The ‘ick’.

[PozSchism]

If I am out and about in the summer time, bad/weird knees (guys or girls). I can't even describe what the knee look is that turns me off, but when I see it, I know instantly. It's petty AF but I can't help it.

[Iker80]

Stuck up guys. I extra hate it when they're stuck up and bossy.

[ballerva]

1. Bad hygiene

2. PNP -- total deal breaker for me. I am an all natural pig

3. Asking if I am "clean"

4. A dirty hole. (Accidents do of course happen, but please clean out as best as you can before meeting. I do!)

[RawNerdUK]

6 minutes ago, ballerva said:

3. Asking if I am "clean"

If I get asked that I just say yeah I have showered and they say that meant STI status then I correct them.

[phillygwm]

3 hours ago, ballerva said:

3. Asking if I am "clean"

I'm torn by this one.  Obviously, I wouldn't use the term "clean" but I question the value of asking the question, however it's phrased.  Of course, some people are ethical and will disclose they have whatever bug, but others will say "Yeah, I'm clean, let's fuck."  So the question becomes how trustworthy the anonymous guy in that dark room is.  Just like picking up a twink.  He can tell you he's legal but at least there you can use some judgement (gee, he looks 12 to me).  Hard to tell a guy has syphillis by looking at him.

If you're going raw, there are some risks that come with the territory.  Some can be mitigated (i.e. HIV/PrEP) but others you just need to choose whether it's worth it.

[cumdumpbear]

6 hours ago, RawNerdUK said:

If I get asked that I just say yeah I have showered and they say that meant STI status then I correct them.

I always say that too “yeah, showered and douched and brushed my teeth”. 

[BarebackedBear]

1. Lack of respect. If I cleaned out my hole and you said you'd be here at 8, don't waste my time by trying to show up at 10 (or just no-showing). You get one chance to have something come up unexpectedly with me, but a no-show is an instant block.
2. Lack of manners. Basically, don't be a douche. If you come across as arrogant, I'm out.
3. Lack of hygiene. I definitely get turned on by a man's "showered this morning but now I'm hooking up in the afternoon" musk, but if you haven't showered all day (or for several days), that's a no-go for me. And please brush your goddamn teeth.
4. Lack of education. If you ask me if I'm "clean" to get my HIV status, that's a block.
5. PnP, lack of clear headedness. I don't do any drugs (I don't even drink). Guys who advertise they PnP or do heavy drugs are a deal breaker. PrEP only protects from HIV and being a needle user raises my risk for a whole host of other infections. I don't mind if a guy indulges in other soft vices in their own time, but showing up stoned and smelling of weed is a turnoff.

[Leatherman667]

On 5/5/2025 at 6:33 PM, NWUSHorny said:

"Let's cuddle 1st" 

"Let's cuddle all night"

I seem to live in the cuddle capital of the world, the cuddling fad seems to be dying off a little bit, but for last couple of years I got a lot of invitations to cuddle and not fuck.

 

That would drive me insane! Hate to cuddle; love to fuck and move on!