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I had sex with this greek taxi driver in my early 20s. He was a bi, super down low, early 40s, married dad with a whole lot of kids. He was a curious lurker on the site, but I wanted him and we talked a bit. I promised he could top as much and as long as long he liked and eventually he said yes. He was scruffy-handsome and crazy hairy, like his chest had proper fur. I've got a kink for dad dick and I love hair, so it felt great getting tangled up with such a hairy guy and feel his hard dad dick.

I can see how he ended up with so many kids. This guy had stamina. Said I was the second guy he'd been with and his first time fucking a guy, which I believe. He was horny for it and wanted to get a hotel room, and after some kissing and blowing we got down to him fucking me with a condom on. He felt great, I had my first anal orgasm with him. Then I felt him cum. I immediately was sure the condom had broken. I could feel his dick pulsing and I felt this slippery, hot liquid sensation inside my butt. I was 100% a condom user at this point, but this felt amazing.

I was tiny bit freaked at being cum in, but I figured he was telling the truth about me being his first guy fuck. When he pulled out the condom was actually fine and full of cum. He just shoots huge loads. I was a relieved and kind of disappointed. We fucked for several hours, always with a condom, and he felt as good every time he cum.

But the idea was planted. I kept daydreaming about him fucking me rawdog with our hairy chests tangling up and feeling him bucking and shooting hot cum inside me. I was sure it would feel even more intense. I asked him later to meet up again and do it like that. I believed what he said about being his first time so I was down for it. But he felt guilty about cheating on his wife and we never met again. I didn't find another guy I felt ok doing it with until PrEP came along, then I just went for it like I wanted to with a totally random hookup. I wanted to feel liberated, and I did when I let him cum in me without a condom.

12 hours ago, hntnhole said:

On top of a '49 Buick slant-back, in a junkyard somewhere in Ohio.  

A group of gay car-guys were headed East to attend Hershey, Carlisle, Meadow Brooke or one of those shows, and we stopped at a really excellent junkyard (car-guys are always on the lookout for out-of-the-way junkyards), and one guy sort of hung back from the others.  I had to get my tools out of the trunk, and lagged behind.  So did he, and back behind some trees/bushes/undergrowth, he go on top of that Buick hidden behind trees, bushes, undergrowth, and started a "bump-n-grind' right on the roof.  He was Italian, cute, hot ass, I was a lot younger, and that was it. 

Then, went off to hunt for some MoPar parts ... with a filthy grin on my mug.

Nice! Spontaneous sex with guys is great, it keeps things exciting

6 hours ago, blackrobe said:

The slow intensity building sounds very tantric in quality. Men who are that patient and capable of deferred gratification aren't as common as I'd like. 

It intense how it makes you become like one, but it needs the right kind of guy. Always happy find one who is up for that kind of experience. But like you said a bit rare. Hookup app bottoms have been rubbish around here lately. Most want a load but not letting me fuck them much. But I want a full experience. I've got excited about topping him, so I want to feel like I've properly had the guy I want to fuck, even if it's just a few minutes so that his warm hole makes me cum. It's when I can feel him relax inside and that familiar squeezing and his body response that tells me he's enjoying it, that's when I get really turned on and feel ready to cum in him. You can tell when it's feeling good for him, even if he's one of those quiet guys or a guy who doesn't want to admit how good it feels. And that's when I want to pump a load in him, when he's fully given his butt to me.

We've got a lot of down low workmen and army types around here, many of them low mileage bottoms or virgin, and they're often a lot better than the out gay guys. They'll let me fuck them sometimes and it's great, but I'm not going to be a dick and ride an inexperienced guy for half an hour. Sometimes the best way is finding a guy, doesn't matter if he's 20 or 45, just as long as he's low experience bottoming or a virgin and teaching him how to enjoy bottoming over a period of time, not just to get in the habit of taking awkward pokes for loads. Bi guys like me who've been in long term relationships with a woman usually understand the skill a top can have in giving someone pleasure with their dick and let me do my thing in them, so they're good to look out for.

It depends. I've got a wide range. Fortunately, I can stay hard for as long as I like (provided I don't drink any beer!) so there's no need to rush.

At the low end sometimes all we've got is a few minutes because the guy is sneaking in a fuck the gf won't know about on his way home from work, or we've cruised each other and need to do it fast while we're alone. I can get the job done in less than five if needed. The best fast fucks are intense and animal like with no chat or messing around. Often I don't say a word, or nothing after 'hey'. If we're going to do it like dogs and go from seeing each other to immediately fucking there's no point getting all chit chat. It's physical. It's easier to show a guy what I want and it happens quickly. It's always a huge orgasm when it's been a quick fuck.

At the high end I've had experiences with guys where they sit in my lap, my dick inside them, and we just hang out enjoying the feeling. Relax, kiss. No pumping, no trying to cum. Just me inside him. Nothing happens right away, but it gets more and more intense as all the little feelings get stronger. This can be 30 minutes, 45, nobody's counting, that's not what it's about. But it's a long time and you bond and get a kind of intimacy that doesn't happen any other way I know about. When I move, even a tiny bit, he responds. If my dick throbs he tightens, which makes me throb more, and it keeps growing. At first you get really relaxed, but at the feelings grow it gets intense until you cum.

Very little over the years. I hook up mainly with DL bi guys. There's a lot of workmen and truck driver type guys around here passing through and they want to try stuff discretely when they're well away from home. There's a few cruising places, but mostly I check out the empty grindr profiles for them. There's ways to spot their profiles. Since I've had a lot of these guys cum in me, or me in them without anything happening, these guys don't seem to be a high risk group. A lot of them are just jacking off together or blowing each other. It takes some warming up to get them to fuck or be fucked and a lot have been first time.

Guys don't need to be gripped hard to feel good and orgasm. Sometimes I wank by just running a finger up and down the underside of my dick, from my balls to the tip and back again. It feels intense, I'm the one doing it and I'm bucking around. When I finally cum it's a huge one. I'm not gripping my dick when I wank like that, so grip doesn't matter at all. Guys might need a tight grip to cum if that's just what they're used to doing, or if they're nervous, not horny enough, stuff like that, but they could enjoy all kinds of holes if they were in the right headspace and let the orgasm come to them, not chase after it.

I've got to be in the mood to blow a guy, but when I am in that mood I'll be sucking a friend usually, and I'm going to do the job properly. I've got a dick, I know a proper blowjob from a crap half arsed one and I'm not going to be that guy who doesn't do it properly and complains or gives up after a bit.

You've got to suck his nuts, lick the shaft, don't rush him. Blow him like it's your dick being sucked, then you know you're doing it properly. I don't rush at it. I like feeling him in my mouth and how he responds. Every guy is different. Some stay still, others buck around. Some grunt, others stay pretty quiet. Love a guy who gets his hands in my hair and pulls me onto his dick.

And completing a proper blowjob means he cums in my mouth. I know that nothing feels as good as finishing in a guys mouth, so when I'm blowing that's how we're going to finish it.

Loads of them, and it depends on the mood too. But here's a few

Logan Stevens. This guy was a hot twink, then he turned in to this sexy daddy. He's just got whatever it is that makes a guy hot, and he seems genuine and cool so he's the kind of guy you could relax and hang out with. Plus he seems to be totally vers which always makes things fun for me.

Kieran. This Aussie guy who was in porn way back. I think he was the first BB porn I watched (him or the also very sexy Peto Coast). He's like the sweetest and filthiest guy all at the same time, great energy.

This onlyfans guy called mad-dick who does wank videos. He's hairy, handsome, great beard, totally my type, but it's how much he gets in to cumming that gets me horny. He's moaning, grunting and always shoots a huge messy load. Any guy that gets that excited to blow a load is hot, it just helps that he's my type. Would be fucking hot to feel him grunting and blasting it in me.

Tim Kruger. He's like the porn equivalent of a sleeper car. No disrespect, he's handsome, but his whole look is super guy next door. But when he fucks a guy you can tell he's great at it. Hot that he does it bb now.

Cliff Jensen. I've always liked a hot skater dude. Got a bit of a chaotic edge too.

Teddy (Sean Cody model). He's handsome, but he's also just so fucking big, like the entire guy. And he got a fat dick that gets rock hard and cums lots. I almost never get to be the smaller guy, so watching him gets me horny thinking about how good he'd feel fucking me.

Ok, I can think of loads more hot porn guys, so I guess I'll have to get back this some other time.

On 10/21/2023 at 7:33 PM, hntnhole said:

This is inexcusable.  When more advanced sexual acts/kinks are being considered (anything dealing with "forced" acts, for instance), there is absolutely a requirement for a "negotiation" prior to the meetup.  Corporal anything beyond fucking/sucking simply must be agreed upon by both parties, and before any action takes place.  

1.  You may not know if the other guy has any experience in the arts of B/d, S/m, and you don't want to find out the hard way.  The Leather Ethic* has always forbidden un-negotiated acts that can be dangerous.  

2.  In the event you're feeling like getting fucked, it's doubly important, since that would be assuming the submissive role, and might be misinterpreted by some asshole that you're ok with whatever he does.  That is never ok, and that guy is one to avoid.  I've posted elsewhere on BZ how to conduct a negotiation (which, btw, is the Top's responsibility), how to protect yourself, etc.  

3.  Insecure men who don't understand (or care to) that this is a serious consideration can wind up dead.  It used to happen a couple times a year back in Chicago.  

4.  Don't let one p.o.s. wannabe Dom wreck your Lusts - thankfully, there aren't all that many guys like your example around.  It's Saturday - go out tonight and fuck/get fucked as much as you can hold, and try to overcome this regrettable event.  It's not your fault; don't stew about it.  Just know that there are ignorant, wannabe poseurs out there, and be careful. 

Good luck !!

*ask the googler about the Gay Leather Ethic, if you're unfamiliar:  the first and most important concept is "never do intentional, physical harm to another person".  Or, look up the older posts here about it.  

Thanks for this. He was out of order, but it's good to hear that from someone else.

I agree, talking about stuff before doing it is how to avoid it going badly. I get freaked out by anything involving suffocating, choking, whatever. Like I don't even like it on TV and I'll have flashbacks for weeks afterwards. So this was never going to end well. I'm on his crazy hookup list for sure. I don't know if it was a nosebleed or something busted, but his nose got messed up. I'm not too worried about it, I mean what's he going to do, call the cops and say he met a random guy for sex, tried to choke him and got headbutted. No way that's going to happen. But I'm thinking things could have gotten worse and it's not good meeting up with guys if I can get like this again. And I've got a bunch of stuff that might make me angry if it happened, and I'm feeling kind of stressed.

But I know who I'd like, so I'll wait for next time he's in the area. He's chill and won't try anything weird.

15 hours ago, 120DaysofSodom said:

Had this one hookup once the guy was hot and he and I had talked a few times on grindr about him coming over to my place and id be face down ass up waiting for him to walk in and aggressively use me.

We did that one afternoon. The sex was amazing...

After though, we had a beer in my living room. He was looking around at all my art and started interrogating me about satanism. Then began preaching the gospel at me lmao

When I gave him my opinion on religion, namely that if the god of abraham were real (which he isnt) it would be absurd to worship such a thing with a track record that makes adolf hitler look like ghandi.

Well, he didnt like that much. Out of nowhere, he spit in my face. (normally this is a turn on when the guy is fucking me, but obviously not in a moment like this...)

I then stood up and grabbed my beer bottle and told him to get the fuck out of my apartment or id smash the bottle over his head as at that point I felt threatened. He got up and walked to the door, and as he was leaving, said, "that was so hot lets do it again some time"

...

That's the best example of situation matters that I've seen in a long time. Getting spat in the face outside of a kink situation isn't cool. Sounds scary and like he didn't read the situation at all right.

12 hours ago, JavyX69 said:

It didn't progress to sex, but after arranging to go fuck this supposed "cumdump" off CL, who specifically only wanted to see cock pics, and walking all the the way to his place, he asked me to leave because "you never sent me a body pic". Which he never asked for and explicitly stated that he didn't need to see. It was humiliating, especially because some random twink was there too, but I was in such shock that I just walked out without saying anything. That's as mad as I've ever gotten.

Otherwise I've just been mildly annoyed with a couple guys that misrepresented themselves with 10-15 year outdated pics, but I didn't say anything and I got sucked off by both at least.

What a jerk. Sounds like he didn't even remember who was who at that point.

I had a situation a bit like that one time. I was with a guy I didn't know too well and he invited a 3rd we'd never met. Fair enough. Anyway 3rd guy shows up and he's chilled out and I like him, but when he goes to the bathroom the first guy is not happy because he's a bit chunky and saying he wants me to make him to go. I decided best way to do it was to tell 3rd guy I think he's hot, but this guy doesn't, so let's get out of here. I was up for some fun and we made the most of the 30 seconds in the lift, but neither of us had a place to hang out so we ended up having Chinese and eating it sat on the pavement. One of those weird nights you only have in a big city.

3 hours ago, backdoorjimmy said:

I got mad enough to call off a hookup once when I was about 19 or 20. I got to this guy's place and he was all over me, kissing me, eating my ass, rubbing my back and stomach with his hands and just all in all turning me on. He pushed me to my knees so I could suck him off and I felt like the vibe was established. But when I came up for a kiss, he kinda pushed me away and said he never gave me consent to kiss him.

That was it. I got dressed and left while he started apologizing and begging me to change my mind. But it was too weird and honestly, I felt like I was being accused of being a sex pest. So I left and blocked him.

Weird situation. I sometimes meet with 'straight' guys who don't want to kiss and things, but they're not kissing me all over and eating my ass either. I'd have thought kissing was ok with a guy like that too

I've seen topics about has a guy ever been angry or aggressive with you during a hookup, but none asking if we've ever been that guy?

I had a meet with a guy who did something dumb. He decided to try choking me. We didn't talk about this and I didn't expect it. I've got some PTSD issues that I normally keep well enough in control of, but I'm kinda twitchy about my neck and I got very angry.

I don't want to be hooking up with anyone new at the moment now because I'm thinking what if they trigger something again. I'm going to think about it for a bit. I still feel ok with the guys I already know, I know they don't cause issues.

I'm wondering has anyone else had something like this experience?

I'm horny and impulsive, and there's a lot of hot guys in the world, and some of them think the same about me. Sooner or later we find each other. The more I try to be good and monogamous the more horny I get and the more I'm checking out guys. And you know where it's mutual. It's not that I have any turn on for cheating, it just happens, and the release after being so horny for something with another guy is intense. I rationalise it to myself later, because it was just 100% a fun release with another guy who needed it too, that it's ok because we're both guys and nobody is going to get pregnant or expect it to turn in to some kind of romance, but it's still cheating.

But temptation happens. Imagine you've been monogamous for 6 months and then a really hot guy is cruising you,  he's exactly your type. I don't feel like I'm choosing, it just happens. We kiss, we stroke each others dicks, things happen.

It's best to have a partner who understands, but society isn't accepting about guys who like doing it with other men. Loads of us out there, but nobody really talks about it. There's a lot of great guys who would be an awesome bf or husband to someone, but they aren't good with monogamy. One of the guys I know is an amazing bf to his partner, he loves her and takes great care of her (she's very ill), but he has hookups with guys sometimes.

Currently I'm single and that's a good thing at the moment, but I'd like to be in a relationship one day that accepts monogamy isn't suitable for me. I'm not sure that will happen though.

On 10/18/2023 at 5:08 PM, theplayerking said:

I love the psychological thrill of being penetrated by a man much more than the physical sensations. I’ve talked a lot of hookups with small dicks into flip fucking and breeding each other when I explained the psychological dynamic. 

I totally get that. Sex is massively about what's going on in our heads. I top a lot more than I bottom, so I've got to be convinced to give up my butt. It's mostly about him being the right guy with the right kind of connection. If I get horny thinking about him thrusting inside me, my legs around him, having him taking pleasure from me and in my space like that, then he's good to go. Some men I just want to get inside me right now, others take some getting to know first.

But whatever happens I want a guy who feels masculine, whose going to get lost in the feeling and just do his thing. Big plus points if he's noisy. Now I think about it, dick size isn't part of that at all. Some dicks do feel better than others, size/shape can do different stuff inside me, but main thing is the guy getting me horny for it more than anything else. And I was horny for it with Brian. He's a big handsome guy and after blasting a lot of satisfying loads inside him I wanted to share my butt with him. Even if I hadn't felt much physically I wanted this with him and I would have been happy to feel him enjoying it.

On 10/19/2023 at 2:31 AM, Read1 said:

I once bottomed for a younger Middle Eastern top with a 4" pencil-thin cock. I could feel him spurting a huge load in my ass after excusing himself from his family's Christmas dinner because he needed to take care of a few things. Lucky I was to meet him!

I think it can be easier to feel the guy cumming when he's not too deep inside? Sounds like a hot meet too.

On 10/19/2023 at 12:57 PM, viking8x6 said:

He sounds cute AF!

My experience has been that smaller penises get a lot harder than bigger ones.

I certainly bottom for smaller guys. If I can convince them to top. A lot of times it seems they're bashful (certainly sounds like "Brian" is), and my rather large endowment aggravates that. But I'd much rather get a small dick in my ass than no dick at all, and sometimes (like the time the OP had) they can actually be a lot more fun.

Not so much that size doesn't matter as that other things matter a lot more. Attitude especially.

Yeah, I think same for me, other things matter a lot more. Good to hear you've been having fun with different size guys. It can be a thing like you say though, expecting the bigger guy is always top. But it's a free world, we don't need to anything any way except how we want.

Brian (you guessed right, it's not his real name) is a pretty cool guy, I like the way he's masculine without being fake about it. He's late 20s so about ten years younger than me. He's kind of shy though and doesn't talk a lot. Probably why he's a van driver. I'm curious to learn more about him. But he got totally naked for the first time with me now, so hopefully he feels more relaxed.

On 10/19/2023 at 2:27 PM, tallslenderguy said:

my wiring is like several others who have responded. To me a Tops Cock is much more than a physical organ betwixt His legs. It's part of His psychological make up. i have had some incredible breedings by Men Who have smaller physical Cocks, but Their internal Cock is huge. 

When a Man fucks me, i get more than a penis and cum, i also get His desire/need to penetrate and inseminate me. i also get His orgasm, which i see as connected, but a distinct part of copulation.  

Sure, a big physical Cock is great, but if size is all that matters, one can purchase some huge dildos.  i've been with Guys Who had big physical cocks, but Their "internal" cock was small. I'd take a big internal Cock over a big physical Cock if it came down to that.

Dildos and toys don't work with my butt, they don't turn me on so I'm tight and it hurts. So if I'm going to try different shapes and sizes they're going to have to be real dicks. But like you I'm way more in to the mental and connection side of sex.

Being attracted to each other, then the intensity of doing it and the release is a massive thing. It's often the biggest thing I remember about sex.

On 10/19/2023 at 7:17 PM, VersGuyAnon said:

Speaking as someone who isn't big, generally I'd say yes. The exception would be if it is so small it wouldn't actually go inside me properly. 

The other consideration is guys with small cocks who jab. I've been put out of action for a couple of weeks, by a guy who pulled out and then went to ram it back in, but missed, catching the edge of my hole and tearing the skin. It hurt like hell. I've come across a few like that. Ironically guys with big cocks don't tend to do it.   

That sounds painful!

20 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i so agree with you.

me receiving a 'small dick' is in no way a sympathy or altruistic gesture. i want a Mans Cock in me as much as He wants to put it inside of me, physical size is not a determining factor for me. 🙂

Totally agree. I wanted to do it and we had a great time. It was frustrating to hear he usually gets his dick ignored and felt like it wasn't big enough. Like a lot of guys here I'm about the experience and connection, not size.

I've been doing it with this guy Brian for a while and had a hot experience with him at the weekend. He's a pretty big guy, about 6', slim, kinda hairy and has one of the best beards I've seen. Thick, dark, soft and a bit wavy. I've had a lot of fun kissing him and running my fingers through his beard. We mostly meet when his truck route takes him through my area.

He's a bit of a odd guy, he's not much good for talking and he's always been shy about getting his clothes off for some reason. He doesn't mind being touched, grab his butt, even pull his t-shirt up a bit and play with his treasure trail, no problem, but until the weekend I'd never seem him fully naked and he'd always been pretty clear his dick was a hands off place. He'd move my hand if I got near it. I've always wanted him naked though, he's a sexy lean otter and totally my type.

Usually we hang out a while kissing then he'll blow me until he's got a big load in his beard and then we're done. Sometimes he wants to be fucked though. It's always kind of down to business when we do that, he just pulls his jeans and boxers down a bit to expose his hairy butt and lie face down, or on his back with his legs up for me to enter him. I like getting intimate usually, kissing and stuff when fucking, but he just wants to lie there and take it. He's got a super fuckable butt though, and he moans and grunts a lot. Never asked for a condom, takes it as hard and as long as I want, and is cool with me shooting in him. So I can't complain. Sometimes he shoots a load in his boxers too, I can feel that familiar clenching in his hole and he's making the noises. I wonder how many other guys he's letting fuck him.

On Friday, I told him he's a sexy guy and if he ever wants it's cool to top me, and I tell him how I'd like to make him cum too. After a while he says guys never want him on top because he's small. Eventually he gets it out and he's about 2.5" hard. Big nuts though. He says that other guys just ignore it mostly and never want to bottom for him, he's never topped. Took some convincing but it was about time he got in a guy's butt. I expected to have fun, he's a hot guy and I've got a pretty sensitive hole. Having the entrance teased with a dick feels great. But I had way more fun than I expected when Brian did it. He was rock hard and when he was pumping at my hole he was bumping and teasing it great, just dipping the tip of his dick in and out and leaking precum. A few times when I was really getting in to it and forgetting I pushed my hips up and expected to feel him enter me fully. Thing is, I loved being that dick hungry with him teasing my hole and never getting completely filled. He teased the hell out of my hole. He eventually cum with his tip pushed just inside me. I was relaxed and open so his shots went deep. I really felt the hot pulses of cum entering me and filling me. No prostate orgasms, but I definitely felt something happening with it when his hot cum filled me up.

So, I'm wondering, do other guys ever bottom with small tops, and what does it feel like for them?

It's not something I'm seeking. I dream about a future without any STDs where sex is more free and simple.

But I understand kink and I think it's a kink for some guys. I think some kinks are better as an idea and not a reality. All changes to our bodies, like catching something, or taking medicines, come with a chance they'll go badly.

PrEP is a medicine though and I'm willing to take it so I can bb sometimes. So do I have a bb kink? I don't know. Can we call sex like our ancestors always had it a kink? Maybe it is with modern context of STDs? But I figure PrEP was a minor risk for the benefits, I mean it's not like I have to keep taking it if there's ever a problem.

I guess how willing we are to go for our kinks and wants is a very personal thing. I think it's good to remember though sex is just one part of our lives, and there's a massive range of things to enjoy and not every kink has to happen for us to have a great time. It's also good to have a good understanding what something is before doing it.

2 hours ago, bbttmm77 said:

No specific reason. I liked his dick and I'd love to take it raw, but only if he also wants to. Maybe with time he'll become more open and we can ditch the condom.

Hopefully he'll like the idea too! Being horny has always been the the thing that leads to it happening for me. But yeah, it's not so great if there's any regrets later so like others I don't want to encourage it too much.

What gets guys shagging each other bare is always one very simple thing, being horny.

Earlier this year I got fucked bare for the first time by a guy Id been hooking up with for a while. A stocky ginger guy in his 30s. He's got big thighs and can fuck hard. He's got a gf and is super careful normally so always with a condom. In the morning we'd had sex before work like usual with a condom. I messaged him later that evening with a picture of my butt (in my work pants, not naked) and told him I'd been working hard all day but kept thinking about him inside me. How much he turns me on and how it was great to start my day with his dick giving me a prostate orgasm. Then I told him I'd been thinking what if he'd filled me with his cum. I'd have been horny hanging out with the crew with that sexy hot wet feeling inside my manhole, knowing I'm full of his cum and these straight guys would never guess I'd let a big hairy guy fuck me that morning. And that I'm sure with one of his big loads I'd have felt juicy all day and would be lying in bed now still feeling him inside me, wanking in my work gear as I imagine how deep his sperm must be by now.

He somehow managed to leave work early and was nuts deep in me without a condom about an hour later. Can't promise it will work on everyone, but getting a guy really horny can work great sometimes. He might have regrets or be stressed out after though. Some guys might even vanish after that. My guy took it pretty alright, so that was cool. These days we only do it bare right after I've been tested, but that's alright and it's good we get the occasional raw fuck in. They're a lot more intense.

How horny a guy's got to get though is going to vary. Worst case situation is he's got a lot of sex-negative ideas and thinks bare sex is a bad thing only for irresponsible guys, so that's going to take a lot of being horny to overcome. Or maybe he's got to be really careful because he's got a wife/gf who can't find out. All kinds of reasons.

The thing is, what are your reasons for wanting it bare with him? If you just want an arse full of cum, well there's plenty of guys who can give you that without any problems. If there's something specific about that guy then tell him why you want to do it bare with him. I mean like what about him is different and makes you want it. With guys I find keep it simple and horny, we're good with that.

12 hours ago, danolivaw said:

Reading this makes me want a bare throbbing cock inside me so bad. It's just a matter of time. 

Personally, I'd totally recommend it. PrEP is a good idea though if you're not certain about the guy's situation.

It wasn't until a few days ago that I found out what it's like to be properly hungry for sucking dick. I've had good times blowing guys before because they tasted good and we connected and had fun. But this guy called Vir was a totally different experience.

He's a friendly, handsome, slim and hairy, mid 20s Indian guy who's visiting my country. We met at his hotel. I like his chilled out energy, he's easy to talk with and has an interesting story, so that was cool. He was gently rubbing his dick and giving me looks though, so I went in to kiss him and help him rub his dick though his jeans. We ended up rolling around kissing for a good while. We clashed a bit over who would be more dominant, I would get on top kissing him and running my fingers through his hair, then he'd flip to be on top of me. I think we both wanted to grab each other and explore a bit. Looking back I was excited to feel and explore him because I've often looked at hot guys like him and never been able to do this with them. Now I was running my fingers through his thick, soft hair and beard. I think it was the same for him because I'm the first white guy he'd been with. He was fascinated playing with my nuts and the feel of my curly chest hair.

Then we got his dick out. About 5", hard and leaking a lot of precum around the end of his foreskin. One lick and I knew this is good stuff. You could tell it was dick juice, but it's so fresh tasting with a smooth texture, and he was leaking loads of it. I'd lick up the underside of his dick and he'd be flexing his dick, moaning as a steady stream of his slightly salty juice would leak out and run down his shaft. Great pair of chunky, hairy nuts to play with and suck on too. We just went in to the zone at this point, this was exactly what we both wanted to do. His dick is perfect for blowing. Perfect size, delicious and very juicy. I didn't hold back. Never had a guy moaning like him before, he was properly writhing around, grunting, bucking his hips. He had to grab my head a couple of times and say slow down, I don't want to cum yet.

I've never been this hungry for a load before. He eventually shot a decent size, great tasting load. Again, very smooth. I liked that, it just melted in my mouth.

I really wanted to fuck him after this. His butt looks amazing. We'd talked about it before meeting and he seemed up for it. We hadn't talked about condoms though and turns out he wanted to use one. I had one in my cargo pants, I always do for unplanned stuff, but I was really in to him so I said I didn't have one hoping he'd say it's cool lets do it without a condom. It was a gamble that didn't pay off. He got tempted he was unsure about it. He initially said we could try a bit and he opened his legs for me in missionary and we got as far as my dick teasing and dipping in his hot, wet hole, but then he decided not to go further. I didn't want to pressure him so we left it at that and I wanked off a big load on to his hairy stomach. Was a lot of fun though.

He's messaged me since and wants to meet again. I've said lets do it again, but I'm a bi guy who doesn't fuck a lot of other dudes, and I think he's very sexy so I'd prefer it without a condom. It's a risk he'll never do it, but I'm currently willing to trade the opportunity to top him with a condom for a chance at topping his sexy arse bare. His time here is going down and he explained he wants to get fucked while he's here and it's easy to find a guy, so I think he'll get more tempted to say yes as the days go by. We'll see what happens, but we'll probably be doing something again before he leaves, even if I don't get to top him.

9 hours ago, bbttmm77 said:

It feels liberating to confess that to be honest. Thanks for listening.

Thanks for sharing! It's awesome that you're learning about yourself - not everyone takes that step.

On 10/6/2023 at 3:21 PM, hntnhole said:

Freedom rocks !!!

I can agree with that! Freedom is how we be ourselves and reclaiming it from others and giving it to ourselves is a big deal in life. I think we all have the need to do this sooner or later, but gay and bi people often have a big need to do this.

Condoms aren't a deal breaker for me. Some guys are only willing to fuck with them, so that's the way it goes. Some guys who say condoms only end up doing it bare anyway, they just never mention the condom and someone ends up getting fucked.

The only thing I can't be doing with is a guy whose STD paranoid and constantly checking it's not broken, doesn't want to blow each other, stuff like that. Sex is supposed to be fun. These guys need to relax, get on PrEP and use condoms too if makes them happy, but try to chill out a bit about sex.

On 10/4/2023 at 1:57 PM, hntnhole said:

I guess you're more of an "in the heat of the moment" type guy than I am.  Sometimes, bottoms who do perform the required ritual, and still a little remains - which I don't blame them for.  Accidents happen, no to make a big deal out of it.  I won't make it a point to give it a re-run either.   

That said, if the effort hasn't been made at all, I'll just step over to the next one.  It's happened a couple of times at my favorite fuckjoint, that 1 guy who hadn't prepped cleared out the entire darkroom, and in one fast hurry.  Maybe it's related to the availability of Holes in general, well-prepped Holes in particular around town, maybe something else, but I won't knowingly shove it to an unprepped Hole.  If it becomes apparent that I inadvertently have, I head to the washroom the moment I become aware.  

In the heat of the moment is completely my kind of sex. Spontaneous, unplanned, that's what turns me on.

I'd miss out on that excitement and some hot guys if I didn't go for it when the chance happens. The sexy cable installer wasn't a local and he said he might never come back this way again. I figured when I was teasing his hole with my dick it was the one chance I'd get at topping him. So why live with regrets :) Going for it paid off, he's a very sexy guy with a great butt. We do want to meet again now which is cool, but maybe we wouldn't if I'd not been inside him that time.

I've had experiences that range from horny to unique with different guys because I just go for it given the chance. Had a lot of inexperienced, sometimes virgin, bi curious guys too. They just want to get fucked and adding things for them to do in advance isn't going to work with them. They're nervous and need to be caught when they're really horny, that's the only way to get in them.

But I get it, it's not for everyone. I don't have much problems though. No major incidents so far. The guys are sober and not been with other guys earlier in the day so they should be alright. As for me bottoming, as long as I feel comfortable and empty I've always been fine as I am. I guess the lifelong wholefood vegan diet helps me out there.

One of my early experiences being fucked was a Greek taxi driver with lots of kids whose wife had stopped wanting sex. I think he was 43, so about 20 years older than I was. He'd never been with a guy but had wanted to for years, and now the sex had dried up and he'd discovered gay apps he was getting very horny for it. After mostly doing things with other guys my age, I was up for trying my first dad dick and we got a hotel room.

He was that kind of chavvy-handsome. Heavy stubble, crooked teeth but a genuine smile, bit skinny and beastly hairy all over. Regular size dick. Pretty sweet guy, but I think I found out why his wife was going off sex. He'd probably worn her out after 20 years or so. We spent the next couple of hours with him fucking me in all kinds of positions and him cumming multiple times. He barely even stopped between cumming. We were using condoms, but I could feel him throbbing and that hot liquid sensation when he shot inside me. They were big loads. I felt it with him more than I have with some guys who were in me bare.

Never had a guy who could shoot that many times or top that much in a session since. My hole felt great, but even I had to eventually tap out on that one. I wonder how long that guy could have gone. Most guys do one load. I'm generally good for 2-3, but that's it. When he finally left the bin was filled up with a pile of condoms full of cum. It was a lot of cum in there.

I wanted to meet again and try to get him in me bare. We never met again though, he said he loved it and we tried planning more meets, but he'd cancel and say he felt guilty for cheating on his wife.

On 8/9/2023 at 12:35 PM, Bored24 said:

Here is my cock, take a seat or use my hole, dont mind 😉

Very sexy :)

23 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Sounds like you enjoy Topping most .... for the bottoms, there is one rather crucial (to me, anyway) component, which would involve "planning ahead".  Once that ritual has been performed though, every guy is empowered to rawfuck every other guy that wants loads up his gut, and it's one of the most liberating, exciting aspects of our lives !! 

I'm very vers, both can be great experiences in their own way :)

To be honest, if I'm really in to a guy who hasn't had a chance to prepare I'll still do it. The guys I'm getting are often cruisy 'straight' types, either at the cruising places near the industrial area or found on grindr where I look for uniform and work gear profile pics. Workmen with a 45 minute break, that type of guy. Recently had a landscape gardener who'd just finished a job and was sneaking in a meet on the way home to his girlfriend. These aren't generally freshly prepped guys, and even if I did catch them on a day off work most of them would be pretty clueless about prepping anyway. Mostly they're wanking or blowing each other and not highly experienced guys. A lot need to be told you've gotta use lube for a fuck. But they're often up for trying it, so that's cool.

So yeah, I top their unprepared butts. Not got any fetish for it, but if you want that kind of guy that's how they mostly come. It's almost always ok, no accidents. What does get me hard is unplanned sex and workmen, so when their pants come off and I'm looking at their warm, sexy hole, that's all I care about. I had a hot cub with a great beard one time who was some kind of cable internet installer come to my house in his work gear. His butt looked great in the work pants, proper stocky and nice, and it looked even better with them pulled down a bit and him on the bed with his legs up. A great hairy, stocky arse and thighs with a nice furry crack. I could feel the heat of his entrance on my foreskin and his soft crack hair around my dick as I teased him. Then he tells me he hasn't been able to prepare so we can't fuck! I don't care, I've got totally focused on the goal at that point. My dick is touching the entrance to the most amazing feeling thing and I'm one push of my thighs away from feeling it. It was like mate, I've got to have this arse. Some guys can be convinced it's ok, others you can't. Thankfully he was cool with it and we had a great time.

Sure, if you like the guy why not. I've already fucked a guy from one of the hostels in town. He was around late 20s, scruffy with his brown hair and bead roughly clippered, but I like scruffy so no problem for me. I used to buy him coffee because he'd hang around the bus station looking cold. After I mentioned kissing a guy one time he started giving me super cruisy vibes. Shifty eyes, adjusting his dick a lot. It reminded me of the curious 'straight' army guys that used to visit some of the local areas. Seemed like a good offer, I was totally up for doing it with him, so I said how about a coffee at mine.

Things started out awkward. But he still followed me to the bedroom. Lots of shy but horny energy with him. Eventually we got our clothes off and I told him sit in my lap. I was sat on the bed and he sat in my lap facing me with his legs around my waist. We kissed and I told him he's a hot guy and how much I wanted to fuck him. He wasn't dirty or anything, hostels have showers, but he wouldn't have prepared his butt for unplanned sex. I took a chance and we fucked bare. No discussion, just lubed it up and started rubbing his hole. He didn't object so I went inside. I wondered how much he did this and if he'd ever done it for money, but actually he bucked a bit when I entered him and seemed quite tight so I think fairly limited fucking before then.

I remember his warm furry stomach pressed against mine and feeling his legs flexing as he squeezed my dick inside his hot butt. And his kissing, which was kind of clumsy, but I liked our beards merging together. He was shy about eye contact, but had beautiful eyes. It was very intimate sex, slow and lots of kissing. I shot two loads in him that evening. My dick got a little messy, but who cares, it's nothing a shower didn't fix.

So yeah, no problems with fucking a homeless guy. I suspected some issues with drug use however, and it's not unusual for homeless guys to have behavior problems. He seemed pretty chill and let me blast a couple of loads in his guts, but if I were a smaller guy I'm not sure I'd have taken my chances with him.