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[BoxersTop]

I am usually a top, but every once in a while I crave a my boyfriend's hard dick and cum in my ass. The problem is it takes way too long to get his dick in. He has a pretty thick cock so once its in its great, but it hurts for the first few minutes. I'm looking for advice on how to loosen my hole so I can get fucked more easily. This seems like the perfect place to get advice.

When I fuck him he just lets it slide in. He says it hurts but then pulls me all the way in. But then again I fuck him on a regular basis. When he fucks me he has to put it in a little, take it out, put it in a little more, take it out. By the time it starts to feel loose and good he is about ready to cum inside me.

I'm not into using poppers or anything. No problem with them. Just don't want to. Any advice regarding toys, stretching, and butt plugs?

Edited September 16, 2011 by Hotload84

[slowfuck]

Hello and welcome. Practice makes perfect and if he has lots of experience his hole will be used to just opening up through a combination of relaxing the muscles and gentle push out with his ring. You said he "just lets it slide in" which is the key. As he feels your cock push at his ring he will relax and push his ring out to meet it, and keep doing that as your cock pushes deeper. Try doing that with his cock. Relax your hole and use lots of lube - get him to finger you first, one finger then two, then as he's thick, three, slowly, to open you up. Then get get him to replace his fingers with his cock relax and you should have more time to enjoy the feelings before he pumps you full of his hot creamy cum. That's my take on it. You can practice with dildos learn to control your arse muscles on your own, but ideally ask him how he does it, and ask him to give you plenty of patient practice. Enjoy!

[BoxersTop]

Great thanks! Good advice. I got a hard on just thinking about it. Can't wait to try out this method...guess I was thinking he can take it easily so I should be able to too!

[bttmboy4daddy]

If you are having trouble taking a cock, try using a different lube. Personally, I cannot take a cock using water-based lubes, and I've talked to a couple bottoms that had issues with silicone based lubes. Switching from a water based lube to an oil based one can make a world of difference. Even just going from one brand of lube to another can make a big difference, so if you don't want to try a different type of lube, just try a different brand.