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[BBear89]

(Hope I’ve posted this in the correct area)
 

Do you feel that as you’ve gotten older you are much more sexually interested in what’s not really classed as the normal?

Im 35 now and the last couple of years I’ve really started enjoying working my hole with dildos and toys.

Even to the point now I would much rather a guy come round to spend time opening me up, stretching my hole and dildo-ing the life out of me (and maybe a fist) then him to come round just to fuck me. 
im finding myself much less interested (if any) in having a cock in my hole. 
 

I much more enjoy the pleasure of feeling my hole being stretched then I do of a smaller real cock (let’s be honest, there’s VERY VERY VERY few cocks that can be as long and thick as a nice girthy 12” dildo)

He’s more then welcome to fuck me once I’ve gotten what I want but I’d be just as happy if he didn’t fuck me. 
 

Am I alone in this? 

Like I say this is only really something from the last couple of years, I use to love getting fucked, but I guess for me, it just didn’t really give the max pleasure I know I can receive….

let me know your thoughts.

Edited November 21 by BBear89
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[HVLpoz88]

I think it’s just natural progression - we hone our likes as time goes by, and that’s a good thing, I’d say.

[hungry_hole]

There are more older guys into kink than younger ones. So when a young kinky twink shows up at the sauna there are lots of guys interested in breeding.

[drm1234]

I would 100% agree that my sexual interests have broadened as I've gotten older.   I think it's a natural progression of becoming comfortable with your sexuality and what feels good.   I find I'm much more open to trying new experiences than I was when I was in my 20s.  I'm also a lot more comfortable in my body.   I'm far less hung up on my physical looks.   I've come to realize that no matter what body type you have,  there's guys out there who will think you're hot, even if you don't think you are.   

[norefusal]

1. i've had so much sex w so many people over the years, i now need something new, edgier etc vanilla just don't cut it anymore

2. ive probably always been a depraved slut (born this way) but becoming an adult, losing your cherry, coming out ... these were all big deals. i just wasn't emotionally ready to be my true true self yet. baby steps 😜

[jXsluT]

I always need  thick hung cocks that r attached to trashy pig tops with bad habits and a sick mind