KindaBasic

On 6/18/2024 at 2:30 PM, norefusal said:

i find the opposite. 

i mean i get it, weather it's coworkers, friends, or fuckbuddies, str8 guys are always high maintenance 😜

but i like the way they fuck. they're always so happy to have permission to live out all of their perverted porn fantasies, that they readily adapt to kink. no one wants to snarl "take it bitch!" then spit in the face of the mother of their children, even if it's just fun roll play. it's weird. and nobody enjoys tight ass like a guy used to fucking the busted cunt of a mom after multiple births. 

 

I like meeting up with straight married guys at baths or arcades, but they can be difficult trying to hookup online. I don’t know what all these guys do for a living, but they all seem to want to meet late morning or afternoon. Then they get confused when I try to explain I can’t just leave work to accommodate them. 

It really depends. I’ve had tops who the moves and/or cock that I wanted to fuck me all night. But then there are others like a guy I hooked up last Friday who was so boring and bad of a fuck that I ended it and told him good night. 

Never either way. No shame in it. Sex work is work. That said, paying for it outright is probably cheaper than the cost of a date where the chances of getting laid is 50/50 at best. 

On 9/10/2014 at 12:19 PM, bonsaisai said:

do you also implicitly give him the right to come inside your ass?  Or does the right to come in someone's ass have to be negotiated separately and beforehand?  Just like with a blowjob, if you're giving it to somebody, does he have the right to come in your mouth without asking you in advance?  What's the etiquette in these situations?

If we are fucking raw, I am expecting a load. Of course if that was not a clear enough message, me chanting ecstatically “I want your load!” might help them to understand my expectations of outcomes. 

Raw. But that was a time before HIV was known.

Prehensile I bottom, and with a great top and in a groove, shooting a wad is rarely on my mind. 

On 6/21/2024 at 1:46 AM, SilasWoods89 said:

Woof!

I never have considered myself worthless trash. You all should feel honored that I allow you anywhere near my hole. 😜

Doesn’t matter to me. If it’s a good lay, who’s paying attention?

Probably easier to list those that don’t, but that just leads to hard feelings. Relationship-wise, I like what might be consider masculine guys who take the lead. (Not at all fem presenting, not that there is anything wrong with that. Sissies are sexy. But by nature I am quiet and shy, so like guys who take charge.) As for fuck buddies and anonymous, I am all over. If I’m in the mood to top and in alpha mod , I’m usually drawn to slighter and smaller guys. In total bottom mode, it is all about attitude of the top. 

Disappointed 

4 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I'm at least slightly impressed with men who have managed to find a thousand different men to fuck them, although I have to be close to achieving it after 30+ years of trying. Finding a thousand different holes to fuck is easy and can be achieved in a few short years.

Truth! I get excited if I can find two different tops in a crowded bath house, but can usually find a dozen guys with their asses up in the air. 

On 5/20/2024 at 11:21 AM, bbzh said:

Nothing like being bred by moonlight while high on poppers while you listen to the river run by.  

And they say romance is dead. 😘

12 minutes ago, SilasWoods89 said:

I love it! #1 answer, ass bare and bent over. I thought that would be the way to go. Now just to find enough courage to go. But this has been a dream of mine, in a place taking alot of dick and loads. But I always find a way to chicken out. That's the question to ask, how to get the courage. Lol. Someday

Usually the simplest method is the most successful method. 🤣

On 6/16/2024 at 10:00 PM, Bimarried001 said:

I did notice you had it in quotes as I did I. I was more referring to in general hearing guys call them straight. 

 To be honest, I just find it odd that any one feels the need to even tell me that they are str8, gay or whatever in anonymous settings. Like that is what I am concerned about. 

9 hours ago, norefusal said:

i actually hear "you DDF?"

I see DDF more online. 

As I have grown more into being a bottom, ejaculating has less importance to me. I honestly don’t think a lot of guys realize how orgasmic it can be to get fucked. When I am with a great top I rarely keep an erection once I hit a zone, but I feel like I’m on one long orgasm. Even if I do shoot a load, if the top is good, it is just an added bonus. 

Another reason I stick to my iPad. 🤣

3 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

I'd opt for directness and education (and if he didn't want to fuck after that, well, I doubt seriously he's a good enough fuck to put up with that kind of bullshit.

It was an arcade, and I was horny and he was horny, and I no longer have the time nor inclination to give a fuck about his or any other grown ass man’s education. If it was a date or possibly a less anonymous hookup, he would just be going home. 

6 hours ago, VistaCaBB said:

I like how he asked if you were clean after pulling his tongue out of your ass.  Like little late now buddy. Lol 

Right? He should have been able to tell by the tasted of my well scrubbed hole that I was clean and tasty. lol

2 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

The first thing I would stop doing is calling these guys “straight”. Married doesn’t make one straight. If so I’d be calling myself straight. 

As you may have noticed, it was in quotes - as in I am quoting him. If it makes a guy feel like he still straight by playing the top, whatever. Whether he calls himself gay, bi, str8, fluid or Martian, I don’t care since he had a nice cock. 

5 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

 All of life is risky, yet sex has been turned into a morality play. fuck that.

That is one of the many reasons it makes me batty when anybody, but especially “straight” guys ask, Are you clean? Like, why are you assuming that I am the only possible risk? 

I got to admit that I am impressed by all you people who still bother to keep count. 

On 6/12/2012 at 4:37 PM, DarkroomTaker said:

Do you have issues with kissing?

I am really into kissing, but I am not into kissing just anyone. And let’s be honest, so many guys out there are just terrible kissers.