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Good idea. Would make it easier and faster to find the files/dvds. Those are the only scenes I'm interested in.

I hardly ever go to private addresses. Mostly darkrooms for me.

I've been a top for the last 25+ years, so I give loads. But I do also suck and swallow. I would try to be fucked by someone soon, but as I'm so tight and haven't done this for so long, I would do it with someone I trust. My dream is taking loads up my ass.

How many sites are there around? Will another one be that popular? The real popular ones are bareback.com and barebackrt.com. Do you think you can compete? Soon Bareback Station will come too. Their facebook page has more than 16,000 followers.

How about making a hookup function on this site?

I prefer neg, but I'm cool with undetectable guys. I want to stay neg, so it's important for me at least ask the guy what is his status.

But will he tell the truth? I would be safer if the guy asks me if I'm neg. That way I know he's concerned too, and most likely neg. If he doesn't ask, it obviously doesn't matter so much to him. But again, how could he know that I'm telling the truth?

I've already started started a thread on this: https://breeding.zone/threads/21948-Relaxing-before-being-a-bottom-for-the-first-time

But still interested in all suggestions.

I eat a lot of oatmeal or gran the two days before. It helps to clean out when you take a dump. Stay away from red meat. That way your system is clean and you can take a lot of dick and cum

I almost always eat oat meal or whole grain with cinnamon, blueberry jam and milk for breakfast, so I guess I do something right. I also drink at least half a gallon of water every day, and eat fruit in the evenings. So if I stick to fish or chicken for supper the day before I guess my diet is fine?

I hear a lot about the diet before bottoming. Any examples of what to eat the day before, or the same day as you're gonna be a bottom? I've been a top for so long, but would like to try something new, so not very experienced in that area.

I douche real well. I also watch what I eat the day before. One I take that first load I am in heaven

What do you eat the day before? Just curious.

just love the feel of spunk in my hole never ask poz or neg,if i was that intrested would not bb

Good point. But still the thought of not knowing turns me on more than if I knew that I was fucking a neg or a poz.

It hurt like hell taking a dump this morning, and there was blood. I guess I tried too hard with that dildo that was obviously too big for me. Better take it slower, and not trying to rape myself.

For all those who are still neg like me, when you fuck do you prefer your sex partner to be neg like you, or is it ok that they are poz?

As for myself, I never ask. I'm not a bug chaser, but for some reason, not knowing is what turns me on. I don't know if the guy I fuck is neg or poz.

I am now soon ready to bottom as well, and I know already that not knowing what's gonna spray my insides is gonna turn me on.

I've always had a few beers before going to the darkrooms, but never so much that I cannot keep a boner up.

I cannot remember that I've been fucked with a condom. If so it must have been in the mid 80's, but I doubt it. Some dudes put on a condom on my dick before I fucked them in the mid 80's when I frequented the saunas in Copenhagen, Denmark, but it didn't take me long before I refused. No condom or no fuck.

As I'm new to being a bottom, I would say average or small. But ask me again in a year.

I can now get the big dildo inside, but it hurts keeping it inside. Gotta keep practicing. Hopefully I will find some real cock in Poland in about ten days, but definitely in Berlin in October. I'm gonna frequent Tom's Bar, Bull, Connection, Prinzknecht...

Got a dildo, but it is damn too big. Can't get it in. Using a lot of lube, and am trying. I'll either have to find a smaller dildo. The one I got is 19 cm long and 4,5 cm diameter (7.7" long by 1.8" diameter). I could try to get it in my ass within the next to weeks, and hope for a small cock in Poland, or wait until I go to Berlin in October, lol. Right now I feel pretty sore, and I still can't get it inside my ass.

Everybody seems to have one. Therefore I don't want one. I have two sperm cells tattooed on my ass, and want a No Condom sign on my other ass cheek.

The UK has three major players in the instant sex market: bbrts, Gaydar and Recon. I wonder why I bother when it's the same guys with occasionally different names and the same photos. I have to admit I'm just as guilty as the others as far as the photos go, but intend getting some more done this weekend while being the good time. "needs discussion" is always the phrase of choice about safer sex, though it only seems to be used by those of us who are poz.

I'm neg, but use "safer sex needs discussion" just because I live in a rural community in a rather small country (Norway) with a small gay community. I would have put "never", but then everybody would know me as the barebacker all over Norway (including Oslo) pretty fast, because everybody more or less knows somebody who knows me. "Needs discussion" is more or less "accepted". Besides, I could always discuss it, even though my reply would in the end always be "no".

you just have to look at the number of guys who say "safe sex: always" on gaydar and then make it clear they are looking for bb sex on BBRT.

It's funny with all those profiles on gaydar and gayromeo that say "safe sex: always", but they have bare, bareback, bb or raw in their screen names, lol.

My experience from gay bars with darkrooms is that nobody uses condoms. It's never being questioned, and people just go ahead and suck and fuck. I also just go ahead and fuck people without asking.

Well, I'm not completely virgin, but haven't been a bottom for about 25-30 years. I've been a complete top since. Still, it triggers me with a great deal of excitement trying it again. Especially after someone tried to enter me in a darkroom in Riga a couple of weeks ago. But he couldn't get it in, because I was too tight and I wasn't lubed. I have swallowed quite a few loads lately, but I want to be fucked, and I want the cum to fill my ass. But as being inexperienced I want someone who is careful the first time.

And then, here's my question. How do I get relaxed, so my sphincter doesn't "protest" too much when entering? I've heard being drunk helps. Of course, that's one choice, but I don't want to be too drunk either. Smoking pot? Well, I'm not into the drug scene, I don't smoke normally, but I guess I could do it for once, but then again, if I'll be going to a bar/sauna/darkroom there probably wouldn't be too much pot available.

And what kind of lube is better for barebacking?

I appreciate all answers and suggestions.

Poke a needle through the condom and wrapper before you meet someone. Make sure you use your own condoms. It surely will break.

Nice sleazy_brit-boy. You could be stealthing me any time. But I guess it wouldn't be as much fun when I knew you would be doing it. And I refuse condoms in the first place.

I've had about 40-50 guys during my whole life. Since March I've changed completely, and have gotten this addiction for darkrooms. I had more than ten men only on my last vacation. I never used to swallow. That changed dramatically during my vacation. I love swallowing and stand up and whisper in the guys ear, that I swallowed his whole load. I used to be top, but would now definitely try to take loads up my ass. Can't wait for more cum. I have changed completely.