Iker80

That's a great looking hairy dad hole

One of my favorite places was a field of long grass on a warm day. I had my jeans pulled down and the polish builder I was meeting inside me as we spooned. It was spontaneous and very sexy, and he lasted a long time.

I also had a very sexy time topping a Spanish hairy guy in the back of my open truck parked somewhere private and looking up at the night sky. We started out kissing in the seats, but we wanted more and ended up in the back of the truck on some old dog blankets. I was only planning to drive him home, but sometimes things happen.

For total fantasy I think somewhere in space with no gravity would be great. Floating around only feeling each other, no weight to bother us so we just relax in any positions we like. Would be a lot of fun to shoot a load out there too. But I want to go in to space anyway so maybe I'm cheating and making two wishes in to one. Well, if anyone wants to start a space mission to shoot some sexy men in to space, sign me up.

Not really at all. Guess I missed out on that. If anything I prefer guys don't mess with them too much. But I have plenty of other places that feel great, like lick my thighs, or play with and gently twist my treasure trail or beard with your fingers and I'll be very happy. Or if we're making love and I trust a guy, gently bite my ears or kiss/lick my neck, that can make me forget everything that isn't you.

2 hours ago, PozBearWI said:

I was more like you @Iker80.  23 first fucking in my first brief marriage.  I was 28 first time I got fucked.  It was still pre AIDS so didn't even consider condoms.  First guy I sucked off was a few years before that.  

Hopefully for most of us our sex life evolves.  It isn't a contest.  🙂

Definitely evolving for me too. I keep learning about myself because I try new things. I don't know why I waited so long, but I was very busy with school and hockey. I always think to myself back then there will be time for sex when I want it. I didn't think I'd end up like I am now, that started when I fucked my first guy bare and we had a good time. After that I just wanted more.

Maybe you can make them happen for you? Wank and edge before bed until you're really hard and want to cum, but don't cum, just go to sleep. I used to do this sometime when staying in a hotel because I don't want to make a mess on the sheets. But actually it made me dream about fucking hot guys and cum everywhere. They can happen just because too, mostly if I don't cum for a while.

First time a guy cum in me I was about 28. I was ok taking loads after prep. Before that I didn't want to take the chance. If we're counting loads with a condom, first time was a few years before then. Compared to many I was late to being with other guys, but I am bi so I wasn't too bothered. Now I know how easy and chilled out guys are to have sex with I've been having lots of fun.

Getting fucked is about mind over everything else. When you're in the headspace your guy will go in easily because you're relaxed. It's not you're trying to take him, it's you feel empty of him before he even goes in. This isn't something that easily happens first time though, and that's ok. You don't need to get everything perfectly first time for it to be good.

Dildos may or may not help. They're not essential. Many guys, I'm one of them, just went for it first time with another guy. For me, dildos and dicks are totally different. Dildos don't make me horny or excited to be inside me like a guy does, they're just a hard bit of not sexy plastic being shoved in to a very personal space. Zero pleasure, even when I'm the one driving, just lots of not sexy grunting and pain. So you maybe can or maybe can't take a dildo, depends what headspace they put you in. And that's really it, does the guy you want to try with make you want it? If he does, you'll get there. If a dildo sound fun, chances are they could work for you too, but if not they may be unhelpful.

I find truckers on grindr. Not had huge luck meeting any, except one guy who is a very sexy bottom I see regularly now. Most times they're hard to pin down a location for meet because they are always moving.

I make whatever noise happens, usually grunting, growling, whatever really.

Bareback is just a name for sex. It's ok to want the full experience with nothing between you, from your fingers in his beard as you kiss to your dick on his prostate, it's just natural sex, it's ok to like it.

On 4/30/2024 at 12:57 AM, Daddyph said:

I chased this guy years ago. He was tall 6’6” or so I’m 6’ so it’s always fun to find someone taller than me. Well defined muscles, very dominant and aggressive. Found out very early on that I didn’t have to chase him / lol ! The first time we spoke I ended up in his Rittenhouse Square penthouse (off the square but still you needed a key for his elevator. We’re in bed when I find out he’s 4/12 inches. I tried to hide my disappointment (I already picked out my China pattern in the elevator !). Let me tell you this man fucked me and had my eyes rolling into the back of my head. He was awesome ! During the “afterglow” he told me when he realized his dick wasn’t going to grow he decided he needed some more techniques. The first time he fisted me I asked him to add his dick in too. He loved that ! So, to answer your question, yes I will bottom for a man with a small fivk.

That's hot. I'm tall and don't get to play with guys taller than me often, but it's a lot of fun when I do.

Stuck up guys. I extra hate it when they're stuck up and bossy.

Out of my last six arranged meets four were bare and two were condom only. I was top five times, bottom once. The usual sign it's going to be bare is if you don't talk about condoms before meeting. Only two guys asked before meeting. One guy asked me if I had any condoms before coming over because he was a nearby electrical workman on lunch break and didn't have one or time to get some, so I said it's cool, top bare and he did. The other guy who mentioned them before meeting said we needed to use condoms and I used them when I topped him.

I love dick and when the mood is right getting fucked, but it's about the guy and wanting him. I don't care about size. I've never felt more excited by a big dick or less by a small one. I just want to have fun and it all works.

It can be good. I met up with a guy a while ago and we had fun making out, I teased his hole a few times but he would move like he wasn't sure after a little bit each time so I asked about topping. He went on his stomach now and let me tease his hole properly. I didn't have lube or condoms and he didn't ask for one so I spit on his hole and went inside him. He felt great inside but I went slowly and about a third of my dick inside he went tight and I think maybe it will hurt him deeper, so I just fucked him that deep until I shot a load inside him. We've talked since and he says it was his first time.

So it's good, but I know maybe I won't get all the way inside a guy his first time or get to pump him hard. Which is cool, it's still going to feel great and I'm totally good to help break a guy in. It's very sexy giving a guy his first time.

I can't stand toys or fingers inside me. They always hurt. Real dick only.

The thing if you're in a relationship with a women is that a lot don't understand men and sex. Some get it, but many don't. A lot of my past gf didn't like me wanking, and other guys tell me it's the same for them. If I was asked to give number one relationship advice to straight women I'd tell them let your guy wank. Don't worry about it. It's normal, all guys do it to let off steam. Making a big deal out of it means your guy feels repressed, and he's not going to stop doing it anyway. But he'll do it less now it's got to be secret so now he's getting horny more and starting to think about all kinds of stuff he'd like to try, and we get in to a lot more trouble when we're horny.

Yeah, dicks do that cumming thing. He's being daft.

They're great on the right guy. Sometimes I only want to focus on me topping the guy.

It's really hard to find a private place. I met up with a married polish builder last summer. Definitely my type of guy, super horny, stocky, and in workmans gear. He said he knew a place we could go and mess around a bit. Turns out it was some woodland and not private, he was really horny and saying lets do a bit while nobody is around and giving my dick a stroke through my shorts. He was ready to go, but people kept turning up and no way I'm getting it out. Looked like it wasn't going to happen, but there was a big field of tall grass, like 2 meter tall. I said lets go there and we went in to the grass and deep in it we sat down. And it was just us. It felt spontaneous and horny. We kissed, blew each other, and he fucked me. Being there in the long grass and feeling him there spooning and inside me, it was horny.

Wow, loads of replies! I've been reading them all but can't reply to all. Good to hear what you're all thinking. I was curious because I've been finding guys lately who more and more of them want to wear their GF underwear. Often big hairy guys, not the type you'd expect. It's kinky them wanting to feel what their GF or wife feels like when they fuck her, so I'm in to that. Don't really view them as feminine though. Didn't think I'd like it, but in that specific situation it's fun. There's lots of ways to dirty talk with guys like that so it works for me.

Personally, I feel just like I usually do when I let a guy top me, masculine but nothing extra or less in it.

Met up with a turkish guy recently that I'd played with before a few years back. Chill guy, big tall guy with thick hairy legs and chest, likes to roll around in bed and kiss. Great beard too. I don't let many guys fuck me, but something about him makes me want it. So that's what we did first time we met. He teased my hole, my legs around him, then it was like a pop when he pushed inside. He's got a big fat mushroom head and my insides feel like they're rippling with pleasure. I was wrapping my legs around him and thinking fuck that's good dick, I could do this for hours, I was totally in the zone with him. I knew I was going to have the best prostate orgasm ever. But two minutes later I feel him grunting and shooting cum. I met him again couple of weeks back thinking maybe he'd last longer but two minutes is his distance. Even with a guy that hot and a dick that hits the spot that good I still need longer to make my prostate orgasm. Nice guy though so I didn't complain, it was what it was.

I get the feeling there's a wide range on this, but I feel masculine and comfortable with it when I've got a guy in me. I'm curious how other guys see it and feel when they do it?

Happened a few times over the years. It happened when I'd just started prep and really wanted to try it. We didn't talk about condoms on the app and I show up at his place. He's teasing my hole with his dick and I'm thinking this is probably going to happen bare and getting excited. But he's trying to go in without lube so I ask if he has lube and he leaves the room, then comes back with lube and his dick with a condom on. I don't want him in me with a condom, so I clench my hole tight and don't let him in me. I figure I'll get it off and see what happens next, so I say I'll blow him and start pulling it off. He just asks me if I want bb and before I can say anything he's pulled it off, squirted on lube and is on top of me poking it in me.

I get hard before the guy is in me because I'm excited. Usually say hard the whole time too, but sometimes I'm up and down.