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Never pissed myself, but I've had a few embarassing fuck-farts (usually when the top pulls out after a rough fucking). Really nothing you can do but laugh and move on.

I think wealth brings more options when it comes to sexual partners, which can improve the sex lives of rich men. Plus they can afford toys, fetish gear, drugs, etc to enhance the experience. Are rich guys better in bed as far as performance goes? No, they aren't any better or worse than the average Joe. (I had a couple of wealthy sugar-daddies in my younger days, so I am speaking from experience.) Intelligent people tend to be better educated (but not always). For most men, arousal is mostly mental, so a partner who is smart, attentive, and a bit creative will be better in bed. So it's not the college degree (or the money it brings) that makes a guy a better fuck, it's the brain that helped him get the degree that makes him a better fuck. Successful guys tend to be more driven/passionate, and a bit adventurous. That can mean better sex. So to answer your question, no, wealth/success/education don't (in themselves) make sex better. However, some of the traits that help bring about wealth/success/education can make a man better in bed.

A quick rinse doesn't always work for me. I'm not sure if it's due to me having a very high metabolism (I am naturally thin but eat about twice as much as most people I know) or due to something entirely unrelated, but food seems to move rapidly through my system, so a rinse that would keep another bottom clean for an evening just doesn't cut it for me. I usually take about 3 hours to clean out (I like to get squeaky, ass to mouth clean, and know I will stay that way for several hours). I go in the shower, use the hose, rinse out as deep as I can several times over like 20 minutes, take like a 30 to 40 minute break, then repeat the process. Usually the first rinse cycle gets rid of about 90% of what's in my bowels, the 2nd cycle gets rid of the remainder (water usually starts running totally clear halfway through the 2nd cycle), and the 3rd cycle is just me making 100% sure I am clean. Sometimes a 4th cycle is required if anything comes out in the 3rd cycle. If my system is upset, I just don't play that night. I did like 5 cycles once when I was going to be getting barebacked live on webcam, even though I knew I was clean, I was nervous so I did an extra couple of cycles. I've had guys tell me I'm crazy and cleaning out doesn't take more than 15 minutes or whatever. Several of these guys have bottomed for me (or had me use dildos on them), and they turned out to not be clean at all, so it's pretty clear they had no fucking clue what they were talking about. For me, cleaning out takes time and effort. If a top doesn't accept that, they are free to go fuck another bottom and risk getting shit-cock. There's more bottoms than tops, but for every one top that sneers at me for taking hours to clean out, there are 2 more who respect and appreciate the time I put into making sure my hole is clean and ready for them to bareback. So even if some guys laugh at me for it, I'll keep cleaning my way, thanks.

Tall, thin, white bottom, mid 20s. Looking for a guy (or couple) with a medium to large sized male dog. I'd like to come over to your place, maybe smoke some weed, and get fucked by the dog (would love to try taking the knot too) while you watch. I am okay with a small group watching, or even having it filmed (I would wear a mask). If you want to bareback my ass beforehand to get it opened up for the dog, even better. Anywhere in MA or nearby New England is possible, but the closer to Plymouth/Cape Cod area, the better.

I like a top to slap his cock on my face while I suck his balls, especially if he gets verbal. Let's you know right away that once he gets in your ass, you're in trouble. Love it!

Poppers tend to give me severe migraines almost as soon as I smell the fumes. I can't play with a guy who uses them. I usually get sick to my stomach as well. However, I don't think they cause nosebleeds. Maximum Impact can be good. I've used it a lot and never got a headache. I've found it heightens both the pleasure and the pain/discomfort of bottoming, but the overall effect is that the sex becomes incredible (assuming the top is even halfway decent). I would be very careful to not to use more than you can handle, especially when you first use it. I got freakishly dizzy and sick to my stomach once when I used too much of it, to the point that my boyfriend almost took me to the ER (I was really, really fucked up on the stuff, and hadn't been drinking or doing any other drugs, just the Maximum Impact). Honestly though, I prefer pot to Maximum Impact. With poppers/MI, the buzz comes on strong and then fades, so you keep having to stop and take more, and it's very up-down-up-down-up-down, which can ruin the mood. Weed? Buzz is constant. Plus, you don't get dizzy, sick to your stomach, or hung-over on pot like you do other drugs. I don't know why, but smoking pot always makes my ass crave cock and helps me take a much rougher fucking. Just my 2 cents.

Dirtysouth: I hate that as well. A lot of the bareback tops I talk to (the ones who don't flake out), start talking about dating immediately after we've hooked up (sometimes even before!). I've had guys talk about how they are looking for an LTR, when we met on a hookup site and our only interaction has been me sucking them off a few times. One guy I hooked up with recently tried to get me to go on a cruise with him for two weeks (and pretty much flat out said he wanted to date); this was after he bred my ass ONCE. When I tried to decline politely (I said I couldn't afford it), he offered to pay my way. The conversation got really fucking awkward, and I don't know why he pushed the issue instead of taking the hint. I get guys can get lonely and want more than a fuck, but damn, if you're wanting a relationship, go to a dating site and not a meat-market site. I prefer to be actual friends with my fuck-buddies, so I'm fine with guys who want to hang out a bit (as friends). But guys who think "I came inside of you, so now we're a couple" irritate me to no end.

This is one of the reasons I don't top; pretty much every guy who has bottomed for me has sworn up and down he was clean when he wasn't. Total turn off. It's fucking awful for an uncut guy like me, because the shit gets up under my foreskin and can be a bitch to clean. (It's sort of like how getting dirt up under your fingernail is so much worse than just getting it on your finger.) An accident can happen, but they should be pretty damn rare if you have the faintest idea of how to clean out properly. (Also, an accident would be a little bit of mess, usually barely noticeable; a shit covered cock means he didn't rinse out at all). I don't understand it, but some bottoms think that taking a shower (or even just taking a dump and wiping) is enough to get clean. Also, some guys say they are "clean" but are talking about HIV/STD status. So it doesn't hurt to flat out ask if they've rinsed out, rather than ask "are you clean?".

I've never played at a gym myself, but I've been cruised plenty of times and have seen other guys messing around (just oral and groping, never saw any anal). From what I can tell, the steam room (and area right in front of the steam room) is the unofficial play area, though that might not be the case everywhere. Generally, guys wanting to just work out will only be in the locker room to change, and only be naked in order to shower. So if you cruise the locker room and showers, you're more likely to encounter a guy just there to work out, and therefore more likely to get reported to management. You can usually tell the guys just wanting to work out, because they seem to be in a hurry to get in and get out, with the guys looking for sex just kind of loitering. Guys who want to play will usually hang out in the steam room, or right in front of it (however, some guys cruise the locker room, and go to the steam room to play). Whether in the steam room or the locker room, guys wanting to play will usually be hanging out naked, or wearing a towel but constantly adjusting it (really just doing it to expose themselves, though this isn't always obvious right off the bat), or sitting down with their cock in plain sight. Whether clothed, in a towel, or naked, if a guy touches his cock (other than adjusting himself after getting dressed), he is probably looking to play. And it's almost a sure thing, that anyone lingering around any area of the gym (even out in the workout area) is looking for sex. Once you think you've found a guy who wants to play, either look at him and nod your head towards the steam room, or (without drawing attention from every other guy in the area), give your cock a quick rub/grope and see how he responds. Good luck and have fun!

There's less risk than if he shoots his load in you, but there's still risk. You can get pozzed if he drips any precum at all. You can get pozzed if he has a tiny scratch or cut on his penis. Also, even if he fully intends on pulling out (and a lot of guys lie), he might not be able to until he's already shot some of his load in you.

Part things that make me not want to hook up, part things I hate about hookup sites in general. 1: Guys who don't read your profile, or ignore what you've written. 2: Guys who claim they are a top, then want to bottom after they come over. I don't get this at all. Why not just go find a god damn top? Why waste your time and mine?!?! 3: Guys who attack other guys for not being the epitome of what they personally consider attractive. I don't get upset over being rejected, but there's no reason to be a complete asshole when telling someone you're not into them. 4: Guys who send nasty comments out of the blue (meaning you've never talked to this person before, usually never even viewed their profile before). Guys who do #3 are jerks and need an attitude adjustment. Guys who do #4 should just be killed because they are a fucking waste of life and the world would be better off without them. 5: Guys who get bitchy when I mention barebacking. Not into it? Understandable. But spare me the lectures and insults. I'm an adult, I can smoke if I want, drink if I want, and yeah, even take cum up my ass from a complete stranger if I want. You're not my fucking babysitter, so shut the fuck up. 6: Guys who flake out or stand you up. Special mention goes to the guys who flake out/stand you up, then later try to hook up with you again (usually coming up with some bullshit excuse for why they never showed up and couldn't call or email you about it till several days later).

I like to cum, but I HATE it when a top worries about making me cum. During sex I like us both to be focused on the top's pleasure, and after he cums, then I can jack off. A top worrying about making the bottom cum is a major turn off.

I'd say I'm a 6.5 to a 7.5; good looking but not an adonis or a model. I tend to go for guys who are a 4 to a 6. Mainly because a lot of really hot guys have massive egos, and I find a septic personality to be a major turn off.

Was in San Fran for a week a couple years back for Halloween. LOTS of guys looking for bareback/kink/sleaze, and they are extremely open about what they are into. I was walking down the street near my hotel (Castro area) and had a guy on the street whistle at me; as soon as I stopped to say hi, he asked if I was looking to get bred (not "fucked", "bred"). I've never had a guy ask me for sex in public like that before, and for him to straight up ask me if I took it bareback kind of shocked me. Was with my boyfriend so didn't get any play, but also had several guys cruise me at the bars, more than a few had biohazard tattoos. I've been to NYC a couple of times, including a two week stay in Times Square. I cruised online every night, but got more "omg you bareback are you crazy?!?!?!" type responses than actual replies. I actually only hooked up once, and that was just sucking a cock. The Big Apple really let me down. Lived in Fort Lauderdale. TONS of bears/daddies. I would say the majority of guys are either actively seeking bareback, or are open to it with fuck buddies even if they won't do it for a one-time hookup. I actually lived a bit outside of Fort Lauderdale for a while, and (think because I was young and have a nice ass), guys were very willing to drive out and breed me. Out of all the places I've been to (lived in or just visited), I would say Fort Lauderdale has the highest percentage of barebackers. Boston and Provincetown are kind of lame. Most of the guys in the area either freak when you mention bareback, or are flakes (the kind who just email forever and nothing ever actually happens). Though Provincetown can be pretty sleazy when there is an event going on ("Bear Week" tends to draw a lot of barebackers/guys into kink).

I've had guys on hookup sites ask me to drive 2+ hours (each way) just to give them a blowjob (yeah, 4+ hour round trip when you won't last more than 10 minutes before cumming? not gonna happen). I've had guys ask me to drive 5+ hours each way and "spend the weekend" with them. I have traveled across the country for house-boy jobs, and LTRs, but there's no fucking way I'm spending that much time and gas-money on sex. I don't care how hot a guy is; if you really expect a guy to travel more than 30 minutes to get in your ass or on your cock, then you're in dire need of a reality check.

Eat more fruits and veggies, drink a LOT more water, and get exercise that will help keep things moving along (walking/running and ab exercises are good). It might also help to cut down on candy/junk food and fried/greasy food; eat baked chicken instead of fried, cook hamburgers on the grill instead of in a skillet, eat a fun size snickers instead of a king size, etc. You might also consider taking a fiber supplement. Pay a little more and get one with psyllium husks in it, it works a LOT better and is worth paying for. I would still recommend rinsing out, but the above tips will make douching faster and easier.

Most of my roommates have been straight or in committed relationships, so I didn't have sex with them. I have had sex with most of my gay friends and coworkers over the years (usually just oral sex though). If I had a gay roommate, I'd probably be open to fucking around with him, if he was my type. Sex doesn't have to make things weird between people. I think too many people have hang-ups when it comes to sex, even gay men.

There is a small percentage of people who are resistant (or possibly even immune) to HIV. Odds are, you aren't one of them. If you can't make peace with the possibility of becoming poz, don't fuck bareback. That said, there are some ways to try to delay getting pozzed and avoid other STDs. (I say "delay" because if you bareback with enough guys, you will almost certainly end up Poz sooner or later): -Make sure any guy who fucks you shows you a recent neg test result. An alternate strategy is to only bottom bareback for Poz tops who are on meds and keep their viral loads undetectable. -Use a lube that is good and slippery (I like oil lubes) to prevent tears in your ass during sex. You also want to make sure the lube doesn't irritate your ass (don't use spermicidal lube). -Don't get fucked when you are drunk or high. -If it will keep your cum-lust satisfied, get regular fuck buddies and try to get your cum fix from them. -Exercise, eat a balanced diet, get plenty of sleep, and try to keep your stress levels down. You want your body and immune system to stay strong. -Having sex when you have an STD (or even just a cold) makes you more easily infected. Don't have sex when you are sick. -Listen to your instincts. If you're about to fool around with a guy and something feels off/wrong about it, put your clothes back on and find another guy to play with. -Do some research, see the way HIV (and other STDs) can affect the body; when you see symptoms on a guy, or he just seems ill, don't play with him. You won't be able to tell a healthy undetectable guy from a neg guy, but you might be able to spot a guy with a high viral load (or other STD). -Use common sense. If you chat with a guy online and he talks about his love of barebacking and mentions frequent trips to the local bathhouse? Probably not a great idea to bareback with him. I've taken a lot of cum in my ass, and I have stayed neg by doing most of the things I mentioned above. Though I believe I am in that small group of people with some natural resistance/immunity to HIV, so you might not stay neg as long as I have. (I got fucked bareback by about a hundred guys while living down in Ft Laud, an area with a VERY high rate of HIV, and had blood to blood contact with a guy I know for sure was poz, and I am still neg).

Our entire health-care system is focused on what makes the most money for the people running things, not what is best for the patients. It isn't limited to just prescription drugs. For instance: I am a big supporter of getting vaccinations, they save lives every day. However, in the last few decades, the medical community has started pushing them on people who don't really need them, even when the vaccines have not been properly tested for potential side effects (or serious, possibly life-threatening, side effects are known to occur). The recent attempts to scare healthy people into getting flu shots is a prime example. They try to scare people into getting them when they don't need them in order to generate large profits. This results in vaccine shortages, meaning people who actually did need the vaccine (young children, the elderly, etc) aren't getting it. Then, when these people who needed the vaccine but didn't it, get sick and possibly die as a result, the health-care companies use it in next year's fear mongering propaganda, and the cycle repeats itself. (Please keep in mind I am not ranting against needed vaccines, such as elderly people getting flu shots, or children getting immunizations.) It's sad, but doctors and other people in the health-care industry are, more and more, every bit as cold-hearted and financially motivated as any lawyer or used-car salesman. You have to make sure you are being treated based on your NEEDS, not what puts money in other people's pockets. It's sad, but that's the world we live in now.

It's all bullshit. I remember a bunch of friends once had a numbers book that told you your personality traits (and other crap) based on your birthdate, your height, and (I think) your number of siblings. Out of the dozen or so personality traits it said I had, it was only right about two. But since one of them was "you tend to be grounded in science and skeptical of unexplained things" or something similar, when I tried to point out how it was just bullshit, everyone went "OMG the book is right!" and bought into it. Never mind that the book got only two things right out of twelve (less than 20% accuracy). Sure, it's fun to read, but it's complete and utter bullshit. Really, do people think everyone born in the same month (or even the same day) are all going to be alike? Sorry but that is just fucking stupid.

I strongly prefer guys over 35 (usually like daddies/bears in the 40-50 age range). Plus, I prefer a guy who knows how to fuck. I bottomed for a guy (early 20s) that was new to anal sex, he basically rammed his cock in all at once and immediately shot his load. It hurt my ass like crazy, and was unsatisfying to boot. So yeah, total turn off for me.

I just joined a local sex group. Bottoms are expected to be "taken for a test drive" by one or more tops within a few days of joining if they want to stay in the group. I got bare fucked by a hot daddy. We had pretty wild sex, in a lot of different positions. He said he rarely barebacks (usually just gets sucked without any anal, not even safe anal), and before me, had never had a bottom let him go ass to mouth. It was a hot time and he seemed happy to be getting a chance to try new things with a sub bottom. After we fucked, he took me out for a quick dinner, which surprised me, as I had just wanted sex. Then as he was driving me home (I got stoned before the fucking so I made sure not to be driving), he reached in his pocket and gave me $100. When I asked what he was doing and said I wasn't an escort, he said after being fucked like that and being a nasty little slut for daddy, I deserved to be rewarded. I was kind of dumbstruck and could only manage to ask him if he was sure, and he repeated what he had said, and added that paying for sex (especially somewhat sleazy sex like we had) seemed hot to him, and that he'd be jacking off to our encounter a lot in the future. I have had guys offer to pay me for sex, but I've never had a hookup fuck me and then just give me money out of the blue afterwards. Has this happened to anyone else, or am I just lucky ($100 basically fell into my lap)?

If you are having trouble taking a cock, try using a different lube. Personally, I cannot take a cock using water-based lubes, and I've talked to a couple bottoms that had issues with silicone based lubes. Switching from a water based lube to an oil based one can make a world of difference. Even just going from one brand of lube to another can make a big difference, so if you don't want to try a different type of lube, just try a different brand.

I don't shave unless specifically asked by a top I really like. You don't want a razor nick around your asshole. And as others have said, stubble in that area is a nightmare. I would strongly advise you to just trim it down if you feel it is too long.

Just wondering if anyone else gets off on fucking or (getting fucked by) guys that you don't consider attractive ("trolls" for example). I don't mean being into silver daddies or chubs (meaning you are into them but most other guys aren't), I mean being into pity fucks or enjoying being sexually used by someone you have no attraction to. I like daddies and even some silver daddies, but don't like guys once they go from "daddy" to "old man". I have one older guy (says he is 65 but I think he is like 75 or even 80) that I let use me like a low-class whore. He has wrinkles and his body is kind of saggy, he has that "old person" smell to him and his house, and has to use viagra to stay hard. We initially just chatted online, he wasn't expecting sex, just wanted to talk, and was still surprised I responded because he gets ignored by pretty much everyone under 60. He told me he gets laid maybe once a year (and before meeting me, hadn't fucked anyone under 50 in close to a decade). I felt bad for him and decided to give him a pity blowjob. It made me feel like a total slut to be sucking off this nasty old troll; I wasn't attracted to him at all (quite the opposite) but the sleaze factor drove me crazy. A few days later I hooked up with him again. This time I let him do whatever he wanted to me (and then some): spank me, rough fuck me (bareback of course), switch back and forth between fucking my ass and having me suck his cock, tongue his balls while he slapped his cock on my face, let him piss in my mouth, etc. Total slut for him. I know I'm the only guy he's gotten to fuck like that in years and that turned me on. (I think I was the first bottom to ever let him go ass to mouth, because his cock started twitching like crazy and dripping precum like a faucet, and he got this blissful/shocked look on his face and he started saying "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh that's a good boy, oh fuck" over and over like he was praying.) I had told him before we even got naked, that he was free to cum wherever he wanted (in my ass, in my mouth, give me a facial, whatever). He was fucking me doggy style when he shot his load up my ass, panting and nearly collapsing on top of me immediately after. After he pulled out I cleaned off his slimy cock with my mouth. He had the thickest, nastiest tasting cum I've ever encountered, but I still sucked his cock clean and swallowed it all. It was one of the sleaziest fucks I've ever had, and while the guy turned me off, being a slut for a nasty old troll like that made my piggy/cum-whore side very happy. I still let him use me as his cock slut once in a while, and sometimes blow and give pity fucks to other old trolls. Anyone else into this sort of thing?