Can you take roaches with you from a hookup?

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This morning I chatted up a really sexy 24yo bottom who invited me to his place. I didn't have much time as I had a train to catch, and had spent the night on a bus, without much sleep nor a shower/change of clothes, so when he was finally done douching I didn't think about much else besides loading up his firm round ass with my itinerant seed.

However, I did first take a piss (hadn't all night), and immediately noticed his bathroom was crawling with roaches. I don't mean one or two but dozens, plus many flattened roach carcasses on the tiled floor. Somehow it turned me on to be in this dark filthy place with a slim smoking hot bottom boy, but after I had blown my load up his tight hole, I did begin to panic a little.

I started to worry that his many roommates (which were also crawling around his bedroom in numbers that defy the imagination) might hitch a ride with me and infest the family vacation home I traveled to after saying goodbye. Is there a big risk of this happening? I frantically checked my luggage and clothing for bugs, even went into the bathroom on the train to strip naked and turn my clothes inside out, but didn't find anything.

Still, I had never seen anything like this before. To me cockroaches were something distant, not a lived reality. This was the first time I was confronted not only with an infestation, but one that went beyond any measure I'd thought possible. 

Btw I do feel sorry for the guy. I hope he finds a way to deal with them. He is young and seems to be an immigrant (we exchanged few words and those in a language I'm not fluent in). But selfish me is mostly worried that this infestation is going to spread to our vacation home and we won't be able to get rid of the little fuckers (not to mention the embarrassment of knowing it was my quick fuck with a random stranger that unleashed it).

Kind of a niche question but any help would be much appreciated.

[badubydo]

Mostly likely not. I doubt you were there long enough for any of them to lay eggs. 
 

If you didn’t catch any in your luggage  you’re fine. 

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On 7/24/2025 at 7:50 PM, badubydo said:

Mostly likely not. I doubt you were there long enough for any of them to lay eggs. 
 

If you didn’t catch any in your luggage  you’re fine.

Sorry for the late reply. I appreciate your answer. Indeed they don't appear to have hitched a ride as I haven't seen any of the critters since. 🙏

[Njn0mc]

Probably not bring them home

 But bedbugs is a possibility.  If that place had that many and was kinda dirty where u fucked may have bedbugs.  Hopefully you dont

 A real pain to get rid of.

[bbslutdanny]

No I don’t think so, unless you were exposed directly. 
 

what I do after a hook up, I put all my  clothes in the washer and begging laundry right away. If I have guys over, I’ll wash my sheets and pillows as well.

 

Lysol disinfect everything lol 

[norefusal]

jeez how much did u guys smoke? 

roaches don't care about you so unless you brought along a bag w snacks in it, they didn't tag along. 

but how mentally ill is this guy that he lives in infested squalor like it's no biggie? i've hooked up w tons of drug addicts and none of them were filthy crack-house squatter crazy. it sounds like a scene out of trainspotting 😜you should post this story in the "when did u let your standards slip" thread 😜

[PozToxVersPig]

There aren't enough words....

[Sfmike64]

No. You can't take roaches home with you from a brief hookup. Bedbugs, crabs, scabies? All of those are easily transmissible in a short amount of time. Be on the lookout for them and if you discover the latter two, call your doctor. Get prescription shampoo. Don't try to use the OTC kind. They don't work in my (admittedly a long time ago) experience.

Bedbugs are a whole other problem.