I started hooking up with a 32 year old bi sub-bottom. First two times he just blew and swallowed. It was rushed as neither of us had much time. Third time we got together, we had more time and I was able to finger him and introduce him to nipple play. He finished by blowing me. I literally heard gulping when I shot in his mouth. He is a total sub, does not initiate anything and does exactly what he is told. I did notice he gets hard when we are playing. I have ignored his cock so far. He says he doesnt care if he gets off. I have been with bottoms who dont get hard, and I ignore their cocks. But I have not played with a sub-bottom who gets hard. Although I am a top, I want to be sure the bottom is having a good time too. And usually a hard cock requires attention. So my question is, do I continue to ignore his hard cock or do I play with it too? If he gets off, does that ruin the dom/sub thing he likes?