How were you groomed? How do you groom? Over 18s only please

[completefaggot]

As per title. If you find a closet case or someone who hasn’t quite taken the leap yet how would you groom them? What techniques do you use? For those who have been groomed what happened? 

[blackrobe]

"Grooming" is a term used to describe the process used by sexual abusers to manipulate vulnerable minors so they can sexually abuse and rape them.

"Closet case" is a pejorative term for people who have not yet felt safe enough to come out. 

If someone is too afraid to come out, you find a way to support them and connect them to mental health and counseling resources so they can come out when they judge it's safe for them to do so. 

It seems like some education and compassion for others might be called for. 

[viking8x6]

Thanks, @blackrobe

@completefaggot, the way you phrased the original post is unfortunate at the very least. If you didn't mean it the way it sounds (per blackrobe's comment), please post a response here with a rephrased initial post that better expresses what you did mean.

[faggotsub]

For me I think it's genetics.

I have found that submitting to Superior Men comes naturally.

Though some may of them may have been abusers I have always stayed clear of bottoms and in most cases "versatile" guys.

If 72 years of constantly being told what i am and what i am for is "grooming" well maybe, but it felt right and still does. It doesn't seem like it was a choice