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15 hours ago, RawPlug said:

I got confused with the hanky code as I’ve always struggled to tell left from right 😉. Would it be something else to baffle me?

Do what I do… raise your hands up in front of you… palms facing out and stick  your thumbs out. Your left hand makes an “L”   😀

I would take stuff like this with a grain of salt. The media seems to over exaggerate things like this… for instance there is a story out about the FDA warning about cooking chicken with NyQuil. WTF?!!  
 

Though, I can imagine them handing out eggplant and peach stickers as you’re getting on the ship for a gay cruise. 

I had one Daddy that never fucked me. It was always me between his thighs sucking his cock. TBH, I never really thought about him fucking me. It was always about me servicing his cock and that it was  how he wanted things to be. Now if he had suddenly stopped or severely limited the fucking, I would be confused. Though I wouldn’t have known how to react to that.

I have to admit I’ve only had the basic dildos and metal balls in my cunt. I did hook up with a guy who ended up babbling about how he missed his top and … to make him shut up…I shoved a cucumber in him since I’m a bottom and didn’t realize he was also until I was at his place. Though, a nice piece of thick linked chain always made me want to try it. 

10 hours ago, rawsneakerfreak said:

 I ready miss going to clubs, party's or pride events (which he doesn't like) and explained this to my partner but it get shut down quickly alway end of topic with him. Sex isn't that brilliant between us recently, so rarely that I get bred these day which gives me a feeling of emptiness. I tried a few times to rise my feelings and concerns but he doesn't want to talk about it. My real concern is that one day I might be over come with my feelings end up meeting up with a random guy to breed me which in a close relationship would be wrong to do as I don't want to cheat on him but I do want to be who I am. 

I’ve always wondered why two people who aren’t completely happy in their relationship… monogamous or otherwise… stay together… some to the point of not having sex for years. I’ve had guys who I’ve had sex with tell me they remain in the relationship because all their finances are tied together.  BTW, I’ve heard this from straight couples too. For me, I’d rather be alone if it comes to that. When it comes down to me or someone else’s happiness, mine comes first.

Right-handed here but will sometimes switch hands at times mid-j/o. It would also depend if I’m with someone and we both are stroking: if he’s on my left,  will use my right hand… if he’s on my right, will use my left. TBH, now I have think about what I’d do if I was in the middle of two guys.  😀

I used to frequent a bar close to my place. The bartender was straight but was always cool with the gays. One night we started talking and cock size came up after a few drinks. It was obvious that I had checked out his bulge… not very much… he laughed and said “I’m a grower, not a shower.”  Later that night I got a text from him asking if I wanted to come back to the bar while he closed up for a few drinks. I was there in a few and let me in. He went behind the bar and dropped his pants and underwear and started stroking as I had a drink.    Damn if he was right… a nice thick 8 inches that I sucked off regularly until the got married and moved away.

3 hours ago, slutbtm1 said:

So question for you guys…

I’ve been debating dabbling with trying to pnp as it sounds pretty fucking fun. But gotta ask. What’s it feel like and how likely is it that I’d get hooked?

I’m experienced with substances (blow, k, shrooms, g, weed) but have always kept a hard line with Tina. Can I flex it, have fun, and let it be a one time thing?or am I gonna crave it and wanna do it all the time?

I’m going to give you my truth and it applies only to me. I’ve done those others things you mentioned as well. I enjoy T but have been able to keep it as something that doesn’t dominate my life. Yet, I do have my limits as well in what I am willing to try. You need to decide where you draw the line.

The rush is incredible and it allowed me to explore the cuntboy I was while allowing me to reduce the inhibitions I had. But again, that was my experience and I don’t pretend that would be another’s experience.

On 8/1/2022 at 10:05 AM, Close2MyBro said:

Why would you be in a relationship that isn't sexually satisfying? You really need to move on and find someone who's more compatible with your needs. So many people stay in miserable relationships when they're really no reason to do so.

Definitely. At one point years ago when I went in to have a physical, I spoke with my doc about my lack of sex drive with my bf. My testosterone levels were normal. That’s when I realized it wasn’t me and I ended it with him. My issue was fixed.

On 6/7/2022 at 11:46 AM, starboard said:

Love playing with older men here. Honestly a majority of my better sexual experiences have been with them. Pretty piggy if you get me with the right guy and a lot of older men can match my energy. 

Some of my best experiences were with older men. I went through a period in my early 20s when I exclusively played with men in their late 40s/50s/60s. They taught me a lot about sex and helped bring out the cuntboy in me.

Love loads of cum filling my cunt but definitely enjoy drinking piss and then being able to recycle it back by either drinking it again or letting my bf drink his piss after it’s gone through me.

A conversation is definitely in order. As @ellentonboy said, there are warning signs. You need to figure out what is acceptable for you in a relationship and prioritize that. I have seen many couples where one of them has “settled.” To me, I refuse to settle. 

The FFDaddy that introduced me to fisting always insisted his boys be  completely smooth. 

2 hours ago, on2thenxt87 said:

Being in a LTR, especially a monogamous one, can be very challenging. However, I also feel like if we did an open situation I would probably be super jealous or insecure. I feel like I have known so many couples that do an open situation too quick in the relationship and everything just turns to shit, but I have also met some great couples who seem to know how to make it work. I think it would have to be a don't ask, don't tell situation. I do wish that I could at least play with other guys while I was doing the long distance thing because the sexual frustration is totally real for me right now. I get by though by keeping things virtual and anonymous, which I don't consider chats and shit cheating, and that helps quite a bit.

It definitely can be a challenge. I was involved with a couple a few years ago. While it was great when the three of us played, there were times when I would get together with one of them without the other knowing. It all came to a head when the other realized the attraction we had and it ended after the one who I wasn't seeing on the side fucked me and then said they needed to leave. I never did find out if he knew we saw each other on the side.

My BF and I have been together for about over two years. We're both on PrEP and enjoy barebacking. I'm a total bottom and he is versatile but has his "bottom needs" that I can't fulfill. What's funny is that I met him on here. He messaged me about my first story. From the beginning, we had lots of discussions on what we wanted out of a relationship and found what works for us. The one thing we've both learned a long time ago was to distinguish the difference between having sex and emotional attachments. We do have a Daddy that we see occasionally which we met after we began seeing each other. I can service both of them and my BF can get his "fill" too. We may play separately, but it's rare and will usually play together. I love seeing him take a cock. We both travel for work, though less during the pandemic, and have the understanding that we are free to enjoy ourselves during that time with others as long as we're responsible and aware of our surroundings. We're also lucky to both have doctors that we can openly talk to about any concerns we may have.

10 hours ago, Arcaner said:

I used to know someone who had a fetish for being in casts. He enjoyed the long term bondage aspect.

I guess if you know you’d be able to just walk away with no issues after it was removed, that would be one thing. I was laid up for a few days after breaking my leg… not fun. 

Mine comes out from a fantasy I told my Daddy during our first session where his aim was to see how twisted I could get.

I’d be geared up - collared, harnessed and booted with thick rings through my septum, tits and cock. My saline infused ball sac would be hanging low between my thighs. Daddy would lead me by a leash attached to my PA through the bar and place me on all fours on the pool table. While  showing off his cuntboy, he’d tell the crowd how I got off servicing other subs. Then, he’d offer me up to service any subs.

22 hours ago, mikeboi1 said:

I think this is a common problem and not just in gay sex. I am gay with men but I can say I too am bisexual and having talke to women they complain with the same problem. I have heard women say often to me that their boyfriends or partners fucked them and it was over. and they did not get pleasure out of it. Sex is not just penetration, it can be much more, role play and being very creative and doing and exploring new ideas. and sex ideas be it kinky or even bondage. i have spoken with men and they get horny in our communication, because i have no taboos in sex all is open to explore and try and try new ideas. I am a submissive bottom, but always ready to explore and try new ideas and make a point of saying I am open to anything, just dont do any damage to my body and i am clean and safe and want to remain this way. but i am always open to dirty verbal abuse, bondage, SM, and all types of sex even those that are considered unappropriate, as between two or more consenting people all is good and fun. my sex experience i have to admit it as been limited as men just want to fuck, only the rare men who have done kissing, spanking,  and fucked me and made me suck their cock after they fucked me. Even if a top as had his orgasm and cum inside of me, I would not mind if he just wipped his cock out and shoved it in my mouth and made me suck him till he got hard again, mean while treat me as his bitch or whore be it physically and verbably. As well feel his hands spank, probe my body and enjoy it. sex does not have to end with an orgasm is over. I always most often got fucked and only had my orgasm when i got home because my top was done and said get fuck out bitch or just walked away. where was my pleasure? I had not other then knowing i got a sore asshole and have is cum inside of me. it could last a lot longer and more pleasureable and memorable. i have had the rare occassion that a top finger fucked me, but would love it if he even finger fucked me and then made me taste my juice hole. recently I had a dominant female tell me her fantsasy would be to see a submissive bottom being fucked by two males. while she watched or was having her pussy licked. i admit it would be erotic and exciting, being submissive, shy and even timid i feel shame with a woman watching me getting fucked by another male but yet its so erotic getting fucked with an audiance.

If anything there is a lack of imagination when it comes to sex, as tops tend to focus on his cock, and penetration of a hole and squirting his cum inside that hole and sex is over for him. but the truth sex never started for the other as they never achieved their orgasm, the only issue is that the one with a hole as a mission and purpose to pleasure and please the top and keep him satisfied and never challenges him to go on further, so he seeks other tops to fuck him as well, Same story goes for women!

As a sub bottom I’ve experienced the need to just get fucked and move on to the next one whether I came or not… it was all about servicing cock and taking the load. Yet with my first Daddy, I would feel a disconnect with him after he came which would cause an anxiety… should I leave? Was it not good? Is this the last time? I would take his spent cock and clean it wanting a reaction. Sometimes I would finger my cum filled cunt as he sat back and basically ignored me while all I wanted was to continue.  After a while, he would begin to “take notice of me” and silently let me know what he wanted such as feeding me poppers and forcing me down on his cock/feeding me his piss or taking a few hits off the pipe which signaled he was ready to continue. This was the way it was during our “enhanced” sessions but outside of that, we had a more normal relationship… although, he was surprisingly more into the relationship aspect that I was. 

6 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

I remember a sub friend came to visit for a weekend who's into humiliation and pain - we put a dog training remote shock collar on his arm, then wrapped it with  bandages and put a cast on, so it was held in place. As I remember we used some joke-shop itching powder to make it more interesting, but it didn't really do much. We had great fun going to the supermarket, mall, cinema and generally in public. Sometimes he'd have to do a 'dare' and if he failed or chickened out he'd get a shock. Sometimes we'd trigger it at random especially in situations that would cause maximum humiliation.  It was a bit like something off of Jackass, and before the days of iPhones and TikTok so he got away lightly...  If you're thinking of trying this do it on yourself first. Dogs' fur and skin is a lot thicker so you should only use very low settings on the trainer device. 

 

I dated a guy for a bit who wanted to collar me with a shock collar. I tend to get into a total sub headspace when I feel a collar tighten and secured around my neck…. Never happened tho as I ended it soon after.

My Daddy always told me about what he wanted me to do while I was spun. He once described a scene he had where the sub had gone done on the gun barrel while he held it and asked me what I thought. I wasn’t spun enough to tell him I’d be into it and to this day I’m glad he never brought it up again. 

So recently I broke my leg and have been in cast. My bf and I were out the other night and It seemed to be an attention getter. I had a few guys talk me up while feeling it. It got me remembering a guy I knew who was into being put into a cast and totally immobilized.  I have to admit the thought intrigues me. Has anyone ever had experience with being encased in a cast? I would assume being objectified comes into play. Thoughts?

On 6/28/2022 at 1:43 PM, NWUSHorny said:

If you are a total bottom or primarily a bottom that does not suffer from ED is there anything (like an almost total lack of tops) that would inspire you to become more versatile?

 

As a total bottom these days I admit when I first came out I did have a few times when I topped but I felt like I was going through the motions and wasn’t really into  it as opposed to being totally into bottoming. I can say that I’ve been lucky to have met up with either total tops or vers guys that wanted to top me. I’ve only had one time where it wasn’t clear. I had started dating one guy and our first night together I made the move to take his cock and he looked at me with a puzzled look for a second and then said “OK” and proceeded to fuck me.  My now bf is vers and we now and then get together with a Daddy that can help out when he needs his cunt filled.  Tho for some crazy reason I do get into the thought of fist topping…

I couldn’t say what I’d do if I was stranded on a deserted island with nothing but bottoms but I do know that I would be making sure there was a double headed dildo around at the very least as it’s one of our favorite things.

Yep. my little brother took me out to a bar and he had a drink while I went exploring upstairs. While upstairs a Leather Daddy came up to me and asked me about my “boy..” I laughed and told him that was my little brother and I would be the boy if he hadn’t been. Next thing I know, I’m letting my brother know I’ll see him later at home. There was a sex club close by so we went in. I stripped down to my jock and boots. He then took me to the sling room and proceeded to fuck me while a group of guys stood around watching and stroking. The Daddy mentioned out loud that one of the guys watching enjoyed getting sucked off while he watched guys being fucked in the sling. I turned to face him and  opened my mouth and he slid his cock in. I didn’t take anyone else’s cock that night as I was still a bit shy about having and audience but made up for it later. When I got home my brother  just laughed as the Daddy was known for picking up guys and then fucking them at the club. 

Love worshipping a pair of low hangers. I still remember the first time I saw a pair. It was junior high and I saw one of the guys I had known for years proudly walking across the locker room on the first day after showering. I swear they were halfway down his thighs. 

My first experience was with a guy who came over to my place. After he fucked me, he took me into the bathroom without saying a word and sat on the toilet. He smiled and grabbed my cock and leaned in while saying, "I'm thirsty." Needless to say, I was shocked but turned on and pissed into his mouth. I never forgot that experience and began to experiment with pissing on myself in the tub. Then, I met a Daddy who I told about the guy drinking my piss and hot it was. He asked me if I had ever thought about drinking it and I admitted I had but wasn't sure I could do it.  He loved that and then trained me by drinking watered down piss until I could take it full strength from the tap.