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9 hours ago, dude8688 said:

Got the injection in my ass cheek this morning, it was no biggie. Guess I've had bigger pricks in my butt before hahahaha. And a weeks worth of doxycycline for my ass' chlamydia lol. 

I usually have tons of instant pain when they inject ceftriaxone for gono. The first times caught me off guard and wasn't much fun. But it's a 5 minute chore and that's that ...

22 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

BlowBuddiesNYC parties are mostly older guys.

Any fucking going on? Name seems to imply oral only

1 hour ago, ILoveToPlease said:

Thanks for he tip. trying it now. Alone in my barcelona hotel room...

Why waste time in your room when you can go out and BB with many at once? Rectum, Men Factory, Open Mind, The Basement (tues, sunday best), Berlin Dark...?

Swinging by new york later in the year and I see the whole scene is now happening in private sex parties as seen here [think before following links] https://gaysexnyc.wordpress.com/2023/08/14/💥calendar-of-every-gay-sex-party-in-new-york-city/

Other than the bear party (duh) it's hard to decipher which one is good for bears and mature men. I don't want to crash the wrong party. Also just interested in some good fucking and breeding not into kinks. What parties would you guys recommend?

On 4/4/2024 at 10:04 AM, WillingRawVerse said:

Been looking for more breeders but keep having people online flake out on me last minute or do not continue the conversation leading to a fuck and breeding. Had 5 back out last Saturday.

Is the only choice to get bred is to visit a bathhouse or theater? I think I've used many of the available apps. Grindr, Sniffies, A4A, Tinder, Scruff, BBRT, and probably a couple more. I mean, how hard can it be to hookup with a willing raw bottom? All you have to do is host or have a vehicle large enough for a 6'1 guy to move around in like a minivan or something like that.

Apps are a phenomenal waste of time. The time and effort needed to score a single load is IMHO not worth it. People are not to blame, it's just the format that has always been awkward. 

And yes! bathhouses, venues and private parties are far better places to get good BBing these days. People are there for a reason and you'll get what you want, along with some socializing (maybe haha). It's too bad that the USA has such a lacking venue scene versus other places in 2024. 

I went one random afternoon mid week in 2019 to club 69 and had a great time. No problem finding raw sex. One super hot mature big dude quickly worked it to have my raw cock in him all the way to the load. 

Then I met another friendly fellow who fucked me raw to finish. 

Hopefully it has stayed like this post pandemic. 

On 4/12/2024 at 5:10 AM, ILoveToPlease said:

can anyone recommend any chat programs to find spanish speaking men? BBRT seems pretty deserted for Barcelona?

MachoBB

Checking in with some positive news.

I started epclusa (sofosbuvir/velpatasvir) treatment a month ago and at my first viral load test at the month mark and I'm already undetectable. My liver enzymes are also down to normal. This is all very impressive because my VL was in the high millions/ml and the liver enzymes (AST and ALT) on the 1000s, (now <40). This stuff works and even didn't get side effects from it.

Need to keep taking pills for 2 months and then 3 months later the official viral load test to confirm the cure. 

As far as pricing goes even when my specialty pharmacy was quoting me 7k a month, it was $0 at checkout so I will not complain about that! (I think they autoapplied the gilead coupon). 

Will update later on..

They are doing this just to reduce costs. Oral and anal PCR swabs for gono/chlam are expensive. The rationale they gave you is nuts. The way to stop new infections is by testing and treating. 

On 2/11/2024 at 3:31 AM, biobare said:

Do you know in which situation you caught it? Was it 1 to 1 sex or in a group? I caught it once at my first Berlin visit in 2012, I guess after letting a few random guys fuck me in Laboratory or at a Coffee&Cream Party. Today I'm quite sure that the main way of transmitting Hep C is when Tops run from bottom to bottom without cleaning their cocks or even when "Safer" Tops use the same condom for a number of bottoms. ...

Did your Doc tell you something about the strain / subtype of HCV you have? ...

 

I'm now 100% certain I got Hep C at the lab in Berlin in my trip mid december. I can pinpoint the infection all the way down to my 2 visits to the lab on thursday and friday.  Been tracking my ALT levels weekly and they've already peaked. From the literature ALT peaks around 8 weeks, and timeline exactly matches my days in Berlin where I only bottomed at the lab. I also had brutal flu like symtomps 2 weeks after this, with stubborn fever it would not go down even with ibuprofen/paracetamol.  I never get the flu or colds. I also didn't have much going on before this Berlin trip and even had a neg AB Hep C test beginning of November. So it's clear I got it there at the lab.

Reading your comments here has been revealing and everyone seems to agree, with multiple accounts saying the same @Leather69 @biobare. You get hep C through group sex, specifically with something being inserted in your hole that has been in other holes before. That can be a cock, a condom wrapped cock, a fist, a toy.. with the key being, not being washed or clean before going in you. Ironically condom wrapped cock does nothing unless it's a fresh condom, and it could even be worse as it could cause even more irritation and tearing on other bottoms drawing more infected material to transport into others. And indeed, this is exactly what I was doing while at the lab: me on my 4s with all the busy crowd of the lab plowing holes left and right mine included. I can't remember how many loads I got, I think I counted 7 on friday, so multiply that by the load-to-fuck ratio and it could be a significant number.   

There's another striking connection from the comments, and it's 3 people got Hep C in Berlin including me, but that may be completely accidental... Also, the case where you get HepC from a load can't be completely ruled out but must be at the level of geting HIV from oral sex: Hep C viral load is only present in semen during acute phase (~3 months) then goes UD. So you need a Vers top, that's on Hep C acute phase breeding you with a torn hole... 

Things are moving along with me to start treatment and insurance should cover Epclusa. I got HCV genotype 1a and Epclusa seems to be very effective for type 1, so I'm hopeful. I'll update when I've got more news.

Route of transmission of Hep C through anal sex almost certainly requires semen plus rectum trauma. That is, only happens when bottom is bred and has a rectum is torn inside with a path to the bloodstream. There doesn't seem to be a plausible way for a top to get Hep C just from barebacking as cocks rarely bleed during fucking. Additionally, unlike HIV, it seems HCV would only be transmissible when the carrier is in the acute phase and has a high VL, which is a few months window . After that VL comes down and is seems to be negative in semen (Unlike HIV). This could explain why Hep C transmission in men to men sex is not very common. This paper explains all this very clearly: [think before following links] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4866572/

I'd say the odds for a total top that BBs are extremely low for Hep C, emphasis in total. If you give it up and get bred be aware. Also, fairly clear at this point circumcision status really doesn't matter for STDs, CDC is decades behind on this one. 

42 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

@rawfuckr - I am very sad to hear about your diagnosis regarding Hep C.  If is is any consolation to you, in recent years there have been great advances in the treatment of Hep C.  No longer are there weekly visit to an Infectious Disease Specialist, I underwent a 12 week cycle in 2019 of Mavyret ... 

Thanks for the support. 

I've already failed the first tests to stage my liver damage. Liver enzymes (ALT) are so high 700+ (normal is <40) that's over the reference that the test (fibrosure) can measure so they weren't able to score fibrosis. 

Unsure what next steps are. I really hope a liver biopsy is not in the horizon. 

Also seems my insurance doesn't cover Mavyret which is the 8 week treatment. But they cover Epclusa. I did price epclusa and it's $75k for the treatment but I have a 30% copay of that (specialty drug) and I can't afford...

3 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

Does anyone know how long it takes for HPV to appear in your body after exposure?  I have been trying to get answers for quite a while and doctors have been reluctant to give me some kind of time-frame.

Anyone have any idea?  Is it almost immediate, or can it lay dormant for years?

You mean HPV warts? That's a good question..

As far as HPV infection itself you just have it since the day you get it. Sometimes you can fight it off 1-2 years, sometimes stays there forever. HPV is site specific, meaning it doesn't move around your body and just stays where the infection happened... Ass, mouth,  throat, dick, ... For the ass is important to get anal pap smears to check the status of the infection. Most barebackers will be HPV positive and a small fraction will develop anal cancer if not treated. 

Also make sure you get the vaccine 

In my risk calculations I had put "getting hep C" as a far far far possibility. "it's a thing for people who inject drugs mostly and the fisters" I thought 

But here I am. Diagnosed with hep C and brutal viral load of 20milion/ml, and my liver markers (alt) off the measurable range for the tests

If something is certain is that I know 100% sure I got this from getting bred. I don't do drugs nor fist. Just normal fucking. So it's the only vector that makes sense. 

I feel stupid for having caught it. Always thought of hep C as an impossible possibility. I was clearly wrong. 

There's supposed to be a treatment for me, but even that seems complicated. Will insurance pay? Epclusa is 75k, mavyret 30k...

I'm scared and now I may  have to  live with hep c  due to my stupidity ....

18 hours ago, negboyslut said:

Does anyone have information on the use of doxycycline and alcohol consumption?

Both tax the liver so be mindful. I guess everything in moderation should be ok?

Wanted to start a brand new post to spread the word about DoxyPEP and how effective it actually is. I know this is a n=1 sample but take it for what it is.

Been in DoxyPEP for 2 years now, I've taken it religiously. I use the official dosing: 200mg right after the action.  I usually go out to dark rooms and cruise bars where I'll get tons of cock, and just pop the 200mg before bedtime. To put things in context, I've calculated I get about 250 cocks a quarter of anon cock raw in my ass. A small fraction of those end in breeding, but that's not relevant for this post. That turns to be about 1000 cocks a year going in.

Pre DoxyPEP an STD + on the PrEP checkup was  the usual. Almost always chlamydia in the bum, gono often. Treatment would deal with it, but there were situations that I had symtoms and testing and tretment were not easily available due to travel and had to wait.

2 years on DoxyPEP and the only thing I got was an 'undetermined Chlamydia' result in the ass that we treated anyway. All the other checkups have come up completely clean that I find incredible given the amount of action.

So guys, check out DoxyPEP and stick to the official schedule you'll help yourself and others.

Further notes:

* I've noticed an issue with the DoxyPEP protocol when you are on vacation. If you are doing multi day fucking, now popping 200mg Doxy /day it can be like a week that you've been doing this. I'm not aware if there's any official guidance about what to do here. 

* I do have an interaction with 200mg doxy with some of my other daily pills (vomit sensation) so I have to take it separate from everything else.

I can speak for San Francisco Cumunion. Everything changed with the change from 442 natoma to the new 1060 Folsom location. 

The new location is just not great: too sparse, and toilets are never working properly: god save you if you need to pee/shit or else.. There's no ass cleaning stations so people are mostly left to clean out at home. I've been there a few times with people not cleaned out properly and causing messes that may or may not be dealt with. The whole scene is sad and tragic and pushes good valuable people from coming back. Folks populating this space are often fully dressed weirdos that walk back if you try to touch them.. and often people struggle to make a connection these days. Nothing like the good ol' 442 natoma days.  

I'm lucky enough to be able to go to parties like these in Europe and the difference is SO dramatic:  For starters there's no need for a specific event because men are going out weekly to fuck.  Most cruise places have proper cleaning toilets/stations. Like come on guys, people come here to fuck: it's just a hose and a stall. People will clean out at the venue with no hangups. A place like Barcelona has 5 ongoing parties thrus to sun, every day. This makes a whole crowd of people to come out and have fun all the time. Same with Paris, Berlin, GC, Torre...

San Francisco lost the intertia and the art of cruising long ago and it ain't coming back with crap places like 1060 Folsom. That said, there are glimmers or hope. the guys at Truck are really trying and some of their 'truck tuesdays' have really stuck the landing. They just need a lot more consistency in the schedule and place.

Swinging by Berlin next week for about 8 days, mostly to explore the cruise scene there. (from 12/13 to 12/22)

My goal is to maximize the number of loads that go into my ass going to cruise bars/venues. I'll reciprocate as much as I can. I don't care for hotel or travel hookups. It's unclear to me by perusing these forums what are the best places and times to go. While I do like places like Woof with darkrooms, I'd rather be in venues where there's fucking all over the place like the lab. Naked parties with unfettered sex are ideal. Looks not too important but mature inclined given that I'm matureish that scene is my natural place. I do read that some places are picky and I may be bounced because I'm 'not the type' (40ish with a belly) (new action?) 

I have this list of places, but help me out with dates and times for parties that meet the criteria above and any other missing places.

• Laboratory (naked thursdays and 4-2-1 fuck fridays)
• New Action
• Woof 
• Bull. open 24/7 but when is best?
• Ajpnia parties ([think before following links] [think before following links] [think before following links] [think before following links] https://ajpnia.berlin/WELCOME/OUR-PARTIES/) . There's the + party but says it's not a 'bareback party'... 
• Scheune 
• Prinzknecht
• Mutschmann
• Tom's

Many thanks!

On 12/4/2023 at 11:40 AM, NordicBtm said:

I got poppers at some sex shop in Eixample.

they didn’t have a big collection and it was pricey but was able to get it!

This was 2 weeks ago.

what's the name of the sex shop?

13 hours ago, PrisonbaiT said:

Ok then will go to Bruc now, looking for some real action, want to try full bare in a sauna, even wondering about pnp

Barcelona has other saunas, I'm unsure what's going on in them. 

Best BB action is still basement on Tuesday and Sunday afternoons. 

2 minutes ago, PrisonbaiT said:

What about sauna's in BCN, in the past i would go to Condal, but i did read the sauna scene has changed since covid? Any good advice to go to which sauna for bareactions?

Yes. Condal is a completely different sauna today. They changed the layout and most of the regular clientele left. Most current patrons are just the "snuggle" kind .. the ones that try to hug you and kiss you in the dark room. It's a far cry from the old days. 

 I only know of Bruc as an alternative. It can be lots of fun if you are ok with a much older clientele. BB does happen often. 

On 11/11/2023 at 10:29 AM, NordicBtm said:

Woof thanks for the recommendation!

Sounds like a plan for tomorrow then 😉 after cruising at Exxxtreme tonight 🐽

Absolutely impressive you got the number of 'x'es in 'Exxxtreme' right. I can never...

I came out in the early 00's and I was pretty much a condom Nazi. No one would fuck me without one although I'd breed here and there because that was less risk. 

I got fucked multiple times with rubbers during the decade but never really enjoyed it. Didn't know why. Then one day around 09 in the sauna with this super hot stached daddy, after some rubber fucking, had me on my fours and handed me the poppers. Pulled the condom out and stuck it in ...

OMG 

What a difference. That fat uncut cock going in raw was so much better. Could feel the foreskin docking in my ass, the head expanding... And then he bred me the load and I experienced a rush I had never. 

That started my decline as I'd be looking for raw cock in every situation even knowing I was at risk. I could not avoid getting raw cock even with the risks... Every HIV test was extremely tense. Luckily for me PrEP came around 2012 and I was the first one to be on it. Fairly sure I'd had been pozzed if it wasn't for PrEP. 

These days I'm on the camp that bare is the only way. I'm never allowing wrapped cock in my ass. 

Has the bathhouse got any better recently?

The last 3-4 four times I've been there the open play area was tragic on naked days. Lots of people, but no one engaging with anyone. Also lot of condom pullers, and people rejecting perfectly good fucks just because... 

Just got the email that Horsemarket was cancelled this upcoming weekend due to low ticket sales. This got me thinking on how incredibly tragic the sex/cruise venue scene is here in the city. There's just nothing left.

442Events at Transform1060 is about the only think I can think of, but it's populated by tons of weirdos, empty often and somehow they can't manage to have properly functioning toilets.. in a venue where people do what they do.  Venue configuration is also barebones and just not great. Most people stopped going after they left the Natoma location. 

I travel to Europe often and things over there are just a world of difference. London, Paris, Berlin!, Madrid, Barcelona.. they all have tons of sex venues that are popular and absolutely happening in 2023.  SF IS a very gay place, but can't figure out why this scene is so absolutely dead.