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A 12 x 7 silicone cock. It's only the second toy I have purchased. It wasn't a good choice. Too stiff, has this weird bend just below the head, which i couldn't see in the box, and no suction cup end.

Thanks for the acknowledgement Alex. It's always nice when you don't get hate for everything.

The vetting process is frustrating at times. At a bathouse or some spontaneous venue is always going to be a crap shoot. On line is somewhat easier, but has its own problems. Im probably not saying anything new. Since I'm an INTJ, I try to research as much as I can, both actively and passively.

I like long encounters, so it's worth it to me to spend some time gathering data. It's not as clinical as it sounds. I am often disappointed when I discover that a possible partner crosses a hard line that I have set.

For instance, I used to like Asian guys, but for whatever reason, in my experience they are very guarded, and so are hard to get to know. My latest interest, in the last 5 years or so, is black guys, not for the mythical "BBC", but they have most of the physical features i find hot. The problem for me is that I live in a place that have virtually no POC. Sure I could drive up state and find some, maybe. I'll leave it at that. It's hard to articulate.

I'm at the age where it's just not as important to play the game as it used to be. So I just have to be satisfied with living vicariously.

He was 19 and about 7" and slightly on the thick side. Cut, straight as a string and hard as diamonds. It hurt but not too bad. Came in me, and blew another in my mouth. His cum was soooo good. I was about 40 at the time. A hookup off of gay.com lol.

I'm right there with you guys. When I want sex, I want sex. Not worrying about messing with drug bs, limp dicks, or other distractions. I want skin on skin, all the time, long sessions, and whatever we want. No psychosis, no complications.

I am of the opinion that blood flow, through whatever mechanism, is critical to all organ health. The blood is what carries waste products away from all organs. Lack of sexual activity, ie maturation therefore can't be a good thing. Locking your organs in chastity is just asking for trouble. I have live by the adage "a load a day keeps the PSA away.

Just A thought.

Just got blocked here in washington state. I access BZ almost exclusively on my phone, who is also my ISP (on a separate contract). I got blocked while using the phone's network, as opposed to my internet via cellular gateway. I switched the phone to wifi, and all is good.

Phone network shows me in Idaho. Lol not bloody likely.

Had it happen twice to me. Once on an A4A hookup, poz guy, he was in a big hurry to get done before his grandmother got home from church lol. He also used coconut oil for lube. Hurt like Hell. He was kind of freaked out. I just left.

The other was at a gay campground. I cleaned out before i left. I'm usually good for a good while. By the time I picked up my friend and gear and drove the 4 hours, then I got hit on by a big black guy at the party, and told me to meet him after. Found out in the mean time he was a porn actor. After the party, we got together, and I found out what I was in for. One of the biggest cocks I've had. Barely could get the head in my mouth. I was kind of nervous since it had been so long since I cleaned out. Not that I had a choice. No way to clean out without using someone else's permanent camp that had shower facilities. The water in the creek was off limits due to giardia (sp). Sure enough, once he got past my second ring, he stopped and pulled out. He wasn't freaked out about it but went to the shower he had to clean up. He told me to wait for him, but I got tired of waiting and left. Sigh. Could have been epic.

Absolutely not. I will never cruise parks or whatever, so there is no chance I will have to interact with a cop. Same goes for religious types in positions of power. All.a super.hard no.

Beards. The longer and scraggly the more of a turn off. Also really long hair. Hate it hanging in my face when I bottom.

One report said he was $200k behind in his rent.

Look up piriformis syndrome.

Less likely for @fitlad, more likely for @WRV.

It's super easy to self treat and no down side if it doesn't help. I had those sciatica issues for years. Found out about the piriformis <sp> muscle issues, and it was life changing.

Good luck.

Smooth for me.

Tried them once, and just like pot, had no noticeable affect.

I remember the original Caligula. Had it on VHS. Jacked to it about a million times. I think the scenes in the "boat" were my faves. That was a long time ago.

I have witnessed this at a couple places I worked at. IT NEVER WORKS, PERIOD. If you work at any kind of medium or large company, there will be an HR department in the mix. Then things are out of your control. It's a dumpster fire at best.

There is an old adage. Don't shit where you eat.

I'm whatever the situation calls for at the time. Versatile and bi. I want lots of body contact. I tend to go after younger guys in the twink to Jock range, just because they are more likely to be Versatile and can go a few rounds. Anonymous, as in glory hole, head down ass up, blindfolded, and the like is of no interest to me. That said, I'm 5'4", so if I happen to connect with a tall guy, I usually just bottom, but it's rare.

13 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

Neither of those scenarios sound that strange to me after living in the PNW for 16 years. I've learned that not mentioning fucking in their profile or in the initial communication usually means they don't. The salad scenario not only doesn't involve penetration, it doesn't even require a dick, which is another problem I run into frequently.

Interestingly, I AM in the PNW lol

This didn't happen to me, but I saw it on a Craigslist ad one night.

The guy wanted you to come to his house, door unlocked, come in and go to the kitchen and find a little wooden toy airplane sitting on the counter, then jack off and cum on the airplane, while he remained upstairs and not seen, then let yourself out. To sweeten the deal, he offered 3 hard boiled eggs in the fridge, as compensation. He also had a picture of the cute little airplane in the ad. I laughed so hard, I was useless for the rest of the night.

Another one. My friend, a top, had a guy that wanted to come over, get naked, lay face down on my friend's dining room table, while my friend made a tossed salad with specifically Italian dressing on the small of his back, and eat it. No sex, just salad.

Kissing. Lots of it. Ass eating, lots of body contact, then anything goes, and goes, and goes. I try to get with versatile guys so the sex lasts longer. I would rather stay away from anything that gets in the way of body contact. Love guys (or girls) with lots of energy.

I would guess by default, she was fishing. I did relate to the freeing nature of being naked. I did the same thing most of the time. On the other hand, in our company, she was in the department that could be considered "the police", so who knows.

1 hour ago, Kayne said:

This is the downside of progress my friend. 

Before, Cruising had stakes. whether it was covertly checking out a potential playmate and clicking in a space -Whether public or private-,   or stumbling on a group of guys gettingbit on, Getting caught did something to heat the situation. The exposure could be addictive. and it didn't matter where you did it, in a bar, on a pier, beach, between two cars, in a sauna, in your own apartment. it didn't matter. 

Before there were potrable super computer phones in our pockets with nstant nudes, internet porn at a moment's notice and literal electronic bulletin boards of the next nearest cock or community cum dumpster, or PrEP, one has to be fully present to hunt.

Whether Predator or Prey "Man2Man" interactions had chemistry, not easily subverted by fantasy. But when you can literally See the guy at a gym, bar, grocery store on some random hook up site and never talk to  him, but yet you know all that you need to know to get you off, interpersonal interaction becomes redundant. Why, because you have the best version of them already at your disposal.  where the real you might not like deep anal, and much preferre being hot dogged, the you in his fantasies can't get enough cock in his hole. Maybe you're a Dominant guy, in his mind you're either a needy submussive, or Dom that He can turn the tables on. That fantasybtskes way less effort with way less risk of rejection than the you that he's built in his fantasies; even if you're right there in front of him within breathing distance.

Normally, I'm Just A Big Dumb Jock, but I'm gonna get nerdy for a tick, because this illustrates what I mean better than I can explain it.

There are 2 Episodes of Star Trek TNG Where LaForge comes into contact with a Physicist,  Dr Brahams.  in the first episode the problem of the week lead Laforge to make a  holodeck simulation of the doctor. he had her statistical info, but made up a personality out of whole cloth, and the computer played the simulation. its implied that  over the next year he fired up that holder doctor many times. A year Later, when he has a chance to meet the real lady, she shatters the fantasy he built, which only got worse when she found out about the holodeck program. They ultimately were able to get past this issue. he saw the real person, she stopped being a stuck up bitch. but the point still stands, and is especially accurate, because in most situations,  people never get past the destruction of their fantasies.  so no, its not you.

TL;DR

Its not you. We as a whole have moved to a place where the lower stakes approach is preferable to actual effort, sadly. 

I like this. My experience is that society is just getting more punitive. I came of age when feminists were just starting to gain momentum. Being a more reserved type with nerdy inclinations, it was extremely confusing to me, to such an extent that I just avoided female interaction period. Physically, not being what women were classically attracted to, made that easy.

I remember, one time being at a table with a couple other guys at the company cafeteria, a woman sat down with us and started chatting. At some point she made the statement that she often, when getting home from work, just had to get out of what ever she was wearing and just be naked. Not one guy said a word, no doubt afraid to engage, for fear of saying the wrong thing, and being in a work setting to boot.

Being a flexible, problem solver type, I just gravitated to being with guys, in no small part because guys are/were more likely to put themselves in a situation that gives the green light to engage in physical activity.

I have never run into this. In fact, I have found it more likely the top guy would get pissed if you don't swallow their load.

It can't be that they are afraid of some std or something, because you already had their cock in your mouth. Maybe they just want to see it shoot? Idk. Baffling.

Brought back some memories for me as well. Spent some time in Seattle around 2000. Mostly at steam, was club Seattle then, and a few clubs. Never went to z at all.

On 6/14/2021 at 11:44 PM, billy said:

A couple of years ago while on grnder, a guy popped up showing him like 50' away.  A big surprise to me considering that I live a in a small, racist, homophobic town. Ended up being the guy next door, of course he was a bottom too. Long story short, we fooled around a couple of times, but the guy did absolutely nothing for me, so I never showed any interest again. But that didn't stop him from bugging the shit out of me for the next 2 years. Thankfully he moved last month.

And today I get a reply from a doublelist add that I always have up.  Guy says he's a bi top and in his late 30's. Also sends a very nice dick pic. First thing I do is google his email address (dunno why for sure, but I do it with most add replies). I get 5 or 6 returns back, all saying he's 2 doors down from my place, along with his name. And it all lines up with the guy that lives there, An ex-preacher/Ex cop who is in his late 50's! Wow!  Not sure what I'm going to do with that. 
To fuck or not fuck....   shit, Who am I kidding, I'm a slut, of course I'll fuck him.

But I got a question.. If I hook up with this guy, do I tell him that I fucked his son a couple of yrs ago? (Actually he fucked me and was quite good, But said he Was only 'gay curious')

I think we are dealing with 3 different people here.

1. The guy next door, who "did nothing for me".

2. The doublelist guy, ex cop, ex preacher.

3. The bi guy that fucked the OP, who was pretty good, and was ex cop's son.

That aside, I would never fuck a cop, ex cop, preacher, ex preacher, if I knew that ahead of time. They are probably ass holes with control issues, but that's just me.

1 hour ago, dude8688 said:

Can't find this guy at all! 

Try XNXX.com. there a ton of Lil baby Anthony on there, as well as Austin Young stuff.