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Usually when I jack off (whether I am jacking off "about nothing" or not) I cum. Not always, but usually.

I usually jack off to porn, or I'll get into a nasty fantasy while I jerk it. But sometimes I jack off without thinking about anything. I can watch TV and be jacking off and the two activities are separate (multitasking lol). I'm not being aroused by what's on TV, I'm just relaxing/having a good time while I watch. Or I'll just jack off in the shower, staring off into space without thinking about anything in particular. Your boyfriend might be fantasizing about something crazy and not wanting to share the details with you. But he could be like me and honestly not be thinking about anything at all when he jacks off.

I've been around dating sites and hookup sites, and sites that were a mix of the two. I can't seem to find what I'm looking for. I'd like to find a relationship were my partner and I are both free to have bareback sex with men outside of the relationship (gloryholes, bathhouses, tea rooms, etc). A relationship that still allows me to be a bb slut. Does anyone have advice on how to find a relationship like this? Or know of any sites that would be worth checking out?

Oh, I'm not looking to be a slave or bought/sold. I was just chatting with a guy and wondered if he was full of bullshit or this sort of thing actually happens. Thanks

I was chatting with a guy on a dating/hookup site, and after seeing I was sub and open to a lot of raunchy/kinky things, he asked if I had considered being a slave. After chatting with him a bit, he told me he trains young bottoms as slaves then sells them to other Masters for a good amount of money. He said the price paid for a slave varies with age, appearance, HIV status/health, training in different areas, etc. Apparently some men will pay very well for an young, attractive, well-trained, no-limits slave. This guy seemed legit to me (he talked about it like someone who had real experience with it, and definitely had the attitude for that sort of thing), but I realize it could all be a bunch of bullshit. Has anyone heard of this sort of thing (guys making money by training slaves and then selling them)? Has anyone bought a slave or been paid to train a slave for someone else? NOTE: I am NOT talking about people being forced into slavery as unwilling prostitutes, I am talking about WILLING slaves being trained and then sold to a new Master, with the Master who trained them pocketing the money.

I think it depends on where you grew up. I am in my middle/late 20s, but if you think I was spared the "school of hard knocks" gay guys faced when you were younger, you are very much mistaken. I grew up in the Bible Belt. As a teenager (from 8th grade until I finished high-school), I was harassed at school by students AND faculty (faculty was actually worse to me than most of the students ever were). I had more than one teacher openly talk about hating "fags", even talk about how fags should all be killed, with NOTHING ever being done about it. I was afraid to go to the bathroom in highschool, because members of the football team had threatened to beat the shit out of me, and implied they would rape me for being gay (I don't get how that makes any sense, but I believe they would have made good on the threat if they ever had an opportunity, as two of them tried to corner me in a bathroom stall one time) and I knew the faculty would do NOTHING to help me (or even try to make ME look like the villain). I heard rumors that a gay student had been murdered by the football team a few years before I moved to the town, and that the local cops (and a football coach) had made it look like an accidental death to protect the murderers and the gay kid's mom moved away afterwards because she couldn't take living in the town anymore; I know the cops and football coaches covered up other crimes for the football players (drug busts, drunk driving, a few sexual assaults, etc) when I was in highschool, so I don't doubt the story. At my first job (at 16), I heard my boss talk about not hiring a girl because she "looked like a dyke" (and I believe it is still 100% legal for employers to discriminate on that basis in that state). I literally had a guy try to hit me with his car (his main reason for hating me was that I was gay), and he never faced consequences even though witnesses saw the attempt. I had another redneck pull on a knife on me (not for being gay, but I think he thought I was a "sissy" and couldn't handle myself because I was gay; if I was straight I don't think he would have done it). I've had people spit in my face, call me all sorts of names, and threaten me so many times I can't remember all of it. As a young teen, I worried about my parents finding out; I figured my Dad would probably beat me to death, or my mother would send me to a "Reparative Therapy" center to have me given shocks or tortured or lobotomized or castrated to try to "fix" me. As icing on the cake, I even had a stupid asshole threaten to kill my family's dogs because he hated gay people. All this, when I wasn't even out yet. I just didn't show a serious interest in girls. I knew if I actually came out, I would have been murdered, like Matthew Shepard. All this shit was going on (roughly) around 1999-2005. If you think this shit is ancient history, that you're the last generation who went through it, you need to wake up. Gays growing up in Blue States or big cities might not face this shit, but growing up is STILL a nightmare in a LOT of places here in the USA.

Even IF the backroom was a bareback-only area, the way to deal with the situation is to kick out any condom-users. Raping them to "teach them a lesson" is monstrous. There are NO circumstances that make it okay to force people into sex they don't want. No matter what bullshit justifications you might try come up with, rape is not okay. Also, if a guy is going around barebacking other guys, there's no way to be sure he is neg, so that "what if a guy is sure he's neg" scenario is crap. Plus, even if a guy is 100% clean/neg he still doesn't have the right to cum in someone without their consent. Guys on this site always bitch that society (even mainstream gay society) doesn't want to let us make our own choices (about drugs, sex, who we marry); it sickens me to see people on this site saying consent doesn't matter, and that is's okay to ignore the rights of others.

Baseball analogy is totally off. The bottom isn't saying "everyone has to play safe with everyone else", he's saying "if you want to fuck me it has to be safe". Do you seriously not see the difference? I make people wear selt-belts when they ride in my car. I don't want to face consequences (get a ticket) for their risky behavior. So, they can choose to ride in my car belted, or find another ride. I'm not trying to make them always wear a seat-belt when they get in a car, just MY car. Is the bottom expecting safe sex while bent over in a darkroom being a dumbass? Yes. Should he be surprised if he ends up with cum in his ass? No. Does he have the right to be upset with the assholes who barebacked him despite knowing he only consented to safe sex? Yes! I like cruising rest stops for sex late at night. I know it's dangerous; I could get beaten up or robbed. It would be bullshit for me to act surprised if any of that happened to me, but the guy beating me up/robbing me is still an asshole.

Neg4poz, I don't know if you're just trolling or what. Really, You think I'm preachy for saying not to go around raping people? You're a fucking psycho. This isn't a situation in which consent was implied, or questionable. The bottom clearly was only consenting to condom sex. You don't get to decide "You're in a bath-house so you have to take cocks bareback" just because he's fucking in a dark room. If it was a private bareback-only party? I'd be one of the first guys saying condom users should get the fuck out or play raw. But unless the bath-house OFFICIALLY has a "no condom" rule (even for just that one room), then guys who play safe have as much right to be there as you. And if guys are wrapping up and fucking him, he's obviously not ruining everyone else's good time. If seeing a condom be worn for sex kills your hard-on, then YOU are the one who needs to fucking leave, not him.

If the bottom said he wanted condoms to be used when guys fuck him, then a top has two options: 1: Put on a condom and fuck him 2: Go find a bottom who willingly takes it bareback Whether you are poz or neg doesn't matter, you don't have the right to force or trick someone into sex they don't want. That is RAPE. If he doesn't want cum in his ass and you need to breed someone, then go fuck someone else. Why is this such a difficult concept to grasp?

If the bottom is taking cock bareback and doesn't ask your status when you go to mount him, he has no right to bitch if he ends up taking poz loads. I was responding to the posts saying it's cool to force someone to bareback after they have made it clear they want a condom to be worn. Don't pretend it's even close to the same thing, because it's not.

When you say "I think stealthing is hot" you're actually saying "I think rape is hot". It's fine as a fantasy, but if you're actually doing it, you're a monster and I hope you end up curb-stomped by an angry bottom and/or go to prison. Seriously, fuck you if you honestly think it's cool to force someone into sex they don't want. Btw, the bullshit about "he's in a bath-house so he's already consented to whatever"? Fuck you. I really doubt you'd be cool if you were rimming a guy and he suddenly shat in your mouth, then said "oh, why are you here if you're not willing to do anything and everything other guys think is hot?" when you got upset. This reminds me of assholes who think if a woman wears a skirt, she can't be raped because she's "asking for it".

For me it's not a huge issue if a guy takes a while to cum if it's one on one. But if there are multiple tops wanting to bust in a bottom's ass, you should have some consideration for them. Hogging a bottom's ass at an orgy is like being at a party, being offered a few hits off a joint, keeping it and smoking it down all by yourself. It's an asshole move. Take a fair turn on the bottom's ass, give other tops a turn at his ass, then take another turn...repeat until you're done or all the other tops have cummed. Even at my sluttiest and cock-hungriest, I turn away guys if I know they can't maintain an erection. I really hate (whether one on one or in a group/orgy) tops who can't perform (can't get hard, or can't stay hard, or can't cum) but keep trying to go at it. Poking me with a limp cock is just awkward for both of us, and makes you look sad to anyone who might be watching. I'm not trying to be mean to guys with ED, but damn, you need a hard cock if you're gonna fuck (and I have no problem with guys using cock rings or viagra if they have to, so long as they can fuck!). There is nothing worse than that moment as a bottom, when you've known for a good several minutes the fuck is over (and usually never really began), but the top keeps trying to convince himself that his cock is going to spring up rock-hard any second. The moment when you know you have to tell the top the fuck is over, or else he'd keep poking you with his flaccid cock for all eternity. And despite whatever reason or excuse you make, he knows you're telling him to stop because of his E.D., so now it's awkward and embarrassing for you both (and if other people are around, they're probably embarrassed for him too)... I fucking HATE tops that put me in that position. And please, no comments about how it's a bottom's job to make a top hard, blah blah blah, because we've all encountered guys who refuse to admit to themselves that their equipment just doesn't work...

I'm in my late 20's now. I didn't have sex till I was about 19-20. I have always gone for older guys, whether dating or sex. Both physically and personality wise, guys in the 40-60 range just have sometime about them that makes me want to get on their cocks. As long as a guy isn't totally gross (bad hygeine, overweight to the point of obesity, or looks to be about 80+, etc) if I'm out cruising I'll take his cock. Guys under 30? Only play with them as a last resort, and even then I'll usually just opt to watch porn and jack off instead. I enjoy crusing for sex (porn shops, restrooms, etc). Usually a dozen guys over 40 for every one guy under 30. I cruised a reststop on I-95 last night (1am or so), sucked an old biker daddy's cock. After he left, I cruised a scruffy looking latino guy (about 50 I'd guess) and was sucking his cock when a 30-40 year old white guy came up and offered me his cock too. Ended up with both cocks in my mouth at one point, and a cock in each hole a few minutes later (guy who fucked me didn't even ask about a condom, just went in bare and started fucking me). Another daddy came over and jacked off while watching but didn't join in. It was a hot time, and it's the reason I love older guys. Young guys? Outside of a staged porn scene, you'll be hard pressed to find young guys having sleazy rest-stop sex like that. Thank God for horny, nasty older guys!

Sounds like a game player (and pic is likely of someone else if that is the case), or he is just into the fantasy and not ready to make it "real". Quit wasting your time, find another guy to play with. If you want, send him one last email telling him you want to actually meet or you're moving on to a new playmate. Anything more than that is just wasting your time and effort. /my 2 cents