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curiouspuppy429

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  1. Thank you. Good to know. The establishment PR and conventional wisdom out there hasn't kept up with the whole undetectible thing. So I should be looking to learn from poz guys who know they are poz and are therefore on meds? Seems so counter-intuitive, but guess it makes sense if the drugs are that effective now.

  2. Reduce your risk by getting yourself on PrEP. More effective than condoms, and raw as nature intended. Next in line, or in addition, select poz guys on meds who have been undetectible viral load for a long time.

    Bare with a poz undetectible guy is safer than sex with condoms?

  3. I was a complete and utter idiot. I had no idea that I liked guys. Liked girls enough to get along. Not all of them but a few that I really cared about. I thought gays were extremely rare, and only in NY or San Fran. At my first job, at 16, one guy routinely made passes at me, but I assumed he was just joking around because he dated girls and they all loved him. I had a crush (looking back - didn't know it then) but I knew at least 3 girls he'd fucked who all stalked him so I assumed he was just joking when he grabbed my ass or ... The other majorly blown opportunity was another guy we worked with. CLASSIC homophobe who was disgusted that Chris made all those passes at me. Beautiful blonde god. He went to prep school and I threw him a going away party at my parents house as they left for weekends at the lake house often. Everyone stayed over that night but he stayed the next night and we were the only ones there. Of course I put him in the guest bedroom, but at like midnight just after we'd turned in he calls to me in my bedroom and I come out to the hallway to see him standing there in his tighty whities - literally the most beautiful man I've ever seen though he was like 15 at the time. He claimed he was afraid of the dark and sleeping by himself back there! Like a TOTAL idiot, standing there trying desperately not to look down at his underwear bulge I think I offered to leave the hall light on for him! I would give 20 years off my life to go back and tell him to come sleep in my room in my bed. (Or to have not put my clothes back on before going back into the hallway). That confused me for a year or so until he came back from college with his roommate to one of our work after parties. He and his roommate laid on the couch front to back and he looked at me confirming to my shcok that yes, he was gay. Biggest mistake of my life was being too chickenshit to do anything with either of them.

  4. I had that happen once. Guy had me leave my front door open when I was a little drunk. He walked in, shoved me on the floor and fucked me, bare. After 10 or 15 min of me face down on the floor out of nowhere I hear 'Is it my turn yet' and suddenly there was a pair of shoes on either side of my head as this guy had stepped into the room. Just as I was trying to figure out what was going on or start to get up the first guy came, loudly. Then as he got off me he held me down and let his buddy fuck me (had him use a condom). The next day he emailed and said he decided to bring a buddy he found in a bar and what could I do about it...

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