I guess I qualify as a bisexual "top" who has only one experience topping with a condom.
I want to meet a FWB and get into a barebacking scenario, but still want to be as safe as possible. I do not want to get HIV. I know as a cut top the risk is low, but I still need some advice.
1. Say I meet a partner(who admits to barebacking before but tests negative), we take an HIV OTC 20 minute tests prior (which I think are readily available?), and we are both neg. Is it possible that my bottom is still HIV pos, and not showing on the test (assuming it is accurate) ?
2. So he shows neg, and we enter into a fully monogamous FWB barebacking arrangement, and assuming he is not cheating with a pos, should we still test routinely due to the possiblity of HIV becoming more active at some point (if he was pos and undetectable prior?)
I am more than willing to pay for the home tests prior to an episode, as I am that concerned and fearful of becoming a pos.
Thank you for your time and concern regarding this.