KindaBasic

On 4/30/2025 at 1:16 PM, BreedingTop71 said:

Of course impact play needs to be safe, all parts need to agree and limits to be respected. 

Exactly. There is a thin, yet distinct line between being a Dom or being a bully. There are a lot of people out there who think they are Doms, but are just assholes. 

On 4/8/2025 at 11:45 PM, Hungryforbbc said:

exactly. I have spent my life in service of black kings and they are as into it as I am. I have asked many times and always get the same answer: “shut up and suck this dick” lol

I recently got together with a BBC/BWC couple. Both were pretty aggressive and verbal. It was a turn on for sure. 

7 minutes ago, Hungryforbbc said:

Had a similar experience many years ago with two hot hung tops on the upper east side - met on CL and played several times with only great results 

I miss CL personals. Got so much dick off it. 

12 minutes ago, Hungryforbbc said:

You lucky bitch!

I think so too. I had be chatting back and forth with these guys for ages, but just about gave up on them. You know how those sites are, guys who are mostly a lot of talk, but goes nowhere. When they finally dropped an address I ran over hoping it was not bogus. Well worth the wait. 

SPIT ROASTED BY BBC AND BWC

Not exactly my last load, but my most memorable of late. Finally getting a chance to tell everyone about it. Been flirting around with a pair of tops on A4A and finally took them up on their invitation to come join them in a little fun. Got there and was met at the door by a mature white gent in a bathrobe who insisted I call him “Daddy”, who led me down stairs to a room with a king size bed. In the middle of the bed was a beautiful, naked black man stroking a long and thick BBC. He said to me, “Bitch, stop staring, get out of your fucking clothes, and starts sucking this big cock.” He certainly did not have to tell me twice. 

Well, I was sucking his dick, Daddy had to go out of his robe and climbed into bed next to us. His dick was not quite as long, but even thicker. I did not get a good look at it at first, because the other guy kept grabbing my head and pushing it down on his BBC. Between choking and gasping for air, and drooling all over the place, he would yank me up by the hair, and yell at me, “How you like choking on your Master’s big cock, bitch?” But before I could answer, he would shove my head down his cock again. This went on for a while, but finally, he pulled my head up by my hair again, and told me it was time for me to suck off Daddy.

I honestly had a difficult time with getting Daddy’s cock down my throat. Damn, that monster with thick. But while I was sucking off that beautiful BWC, Master spread my ass cheeks apart, and gave me a thorough rimming. All the well, Daddy kept feeding me his dick and telling me that I was a “good boy”. 

After Master got me all nice and wet, he pulled me back to the end of the bed, put his dick head against my hole, and then shoved it in all the way without any other warning. He then grabbed onto my hips and pounded my whole like a jackhammer. All the well, he kept calling me his “bitch” and “white slut”. Screaming at me to keep “sucking Daddy’s cock” when ever I lifted up my head.

I’m not sure how long Master fucked me, but I was in total ecstasy. But eventually, all good things come to an end, and grabbed my hips in a death grip, shoved his beautiful BBC all the way up to the hilt, and with a growl, shot a massive load up my ass.

After he finally stopped coming, Master pulled his cock out and switched places with Daddy, ordering me to clean them up. Daddy shoved his thick cock in, and even after that sound pounding by Master, his girth was so wide I yelled in pain. Master just shoved my head down on his cock, and told me to shut up.

Daddy fucked me pretty hard too, but not quite so long before he shot his load. Master pulled my head up again by the hair, told me to turn around and clean up Daddy’s cock, which I happily did. Afterwards, they both laid down on either side of me, caressing and kissing me, telling me that I was a “good slut”. 

Eventually, Master told me to get dressed to go home. Daddy put on his robe and walk me to the door. Before I left, he gave me a big kiss and hug, and exchanged phone numbers, telling me that they expected me back in a few days for more fun.

After I got home, I saw a text from Daddy to let me know that next time I might have a second BBC that I would have to take care of. Hope it’s soon.

I have bottomed for and topped just about every race imaginable over the decades, and imagine I will continue to do so. That said, when it comes to being a bottom, over the past few years I gravitated more towards strong willed (and thick dick) Black and Latin men. I mentioned this to a friend the recently, who in turn accused me of “racially fetishizing”. I argued it was attraction, but he said it was the same thing. So I suppose this is a bit of a philosophical question, but is there a difference between attraction and fetishism?

On 2/19/2025 at 2:53 PM, hntnhole said:

Or, could it be that older equates with more experienced in a bottom's subconscious, and thus possibly better at their craft than younger guys?

Or just good ol’ daddy issues. 😜

In clubs, baths, etc., I think older tops get noticed more than older bottoms. 

17 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

When I was in my 20's I liked guys in their 20's and 30's. This is why I wouldn't complain about young guys not interested in sex with older. 

 

Truth. Until I hit my mid to late 40s, I was really only interested in people closer to my age. 

2 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

That’s easy to say but men like what they like. I have learned that not everyone wants to breed me. I had a guy once come up to me and say… I am sorry I fine you attractive but you are not what I’m looking for. I thought it was sweet that he said that to me but it wasn’t necessary. I wasn’t is type. It happens. As a bottom I get bred a lot by guys that most would think are not someone I would go for. My excitement comes from pleasing a man. Having him get off in me. 

Recently some guy walked up to me and told me, “I bet I’m not your type. You probably only go for young guys.” I got to say that being told what I probably do or do not like was an instant turn off. It also felt a bit manipulative. I just told him not to lay his insecurities on me, moved on. 

On 2/16/2025 at 8:21 PM, partying.hard said:

I get rejected.  And it used to be humbling.  But these days, I focus my attention of the guys who appear interested in fucking with me. And I’ve learned that “no” is ok. It’s not my place to question why.

Exactly. I turn down guys myself, and it’s not because I’m a jerk. I’m just not interested to them for whatever reason. Why should I get torn up when I get turned down? 

I see this all the time on here, but I can’t say that this has been much experience since hitting my latter 50s. I’m 61 with an average build and, honestly, I get more action now than ever before in my life. And most of the blokes I hook up with are in their 20s and 30s. 

Being called names is a big turnoff. Not because I am thin-skinned, but because I can’t take the other person seriously. 

On 12/7/2024 at 8:53 PM, topblkmale said:

 

After reading through this topic I have realized that the sex offender registry should be alot LOT longer.

 

Without a doubt. Unfortunately, women are rarely taken seriousl, and with men and boys it is rarely reported. 

HIV activists Bruce Richman and Gus Cairns come up came up with the catchphrase U=U about 9 years ago. Studies were underway by the late 2000’s. Prep was approved by the FDA IN 2012. 

On 4/26/2023 at 4:33 AM, bbrookie said:

In your experience deciding being a cumdump for the night, what do you prefer?

Choosing who fucks you or no loads refused?

Kind of depends on my mood. Usually I am kind of picky who I let up inside of me. But every now and then I like to go to the baths, turn off the light and open the door with my lubed ass in position and my head covered. 

I am 61 and rarely have issues with finding playmates. To be honest, most of the guys who fuck me or that I fuck are about half my age. Thank goodness for guys with daddy issues, I guess. 

No. I am to selfish when it comes to tops. And finding a decent top is tough enough at times without bringing competition with me. 

Like everyone else, some are fantastic and others not so fantastic. Two that stand out was a hot hot wolf of a guy who would wear his chaps and jacket when I would come over to give him head. I get hard just thinking about being between his legs, his thick cock down my throat and inhaling the rich scent of leather. The other guy was this skinny guy, not much to look at, but with a long cock of medium thickness. That was some hot, no frills fucking. He would come over and I would be stripped, lubed and bent over for him. He liked to take it long and slow until he busted his nut. 

Why does it have to be either/or? Why not both/and?

No, not insulted. It just sounds stupid and I usually end up cracking up. Hard to take someone seriously when he is going on about pounding my cunt or pussy. 

Virgins are overrated. Anymore, when I get hit up by someone who’s never been fucked, I pass. Sure, someone has to be their first, but let it be someone else. 

For me it is bathhouses and adult theaters without a doubt. I live out in the burbs of LI at this time, and most of the time apps and websites are a waste of time. (Too many married “straight” guys out here who either flake on you or who have no real intention to meet up, just trying to live out a fantasy.) I’m in the city often, so hit baths and rarely go home without a souvenir or two. 

Friday. Been too busy the last couple of days to play, so getting a bit antsy. 

10 minutes ago, Ieatcumholes said:

Is "vitamin v" what I think it is? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I use generic at this point. It still stays in my system for 12-ish hours (where the prescription version works for 12-18 hours) and is a dollar-ish per pill, pretty much allowing me to get hard at will long after I can no longer cum... So, definitely "bottoms beware"! 😜

 

The booster in my hiv meds can do make viagra a lot more fun.