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12 hours ago, Njn0mc said:

I would suck that for an hour then sit on it and grind till my hole gets a load!

Thank you. 

7 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I've heard that about antidepressants as well, and can't imagine why they wouldn't be more depressed due to the side effect. Few things lift my mood more than getting hard and horny. I'm sure I've cum more than 3 times a day on average over the last 40 odd years. Even at 55 if I don't cum twice it is a total downer.

I love when a top is a multiple shooter. 

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14 hours ago, Sharp-edge said:

I've heard that too. They say that they're top but for some weird reason they're into bottoming with you.

As we say driving in NYC, pick a lane and stay in it. I hate flip-fuckers. I’m a bottom leaning versatile, but I’m either going to bottom or I’m going to top if I’m in the mood. But I can’t mentally or physically switch gears back and forth. 

11 hours ago, norefusal said:

for us boomers and GenXers who lived thru the trauma of the aids crisis: prep was a game changer. even tho i've taken countless loads over the past few years, emotionally it's never enough to compensate for decades of not taking any. 

we are also not young studs and boners on demand is a thing of the past. 

milenials take too many antidepressants 😜prozac gave me ED and as a 30 something i flushed that shit. i'd rather be depressed than celebate. 

and frankly, given all the yearning for a strong daddy, i think younger guys are too scarred by modern life to be tops. if this was 1960s trump and biden would have had bullets in the back of their heads by now. we older guys may be dicks but we do seem to have thicker skin 

lol I remember back in the early 90s when they dished out Prozac for everything from depression to a hangnail. Doctors must have gotten bonus checks for popping out those prescriptions. Mine put me on them.  Had no trouble getting it up, but just couldn’t cum. 

On 12/6/2023 at 10:37 PM, Jose said:

The thing I hate the most is when I tell a dude I want to breed him and he says yea then when I’m at his house and about to put my dick in he asks me to put a condom on. Then I leave and I look like the asshole… it’s weird. Everyone knows what breeding is, fucking hate when dudes act like they don’t. 

I’m all about truth in advertising. If they change the rules, then forget it. I’ve had tops do the same. My guess is that they think a person will be just as desperate as they seemed to be to get laid. So believe that, since I’m already there, I’ll go through with it. 

Love it! Sometimes better than others. I was doing lights low, face down, ass up at the East Side last Friday - had some takers. The third and second to the last to fuck me had a lovely thick cock that swelled up before he literally flooded my ass with his load. I definitely felt each and every thick and gooey rope of cum he shot up my ass. Even well fucked and flooded, I felt it when number four came. 

12 hours ago, Loveitraw said:

I've only had it a couple of times from self-proclaimed Tops on the sites. It is annoying, especially as all my profiles state explicitly that I'm a bottom and thats not going to change. I've had plenty of hints from guys as well. The, "its a shame you don't Top!" approach. As if they are going to talk me out of a lifetime of behaviour after a few minutes of foreplay. Thankfully, as was mentioned earlier, there seem to be enough genuine guys to play with. At least so far.

The whole attempt to bait-n-switch is frick’n annoying. 

12 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

This situation is more common than you might have thought. Guys often advertise themselves as tops as a chance to get more attention online, at least that has been my experience. I don’t know why they feel the need to be dishonest, there are plenty of tops to go around, in my opinion.

The other reason that seems to produce this sort of “change in position” preference is partying.  That has been talked about a lot on this Forum, and I am convinced it has played a major part in why some tops suddenly decide they are bottoms…….

I was a complete top for a long time. But then I had a fantastic fuck buddy who slowly, and somewhat methodically, showed me the pleasures of bottoming. Every once in awhile I like to top, but not when I have spent 30-40 minutes in the shower getting ready to get my ass worked. 

I think stealthing people is a dick move. 

Depends. It’s hot if the top has the gift. But there are some guys that are so awkward or bad at being verbal, it is better if they just shut up and pound my ass. 

I go through phases where I am as smooth and then I go back to natural. 

Okay, what’s up with you tops who somehow magically morph into a bottom on your way over to play? There’s nothing more frustrating than some guy saying he’s a top, but then wants you to top him when he shows up. And more often than not, it is some married “straight” guy totally clueless to the fact that you just spent a half hour or so getting ready to be bred. 

On 6/18/2023 at 10:40 PM, RawVersGuy1 said:

Love your weighted stretcher. Want! 🩶

On 6/18/2023 at 12:50 PM, austinpig said:

Along with a hot dick, liking the hardware too

Kissing is more intimate than getting fucked. I enjoy kissing, but a lot of guys I am just not feeling it. 

The more the merrier 

On 10/10/2020 at 10:09 PM, Guest Antares said:

I've read here and elsewhere about bottoms having an "anal orgasm" without ejaculating and these can sometimes go on for 5-minutes or more.  Is this a whole body orgasm like a woman has where the bottom doesn't actually cum? Since I've never experienced this I'm curious about what it actually is. Comments?

One of my main reasons for bottoming. 

Unfortunately, my favorite FWB recently moved upstate. Along with being around the same age, he had just the right size cock - both length and girth. Best of all, he is intelligent and the post-coital conversations were great. 

Professionals of any sort as long as they are in nice suit.

A lot of straight guys, especially those who are looking to top or get sucked - or have a kinky streak - hook up with other men because they are not getting it from women. 

On 1/11/2024 at 11:22 PM, Traviscraymer said:

another new nyc party called Kink Brotherhood.  BSDM focused.  I’m going to try to check it out at the end of the month.

Have you gone? I’ve wanted to check it out, but usually need to be up too early the next morning for work. 

If you’re HIV+, are you upfront about it? tell on,y if asked? or buyer be ware? I’m HIV+ and undetectable, and primarily a bottom. Especially if I’m at bathhouse, though I never lie if ask, I don’t usually figure it is DADT. 

On 8/24/2023 at 3:24 AM, meetme said:

No, there is nothing here that supports public sexual expression.  Two men who were “getting friendly” in the hall were told to separate and that public contact was not allowed.  They will also ask you to close your room door if someone is with you in the room.  There is nothing healthy or open about this place.  It is the only place of its kind, left open after Rudolph Guilliani and Covid.

So inconsistent. Half the time they don’t give darn and the other half they are throwing all sorts of rules around.