@ rawTOP
Oh I totally get your point. I would totally be upfront about what I want from the beginning just to avoid any type of confusion. (of course if you decided that you just wanted to take my hole and cum inside rawTOP, I wouldn't be opposed to that )
I'm starting to realize how screwed up the gay sex world can be. How would you feel if a guy advertises that he's negative and plays safe only and you show up to his house and he's playing BB porn on his TV and tries to fuck you raw?
there is a high percentile of guys who say they are negative and play safe but when you show up to hook up, its a completely different story.
I'm the easygoing type so I could easily say "Yeah sure, no problemo!", but i find it extremely annoying when they swear that they're neg but they only do BB.
I personally would rather hook up with a guy who admits he's poz and is willing to be flexible for the bottom if he likes him enough.