KindaBasic

On 9/2/2025 at 1:27 PM, descartes70817 said:

What is a major turn on is when I'm into some really hot action and she calls me to chat. I find it intensely arousing to have a causal chat when someone is sucking my cock and I need to be careful not to moan at inappropriate moments, but nothing at all beats the time I blew my load inside one guy's ass while my wife was on the phone telling me about her day without her even noticing.

Been in the opposite position. When I lived in RI I had a FB whose husband was always on the road. A few times his husband called and while they chatted I would mess with him by servicing him. 

On 9/2/2025 at 1:27 PM, descartes70817 said:

As much as I enjoy fucking guys on the bed I share with my wife I have no desire at all for her to walk in and catch me with my bare cock up some guy's ass, so it only happens when I'm certain she's going to be away long enough, or when she's out of town in business.

Yeah, I have no desire to have so guy’s wife or gf walk in on us. Don’t need that frame. The closest I came to getting caught was sucking some guy off at his computer repair shop pretty late one night. His drunk gf was out with friends came knocking on the front door because she needed cash. Like some bad movie, I hid naked in a storage closet as tried to rush her out. After she left we laughed our asses off and continued our fun. 

On 9/2/2025 at 8:25 PM, Bimarried001 said:

I haven’t done it in a while but I’ve been fucked in our bed. I had guys wipe their cock in my wife’s panties and night gown. It is hot. 

One time I shot a huge load clear across one guy’s sheets as he was fucking me hard doggie style without touching myself. His wife was due home soon and he kind of freaked at the mess. I told him it wasn’t my fault he was such a good top. lol

It cracks me up and I can’t stop laughing at him. 

Body count, as in sex?

No. If someone says no, no matter how far you have gotten, you stop. At least you do if you’re a real man and not a douche. 

On 5/1/2024 at 12:23 AM, topblkmale said:

 

I've seen the asshole tattoos that look like a bullseye. Its a huge turn-off.

 

I would find it one as well. Never have hooked with anyone with an anus tattoo. Have no desire to either. 

There is a quote that goes , “Scent is the strongest tie to memory”. Some of my earliest sexual experiences as a child happened in basements and cellars. Every time that I am hit with that slight earthy and musty scent associated with basements, especially older unfinished ones, I get a little aroused. Sometimes even down right horny. 
 

What unusual odors and fragrances turn you on? What scents that are not usually associated with sex gets you aroused when you smell it?

I don’t try at all. I tell tops that I’m only into raw. More often than not they lose their resolve and cave. 

Why yes I do. 

On 4/1/2025 at 9:06 AM, MattQueen1 said:

I just discovered the great combination of poppers and pot

A millennium or two ago, when I was a teen, we spent part of a summer doing poppers and bong hits. I was so young and naive, I had no clue that poppers and fucking we’re a thing, let alone gooning. 

Really depends on the scene and mood. Sometimes I actively look for it. 

On 7/2/2025 at 2:17 AM, revemupman said:

I love a chubby bottom. They're my weakness. Come to USA you'll find plenty tops who breed chub bottoms.

Damn! Wrong coast. 

I’ve had luck at the baths in NYC at times. Guess it depends on the crowd on any particular evening, but there has been a few occasions where I had my ass in the air in my darkened room and ended up with a few loads. 

2 hours ago, Guest btmdad said:

I live in an area where there are a lot of hispanic construction guys, landscapers etc.   Many of them  are married men that have no interest in anything other than fucking and blowing a load in me.  The like to come in and find me face down on the bed.   Typically they prefer me to have a t shirt on and usually a jock strap.  They come in fuck and cum and go.   No talking no touching other than cock to ass.  I find it really hot.  They are always rock hard  and  many of them are very vocal when they cum.   Then they go home to their families.

I’ve met up with some of those hardworking blue-collar guys. There was one guy in particular who would text me to come over whenever his wife and kid were back home in Columbia with family. Instead of a jock, he liked me in a thong. 

Just as long as they don’t pull out, I’m good with either. 

Biggest age difference in a LTR was 12 years. But I was early 50s and he was 40. We were not in an open relationship though. I have dated guys nearly 30 years younger and hooked up with a few nearly 40. 

11 hours ago, drscorpio said:

The hookup apps (and the dating ones too) are all about finding someone who wants to do the things you enjoy doing. I don't mind guys who don't do anal having a term to make it clear where they stand. I would rather the sides find one another; that sounds like less frustration for them and for those of us who think fucking is the most important part. 

If one does not already exist, I have little doubt that a side focused site and/or app will soon be a thing. Over the years I have known guys not into anal, so no surprise someone has labeled it. I am curious to how that word ended up being “side”, but only because I find language development interesting. 

I would probably opt for the bench. Personally, never got into slings - as top or bottom. I do get why people like them, just not my thing. I hope you were moved around and tried everything. 

Every artist has their own criteria and limits on the what or the where. Most of the ones I know, and I know a lot of them, are not all that judgmental. After the first 10 years or so, they have seen and heard it all. The best thing is to check out a few artists online - most have Instagram accounts - and DM or email the people whose work you like. A good artist will be up front with you if it is a piece they are interested in doing. If not, ask them for referrals. As for price, bargains are never a bargain. Figure out your budget in advance and let them know what it is, and if they can work within it. 

Like, his name? Or what he looked like? 

5 minutes ago, UnsureAboutThis said:

I like how you think. Lol

In this economy, you got to do what you got to do to survive. 

Have you seen the price of lube lately? Got to cut corners somehow. 

Body count? Nobody told me there was going to be a test! 

On 8/17/2025 at 4:42 AM, BadBob214 said:

Do guys not read profiles? Drives me fucking nuts!!!

Short answer? Rarely, especially closeted bottoms. Not sure who’s hitting you up, but most of the guys I get are horny and desperate suburban guys married to women. My guess is that they are hoping that if they keep hit every profile maybe someone will fuck them.