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15 hours ago, Kaiyunyun said:

I am going to be traveling to Barcelona around 4/1~4/6 this year. I was wondering if there is a better way to go around Barcelona besides walking? Since the hotels I planned to stay at Barcelona are of a little distance to "the Basement club". And while looking it up in the Google map, it is nowhere near any metro station.

Where are you staying? BCN has and excellent bus and metro system. Closest to basement is 'arc de triomf' but it's really just a 10 min walk from the epicenter of BCN at Plaça Catalunya.  If you are there 4/1 and are into the mature don't miss the naturist party at Sauna Bruc on saturday 22:00 onwards (first sat of month)... Lots of fucking and breeding going around, again an older men affair, avoid if you are into younger.

On 2/18/2023 at 3:42 AM, BootmanLA said:

are you suggesting you want to restore your foreskin so you can increase your risk of contracting HIV?

Because the study in question - though its limitations are substantial, and there are contradictory studies out there as well - suggests that being circumcised provides some additional protection over being uncircumcised.

There's no evidence circumcision prevents HIV. All the studies that claim this, come from sub-saharan Africa and have major major limitations, to name one: the follow up includes the time of healing for the cut men when they were not having sex, therefore less HIV cases on that arm. There are zero studies to prove this HIV risk on cut/uncut outside of Africa (AFAIK) and in fact in USA where most men are cut rates are the same or higher then in Europe. 

Now, let it sink in that most of the USA medical profession and orgs are pushing hard for this given the flimsy or non-existent evidence. And none of them give it a thought given the drastic consequences of getting cut: having a numb dick in your later years.

For example, here is a study about this done on the western world (Denmark) in 2022 where they found that not only does cutting not reduce HIV, it INCREASES chances of STDs.
[think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.researchgate.net/publication/354855689_Non-therapeutic_male_circumcision_in_infancy_or_childhood_and_risk_of_human_immunodeficiency_virus_and_other_sexually_transmitted_infections_national_cohort_study_in_Denmark
 

On 1/24/2023 at 1:37 PM, Hotbtm21 said:

Not sure im in the correct area . But off to tenerife  soon for a holiday . 

Wondering  we're are gd lgbt venue etc 

Best luck i've had is in the Saunas.  Sauna Stonewall in the south in Adeje and in the capital you have sauna Boss. Actually I've got plenty of loads at Boss from the locals.

So here's a testimony of DoxyPEP working.. so far. 

None of my 2022 PrEP quartely labs came clean. Usually chlamydia, sometimes chlamydia+gono.  This past 3 months, with 200ish cocks going into my ass during the xmas break and a good amount wrapping my cock too.. PrEP labs all clean.  Too early to tell if doxypep is making a difference but this looks promising.

On 1/23/2023 at 11:42 AM, BBButtSlut said:

They didn’t accommodate for when I worked as a stable hand, they only asked us to keep an eye on the white hood bottoms. It was mandatory for tops to wear a condom with them but tops also had the right to use a condom with any red hood bottoms if they wanted it. I think you’d need to find a different party if you wanted a guarantee that no tops would use a condom for you.

Does anyone actually wear a white hood in this event? I go to cumunion often in SF and haven't seen a condom in years.  

Is there an option of color for the mares that only allows for BAREBACK tops? Seems the only colors are for condom mares, and condoms+BB mares. I hate condoms with a passion.

On 1/6/2023 at 7:49 PM, Aixactif said:

I will be back in May and hoping to checkout Basement and Men Factory. 

Berlin Dark usually a safe bet too. Men Factory is very hit an miss atm.

1 hour ago, Woofsoon said:

This is weekdays, weekends or every day?

Sauna is busy every day but busiest days are Fri to sun 

On 10/11/2022 at 8:02 PM, Aixactif said:

Earlier this year I had good luck at Openmind. I also had an insanely hot fuck in the back of Night bar. Basement club moved and wasn’t open when I visited but I will check it out next time. 

Basement is where it's at for the barebackers and breeders these days! Place has definitely picked up pace in the last few months and has had a very strong december. Impossible going there and not leaving with a smile.

Looking forward to visit this march for the bear thing. 

Strong Construction was where it was for me last time. Nothing super amazing, but got bred and bred myself a few times every night. 

Last year I found the whole scene in the Yumbo venues a bit lacking. All the right elements were there, tons of hot horny men, tons of wonderful venues, but in most of them just little to no action. Lots of people walking around with a picky attitude. And boring sexual energy often. Can't remember if it was Zoos or Red, it was one of the nights in the program, place was packed with folks yet people were struggling to hookup. I'm not talking even fucking.

Maybe I've been spoiled by places like Firewood in Madrid or Basement in Barcelona where you always end asking for a lifeline once your hole has been drenching cum for hours and there's still fresh dick lined up making its way into you. Places where most people don't stand on the side and take action.... GC last year, was a far cry from that. Hope this year is different.

21 hours ago, fuckholedc said:

Anyway, more info on Pep for std's would be appreciated.  Also sites that have current/real-time data on Gay/mansex std incidents reported geographically would be helpful.

The SF doxyPEP study claims 50% reduction for gono taking doxy, but I've never seen that number replicated on doxyPrEP/PEP elsewhere.. so has to be taken with a grain of salt. Even then it would be way lower than syphilis and chlamidia. 

You can't really avoid STDs anywhere if you have a large number of partners and have an additional vector of infection (your ass) additionally to your mouth. 3 months testing is a good cadence if you don't have symptoms, and at the moment all things are very treatable. Hopefully it will stay like that. 

Definitely get an RX for doxy.. any gay friendly doctor should be able to give you one now with the data from SF.

On 11/14/2022 at 2:42 AM, Pierceddeviant said:

I’ve not been very sexually active since Covid.  A guy who stopped having regular sex parties started them up again in September, so I went and was pounded by him and another partygoer, both poz, but undetectable.

Following week, I went for a full sexual health screen, everything came back negative.  They put me on prep and since then have been vaccinated for hep a & b, hpv and had the first of two monkeypox vaccinations.

last night I went back to the same guys house for another party.  The organiser told me that I had given him Chlamydia at the last party and the other guy was off with me, so I assume he got it also.  I didn’t get fucked and left early.

the thing is I’ve not had Chlamydia, all my tests came back negative after the first party and the last time I’d been fucked before that was 2019.  

I was going to call the sex health clinic tomorrow and ask them to send me a copy of my results, so I can take it down and show the party organiser and prove I didn’t have it.  This situation has really gotten me down as I’ve been really careful and taken all the right steps.
 

 

 

It's not impossible, but highly unlikely, that if you are  testing PCR negative in your bum a week later after the action you were + that day.  I'd retest soon and tell the clinic you've been around people with chlamydia.

At the end of the day we all get stuff. More importantly it's usually impossible to tell who gave what to whom and we should be adults, be cool, and inform people involved without pointing fingers. Doesn't seem your host is at that level, and that's not your fault.

On 11/10/2022 at 12:39 PM, BigPaleBottom said:

I’m not advocating at all for those infections. 
 

I am however interested in understanding how bad they are really for a gay man? While straight men and women may develop infertility, this is not a concern for me at all. 
 

so, what negative or lasting outcome would an untreated gon/chlam infection have? Any educated advice?

I talk from personal experience, got chlam infection that crawled back through the urethra into the ball sack and turn into a pyocele, which made my balls be 5x the normal size, completely swollen and extremely bothersome and concerning.  Ended in ER and there was talk of surgery but thankfully antibiotics worked fine. While it was all fine here you can see how this could turn the wrong way for some people. 

Now, I've been fooling around for over a decade on PrEP and I've got asymtomaticish gono and chlam dozens of times that were treated promptly without much consequence. The math still works in my head.. but people need to be aware sometimes things may turn south. 

does any one have any idea what's the best time to take doxyPEP? From the SF study all they say is the next 72 hours.. but that feels too long. Also for some reason, I think there's a 'too early' period to take it, like right after fucking. I'm just doing next day but I wish there was more info on when its the optimal time.

On 9/28/2022 at 5:17 PM, BBonlyCGN said:

 This year alone I've needed an antibiotic four times. Fucking BB means catching something on a regular basis.

BBing per-se doesn't dramatically increase your chances of catching something. If you look at the stats people get bacterial stuff in the bum about ~66% while oral is the rest. So BBing will 3x your chances versus oral only without a condom, which is about the same order of magnitude.

What does matter is the number of people you hook up with which barebackers tend to have high numbers of.

I guess it's not my/our imagination reading all these how much of nosedive the apps/sites have taken in the last 5 years or so. A friend of mine labeled San Francisco a 'dick dessert' to exemplify how hard it is to get cock, any cock, in SF through the apps. The brutal amount of time and effort you have to put in to score a decent fuck is simply not worth it anymore. 

I blame the 'app fatigue' and not sure how we get out of this one. BBRT is about the only one that still seems to be working well. Guys there are straight to the point, not looking for love, and the roles are well delimited.

I do a bunch of cumunions and sadly between the pandemic+MPX things are still not where they were before. Way less turnout these days than pre march-2020 where we had picked up a really nice pace in most venues.

Hopefully things will come back finally getting into 2023. If they do, its definitely the place to get loaded up with anon loads if you don't mind about the look.

On 12/17/2022 at 2:55 AM, LDNbttm said:

Where in Madrid can one get barefucked?

Any recommendations?

Firewood on sundays is the place to be. Other days maybe too. 

After that you can try The Cage which is usually fun.

To Avoid, The Ring Private, Meat Rack: they are really struggling post pandemic in bringing out the breeders and they are a total drag if you just want to fuck.

We have to welcome a new cruising bar in Barcelona right in the middle of the gay area called Men Factory. Place is actually great, and has absolutely everything you may want or need to fullfil your fantasies. Two slings (one with live video feed to the bar), dark room, lots of fuck benches and more. 

While the best BB place is still without a question The Basement (that's just a barebacker dream) Men Factory has wider opening hours so it's operating more as a cruise bar. You get a more mixed crowd in terms of sexual experiences. After a few times here I've got the occasional load here and just fun times socializing and sucking cock with people. Great location, check it out.

On 7/1/2022 at 3:11 PM, Pepec2c2 said:

What are the Best places on monday???

Best place on Monday is Men Factory which the only one open usually on mondays. Great space and mixed crowd. 

I'm absolutely into emotional monogamy here. 

On 12/16/2022 at 2:08 AM, bbpozslut said:

I am thinking of checking out Monday night. I the guess the worst that might happen is no action and I get to enjoy a free drink that comes with the entry fee. 

Did you go? Tell us your experience.  

On 9/25/2021 at 2:16 PM, fuckholedc said:

Missed Le Keller (unfortunately) and didn't go to any other clubs.

Keller on the "Butt fucker" event is probably the best what Paris has to offer in terms of BB action.  Truly unfettered raw fucking everywhere. Sadly it happens once monthly... they do have "Secret fucker" where they enforce people to wear a mask, and can be fun too but weird.

I've stopped going to Secteur X  or Full metal. Lots of walking and no action. It used to be a lot better for BB. Even as a top you have to really work it to get ass which is beyond incredible.

Oh, forgot to metion XKBOYS on sunday (the old le bunker)  Pretty solid for BB on sundays. 

Where are the folks that used to go to backstreet going now?   

Vault139 is alright mon and thrus, but still packs lots of picky people and tons of others that couldn't fuck a paper bag if their life depended on it. While vault is acceptable Backstreet was just where it was at for me, specially on Sunday. Super friendly crowd with very few bystanders. Where's everyone going now?