What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for

[bareback-flipflop]

On 2/5/2026 at 11:43 PM, norefusal said:

i seem to fall for the same scam over and over. 

a guy next door type posts that he's sick of the shallow and superficial gay community. he's looking for a true emotional and intellectual connection and about to give up hope. 

i ask if he'd like to meet and see if we hit if off. 

he replies basically: not you! i'm looking for a deep emotional and intellectual connection with a tall GL muscle jock DJ w a huge dick. 

🤣

OMG

This is so absurd and typical in the same time. Scum excuses. Pfff

Don’t worry, this kind of guys don’t matter 

[bareback-flipflop]

Oh guys, I read your comments in a row and this is crazy. 
Of course things don’t always work but these excuses are so ridiculous. I hate picky guys. And I always think that they can’t have a good sex life. I am not picky at all and my sex life is very vivid. Skinny, chubby or in the middle of hallway, young or old - these all don’t matter. Only the chemistry and grooming matter. 
 

When I was younger I thought this mattered and I also could face denial like you mentioned. Once a guy told me that I was too old for him (more precisely he said “sorry but you are too old”) - I was 24 then (and I always looked younger just like now). 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The funniest was a guy with whom I set an appointment to a  bus stop. He stepped to me, asked my nickname and when he realised that I was the guy with whom he chatted he just turned around and went away without a word but his face was very talkative. 🤣🤣🤣

[WillyD]

After chatting online for a few months and exchanging pics with a supposedly hot guy on BBRT whom I shall call Tom, he flew from America to meet me in Australia in 2008.  As soon as Tom arrived at the airport, I knew he'd used somebody else's photos which he looked nothing like. Tom then said that I wasn't his type, accusing me of wasting his time and misleading him despite my description and photos being accurate and recent. Later he also sent me abusive messages before I blocked him.

 

Tom had also told me that he was HIV positive, but a few weeks ago December 2025 using the same username and fake photos, Tom messaged one of my close friends Pete and his profile now said that he is HIV negative, will only meet HIV negative men and that he doesn't like big cocks. Pete and I both have very big cocks and our profiles are very clear about that with photos and descriptions saying we have huge cocks and are HIV positive. Pete politely declined meeting Tom, but Tom sent several messages saying that Pete will be sorry and will never again have the chance to meet anyone as sexy and exciting as him. Tom's final message to Pete said "Your not my type and your a fake and I wouldn't waste my time with you loser".

 

Pete and I are both still open to meeting fun American men, and sometimes we play together but needless to say that Pete has also now blocked "Crazy Tom".

 

[Spider54]

1 hour ago, WillyD said:

After chatting online for a few months and exchanging pics with a supposedly hot guy on BBRT whom I shall call Tom, he flew from America to meet me in Australia in 2008.  As soon as Tom arrived at the airport, I knew he'd used somebody else's photos which he looked nothing like. Tom then said that I wasn't his type, accusing me of wasting his time and misleading him despite my description and photos being accurate and recent. Later he also sent me abusive messages before I blocked him.

 

Tom had also told me that he was HIV positive, but a few weeks ago December 2025 using the same username and fake photos, Tom messaged one of my close friends Pete and his profile now said that he is HIV negative, will only meet HIV negative men and that he doesn't like big cocks. Pete and I both have very big cocks and our profiles are very clear about that with photos and descriptions saying we have huge cocks and are HIV positive. Pete politely declined meeting Tom, but Tom sent several messages saying that Pete will be sorry and will never again have the chance to meet anyone as sexy and exciting as him. Tom's final message to Pete said "Your not my type and your a fake and I wouldn't waste my time with you loser".

 

Pete and I are both still open to meeting fun American men, and sometimes we play together but needless to say that Pete has also now blocked "Crazy Tom".

 

Crazy tom indeed , he flew to Australia and still rejected you? That’s insane thats kind of an expensive trip to say nah to the whole reason you came over. That’s crazy, sorry if I go all the way to Australia to meet you we’re gonna fuck 🤦‍♂️

[WillyD]

21 minutes ago, Spider54 said:

Crazy tom indeed , he flew to Australia and still rejected you? That’s insane thats kind of an expensive trip to say nah to the whole reason you came over. That’s crazy, sorry if I go all the way to Australia to meet you we’re gonna fuck 🤦‍♂️

I agree. If I travel to meet a guy, we're gonna fuck even if it's just a sympathy fuck. The crazy part is he was the one who misrepresented himself, but he seemed to look shocked when we met. 

I could've easily remedied the situation by putting a paper bag over his head. 

Note to self: carry large paper bags when meeting guys online 😏

[Ready2DoThis]

 I chatted with a guy online a few times over the course of a few weeks and we decided to meet. I gave him my address and invited him over. About 20 minutes later, he showed up. He looked nothing like his online photo but I figured I would still invite him in since we had chatted a number of times online and because he made the effort to come over. As he came in I asked him if he had any trouble finding my place (this was before Google maps existed and MapQuest was in it's infancy). He replied "No" with no follow up conversation. I then asked if he wanted something to drink (like a glass of water) and he said, "Give me a Jack Daniels and Coke." I said, "Umm, ok," and showed him to the living room while I went to fix him a drink. Within a few seconds of leaving the room, he said, "You know, this isn't going to work for me because you're too good-looking." I kind of laughed because I thought he was joking but I came back to the room with his drink he was already gone. 

[freshxtop5]

Was a Cum Union a few years back and someone didn't want me to fuck him because my dick was too big. I am only like 7"

[Ready2DoThis]

41 minutes ago, freshxtop5 said:

Was a Cum Union a few years back and someone didn't want me to fuck him because my dick was too big. I am only like 7"

If it's any consolation, I'd let you fuck me. 😉

[blackrobe]

4 hours ago, freshxtop5 said:

Was a Cum Union a few years back and someone didn't want me to fuck him because my dick was too big. I am only like 7"

I'm sure plenty of other guys were happy to take it.

[Spider54]

12 hours ago, freshxtop5 said:

Was a Cum Union a few years back and someone didn't want me to fuck him because my dick was too big. I am only like 7"

That’s rude he don’t even try! Id definitely let you! 

13 hours ago, Ready2DoThis said:

 I chatted with a guy online a few times over the course of a few weeks and we decided to meet. I gave him my address and invited him over. About 20 minutes later, he showed up. He looked nothing like his online photo but I figured I would still invite him in since we had chatted a number of times online and because he made the effort to come over. As he came in I asked him if he had any trouble finding my place (this was before Google maps existed and MapQuest was in it's infancy). He replied "No" with no follow up conversation. I then asked if he wanted something to drink (like a glass of water) and he said, "Give me a Jack Daniels and Coke." I said, "Umm, ok," and showed him to the living room while I went to fix him a drink. Within a few seconds of leaving the room, he said, "You know, this isn't going to work for me because you're too good-looking." I kind of laughed because I thought he was joking but I came back to the room with his drink he was already gone. 

That’s weird, but ive had something similar happen to me, but he said I was too cute. 

[Spider54]

13 hours ago, WillyD said:

I agree. If I travel to meet a guy, we're gonna fuck even if it's just a sympathy fuck. The crazy part is he was the one who misrepresented himself, but he seemed to look shocked when we met. 

I could've easily remedied the situation by putting a paper bag over his head. 

Note to self: carry large paper bags when meeting guys online 😏

True or dark room both do the same thing 😉 

[phillygwm]

I recognize I'm not everyone's type, especially as I've gotten older.  That's fine; I have a type as well.  I expect people to act like adults, which I know is asking a lot.  Just don't lie, tell me if you're not interested, and give me accurate pics so I can do the same.  In other words, let's not waste each other's time.