Looking for some relationship advice

[phillygwm]

If your bf was interested in sex previously, it might be something medical,  Low T being only one possibility.  So maybe a trip to the doctor is warranted first.  If it isn't physiological, maybe a counselor instead.  There might be issues to unpack. 

Assuming it really is game over, sex wise, it's unfair for him to expect you to not play with others.  Monogamy is one thing, celibacy is quite another.  You need to have an uncomfortable conversation.

Edited Saturday at 06:14 PM by phillygwm

[Calstock]

I thought I would share an update and thank you all for the advice. I’m not gonna cheat and would rather have an uncomfortable conversation with my boyfriend. The guilt of cheating on him (even if he never found out) would be too much handle. I love him too much and my life is better because of him. 

my fuck buddy got really pushy and made all sorts of promises. I won’t lie, he’s wild and it really turns me on. If I was single, in a heart beat I’d be jumping in bed without a second thought.  I just can’t handle the guilt component. 
 

Someone here actually sent a private message and gave some great advice on rekindling the romance in the bedroom department. I think I’d rather go that route.