Start soft or hard?

[BB4fking]

A visit to the bathhouse can involve wandering around or waiting for hours but being always ready for action. Most guys will be soft or semi-hard but rise to the occasion when required. To get hard for an encounter, or just to refresh the batteries, guys may make their cock available to be sucked, for instance, in a dark room or gloryhole. When you’re doing the sucking, what is your reaction to being offered a limp soft cock? Do you relish the challenge or do you skip it for the delights of a hard tool? What influences you? If you skip it is it because you don’t enjoy it, not able to judge its size or worried it won’t get hard? Or some other reason? If you like to suck a soft cock is it because you enjoy being able to excite the guy to hardness or something else?

[KneelerForDoms]

I prefer to suck on a hard cock. I just feel more dominated by the guy if he is already stiff and sticking his already hard cock in my mouth....I'm already sticking my ass out, my hole desperate and needy for use, a pathetic little whore. However, I do not mind the challenge of getting a soft cock hard. It is an opportunity to feel it growing in my mouth, but my pussy is not as reflexively submissive and turned on.  

[BB4fking]

If a guy pushes his soft cock through a gloryhole I’ll certainly suck it, I relish the chance to pleasure him to fully erect. If it stays soft for more than a minute or two it becomes a bit of a dilemma and I may give up as I like to see some results. If I’m on my knees in a darkroom with guys all shoving their cocks for the attention of my mouth I will suck a soft cock but he better get hard soon if their are other hard cocks on offer as I like a hard cock in my mouth with the prospect of getting a guy off.

[topblkmale]

 

I always break-in a new cocksucker with my dick soft.

I'm four inches soft.

I see how they handle the dick and how fast they can get me hard. 

From my extensive experience, really bad cocksuckers immediately start using their teeth to grate my dick in order to get me hard.

The five star cocksuckers can swallow me and let my dick gradually grow to a full nine inches right in the throat.

 

[KneelerForDoms]

52 minutes ago, BB4fking said:

If a guy pushes his soft cock through a gloryhole I’ll certainly suck it, I relish the chance to pleasure him to fully erect. If it stays soft for more than a minute or two it becomes a bit of a dilemma and I may give up as I like to see some results. If I’m on my knees in a darkroom with guys all shoving their cocks for the attention of my mouth I will suck a soft cock but he better get hard soon if their are other hard cocks on offer as I like a hard cock in my mouth with the prospect of getting a guy off.

I am kind of the same way but sometimes I will finish them out and then avoid them in the future. Some really older guys I've noticed require extensive pressure on their cocks to get them out of limp mode. 

[BB4fking]

I’m surprised that the first 15 responses all confirmed that in a bathhouse they’ll suck soft cocks. I probably didn’t word the question well enough or maybe the followers of the cocksucking section of the forum are unrepresentative of what I see at bathhouses and cruise clubs. Today I was at the cruise club and in the dark room there were, over the time I was there, 3 or 4 guys on their knees in the crowded dark room. They were selective in who they sucked feeling around the exposed cocks anticipating the next guy they’d move to and the soft cocks seemed universally to be rejected. Meanwhile several guys sucking at the gloryholes declined to suck me hard. I know this happens - although not universally of course - but I am interested to know why. I ask as a guy who has no trouble getting hard  quickly, even after hours at the bathhouse, when someone sucks me but who struggles to remain rock hard for hours on end at the bathhouse without occasional stimulation like that.