How many men have you had sex with?

[PozToxVersPig]

17 minutes ago, curiouslooker said:

I love how you built a spreadsheet for this, true commitment to the discussion with your friend. 🤣😂

We were both debriefing from our weekend and having cocktails in our respective homes.  🙂 once we started we couldn't NOT finish the task.  I don't think either of us had thought to ask the question before, so we sort of opened pandoras box...and then we had to know 🙂

[Pozzible]

16 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

We were both debriefing from our weekend and having cocktails in our respective homes.  🙂 once we started we couldn't NOT finish the task.  I don't think either of us had thought to ask the question before, so we sort of opened pandoras box...and then we had to know 🙂

Pandora must have a really big box. 

[NWUSHorny]

2 hours ago, PozToxVersPig said:

We both knew it was going to be high but I don't think we thought it would be that high.  We waited to add up the column until the end.  The range came from us questioning our weekly average during certain times....I generally stick with 8000-9000 which is 4-5 a week for 31 years which spread the "EVENTS" over the average.  Even at 3 a week which is for sure low, that's still about 5000.

Just curious, but how are you factoring for unique men? Coming up with a rough estimate of how many times I've fucked and been fucked is much easier than getting to a count of unique partners. I know I've been going to long weekend events for several years where my body count for the weekend can hit 150 guys for a few strokes in one of our holes, but that number is sure to include guys I remember from previous events and guys that remember me from previous events, so I would conservatively estimate that at least a third, and sometimes half or more of those dicks or holes are repeats. That said I'm sure I'm easily over 5,000 unique men in the 36 years I've been active, but would also guess I'm under 10,000 if I fully account for the repeats. If I were to happen to hookup with a guy I fucked once in 1990 in 2026 I'm extremely unlikely to recognize him, and am almost certain it will happen.

[PozToxVersPig]

1 minute ago, NWUSHorny said:

Just curious, but how are you factoring for unique men? Coming up with a rough estimate of how many times I've fucked and been fucked is much easier than getting to a count of unique partners. I know I've been going to long weekend events for several years where my body count for the weekend can hit 150 guys for a few strokes in one of our holes, but that number is sure to include guys I remember from previous events and guys that remember me from previous events, so I would conservatively estimate that at least a third, and sometimes half or more of those dicks or holes are repeats. That said I'm sure I'm easily over 5,000 unique men in the 36 years I've been active, but would also guess I'm under 10,000 if I fully account for the repeats. If I were to happen to hookup with a guy I fucked once in 1990 in 2026 I'm extremely unlikely to recognize him, and am almost certain it will happen.

For my buddy and I, that was a scaling factor on the average, but not one that we considered significant, hence our range.  If we were to reduce the number to be unique, I'd go for the lower end of the range...maybe.  I'm trying to find the spreadsheet.

• Until 18, that number was not significant, but it also wasn't a significant amount of the total - maybe 7 people (for two main obvious reasons)
• From 18-21, there were more repeats - I was in college and had quite a few DL and people at my university, but this didn't skew things - the most times I'd ever repeat with a guy was maybe 5.
• From 21-39 - I'd say max 10-15% of the count would be deduplicated in to repeats.  
• From 39-today - I'd say it's closer to the 10% mark.

Very recently, more repeat but still below 50% (high mark) of total.

I've texted my buddy to get his guess! 🙂

[NWUSHorny]

25 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

For my buddy and I, that was a scaling factor on the average, but not one that we considered significant, hence our range.  If we were to reduce the number to be unique, I'd go for the lower end of the range...maybe.  I'm trying to find the spreadsheet.

• Until 18, that number was not significant, but it also wasn't a significant amount of the total - maybe 7 people (for two main obvious reasons)
• From 18-21, there were more repeats - I was in college and had quite a few DL and people at my university, but this didn't skew things - the most times I'd ever repeat with a guy was maybe 5.
• From 21-39 - I'd say max 10-15% of the count would be deduplicated in to repeats.  
• From 39-today - I'd say it's closer to the 10% mark.

Very recently, more repeat but still below 50% (high mark) of total.

I've texted my buddy to get his guess! 🙂

I'm definitely overthinking it, but it seems like you and your buddy are too.

You and I discussed the number of bathhouse hookups I was getting when I lived in Denver, the total count is high, but there were 25 - 30 guys I know fucked multiple times a month, or even a week in some cases, for 5 or more years. By the time I moved away, I would estimate 10% or less were new partners in any given week.

Edited yesterday at 06:51 AM by NWUSHorny

[PozToxVersPig]

12 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I'm definitely overthinking it, but it seems like you and your buddy are too.

You and I discussed the number of bathhouse hookups I was getting when I lived in Denver, the total count is high, but there were 25 - 30 guys I know fucked multiple times a month, or even a week in some cases, for 5 or more years. By the time I moved away, I would estimate 10% or less were new partners in any given week.

For sure overthinking it - but what the hell else were we supposed to do?  We couldn't just guess because we had no sense of the range it could be...so the only choice was to come up with some way of estimating....

[18Learner]

so far this year, three. all in one evening at a club in Copenhagen. One wankstood behind me, squeezed my nipples and wanked me off into his hand. He used it as lube and just jammed his cock into me. My squeeling atrracted to older gentlemen, one had seen me before and said Iwas a slut made for fuckin (he was right) and laughed at the tears in my eyes. When the first one had finished, he pushed me onto a mattress, tuned me around and held my legs apart. The two men took turnes fucking me, one of them was painfully large nbut he kept whispering what tight cunt I was, and that really tuened me on again. When the next one pressed his cock into me, I was hard. They laughed at my prick, not very large. The first one fucked me a second time, and then they left me. When I passed the in the bar, one of the gave me 500 Danish crown (50 dollars). I felt like a real whore.

[18Learner]

this was taken the next day. Daddy claimed there was sill some natural lube in there