i'm totally speculating here, just some thoughts. 

Great analysis of my thoughts... yes I do keep thinking of breeding this guy and have great orgasms from those lusty thoughts, but for me to be hard I do need a lot of desire because of my diabetes and prostate meds.  I was thinking another thing to increase my sexual urge will be to have my other young friend to join in fucking this younger Asian guy because I get so turned on watching guys being fucked and bred in front of me - escpecially if it's someone I really like.  I get totally turned on knowing others want hardcore sex with the guy I like.  The complicating issue is my other young friend is not only a top, but a non-medicated poz top.

[Guest]

On 6/6/2024 at 7:16 AM, EuRawBull said:

Obviously, as others have already recommended the ED medicine would be your first Go To solution. Almost instant gratification and minor side-effects. 

I did experiment with various ED drugs a decade ago: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra and something else I can´t remember. It did work as advertised at that time as I could stay hard for hours. Which for a vers guy like me was not a bad thing. However, the difference between a hard on with and without ED drugs was minimal for me. Aside from the novelty factor and a wee bit longer erections it didn´t do much for me and so I stopped taking them. 

But I have a few good friends who like to top from time to time and are finding that Cialis and Levitra work for them. They do take these ED drugs because it helps them get and maintain a good hard-on for some time. I don't know the underlying medical condition why they have been prescribed these drugs but I know they work (I've seem them in action LOL).

Anyway, what I am trying to say is that you should first check with your doctor. I see that you list your location as Canada. I am aware that some waiting times to see your family doctor are atrocious these days (depending where you live), but it would make much more sense to talk to your doctor as some other medication you take may interfere one way or another with the ED drugs. Just be upfront with your doctor and tell them in clear what seems to be the bother.

My other two cents advice is not to rely on popular opinion regarding any drugs. Let your doctor decide what medication and dosage you should use as there are underlying conditions which may affect the efficiency and suitability of one drug vs another. Also, ask the doctor to try different brands and dosages as they think it is safe for you. Some people respond better to a specific brand or dosage. This is one of the cases where what's good for the goose it may not be so good for the, well, your pecker 🙂 

And as a last piece of wisdom... Do not mix poppers with any of the ED pills. Potentially lethal. If you insist on poppers, talk to your doctor about injectable/ locally applied treatment, such as Caverject, Trimix, or similar. 

Let us know how the breeding goes. Happy fucks!

 

For sure the ED meds will be something for me to utilize to ensure my raw urges to breed this young Asian is accomplished.