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6 hours ago, VistaCaBB said:

I like how he asked if you were clean after pulling his tongue out of your ass.  Like little late now buddy. Lol 

Right? He should have been able to tell by the tasted of my well scrubbed hole that I was clean and tasty. lol

2 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

The first thing I would stop doing is calling these guys “straight”. Married doesn’t make one straight. If so I’d be calling myself straight. 

As you may have noticed, it was in quotes - as in I am quoting him. If it makes a guy feel like he still straight by playing the top, whatever. Whether he calls himself gay, bi, str8, fluid or Martian, I don’t care since he had a nice cock. 

5 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

 All of life is risky, yet sex has been turned into a morality play. fuck that.

That is one of the many reasons it makes me batty when anybody, but especially “straight” guys ask, Are you clean? Like, why are you assuming that I am the only possible risk? 

I got to admit that I am impressed by all you people who still bother to keep count. 

On 6/12/2012 at 4:37 PM, DarkroomTaker said:

Do you have issues with kissing?

I am really into kissing, but I am not into kissing just anyone. And let’s be honest, so many guys out there are just terrible kissers. 

4 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

Knowingly having a contagion and not disclosing it is another matter. If i know i have an STD, i don't have sex till i'm no longer contagious. i get tested every 4 months, but the in between time it's a risk for all parties concerned.

I have bloodwork just about quarterly for unrelated health issues, but my nurse practitioner always throws in sexual health tests. We agreed on this years back. As I told her, they already have the needle in, so what is a couple of extra vials. 

But sex is always a risk. There are plenty of things that you might have picked up just before test that have not registered yet. 

Yeah, I am past the point of taking “special requests” from hookups. Maybe from a FB or a FWB. 

36 minutes ago, JockstrapBottom said:

Ugh, I hate the "are you clean?"

Right? Like it’s 2024, asshole. 

Isn’t funny how easily straight guys fall apart when they are horny? They insist that they only play safe. But when you refuse to get in and start putting the candy away, they quickly lose their resolve, and throw all caution into the wind.

Went to the arcade last night, and this married guy honed in on me right away. He followed me around from a distance until I went into a booth, in which he quickly followed and slapped the lock closed. This guy was horny as hell. Start groping and making out with me. (It was actually a pretty good kisser, I will give him that.) 

It was almost savage how he turned me around, dropped to his knees and yanked my shorts down. After giving my whole thorough tongue wash, he got back up and whispered into my ear how he was going to fuck me. He then began trying to open up a condom, and that is what I told him I only went raw.

at first, he told me he only played say or not at all. I said OK and started to pull up my shorts. He asked me what the hell, and I told him again that I only play raw. You could see the panic and his eyes, all horned up as he was. Like they always too, he asked me if I was clean. Since I showered and douched before coming to the arcade, I said yes. He then gave up to his primal urges, and raw dogged me like a teenager. After a shot of massive load up my ass, fumbled to put his dick away, he of course, asked me again if I was clean. I laughed and told him that it did not really matter now, especially since he just fucked me. But then I assured him that I was and sent him on his merry way. Is it funny?

Never quite sure what that means. So subjective.

Honestly, I think my standards are a little higher these days. In my younger days, especially when it came to men, I basically took what I could get. Trouble with being closeted at the time and living in an area that was a bit more conservative and smaller.

More about the fuck, especially with a great top. Still want their nut though 

On 6/12/2024 at 1:01 AM, will_zeis23 said:

First time anything was 8 with an uncle and soon after more stuff with another cousin. 

Kind of weird how many times it comes up uncles. 

Probably 50-50. 

34 minutes ago, Fprefect570 said:

When I was younger I felt more fem while getting fucked. 
 

now that I’m a bit older I realize theirs nothing more masculine than taking a cock up my butt. 

Truth

On 6/12/2024 at 10:49 PM, Heir2012 said:

I'm finding the best gay men are either in their thirties or are older. Experiences make a man sexier. Give me an older man any day. 

After I reached mid-50s, I get hot on by guys in their 20s and early 30s who wouldn’t have looked twice at me when I was young. Not at all complaining. 

Well, for gays you are ancient after 30, so I’m going to say 27

If it’s happening, it’s my favorite. 

On 10/21/2023 at 2:48 PM, Iker80 said:

I've seen topics about has a guy ever been angry or aggressive with you during a hookup, but none asking if we've ever been that guy?

I had a meet with a guy who did something dumb. He decided to try choking me. We didn't talk about this and I didn't expect it. I've got some PTSD issues that I normally keep well enough in control of, but I'm kinda twitchy about my neck and I got very angry.

I don't want to be hooking up with anyone new at the moment now because I'm thinking what if they trigger something again. I'm going to think about it for a bit. I still feel ok with the guys I already know, I know they don't cause issues.

I'm wondering has anyone else had something like this experience?

I am sorry that happened to you. Guys who have take liberties like that often see themselves as doms or some shit, but are just asses. 

On 3/30/2024 at 6:32 PM, verslut said:

You don't need to show anything off. If you're really a bottom bitch, we tops will sense it soon after meeting you.

I agree. I’m fairly verse, but when I’m in sub-bottom mode, the hungry tops can sense it from down the aisle. 

I just turn down the lights, stick my bare ass in the air towards the open door and bury my face in my pillow. Tops usually figure it out. 

On 5/2/2024 at 1:08 PM, Bottomsub8989 said:

For me it’s doesn’t have to be blindfolded. It would be enough just to face the other way, opposite to the entrance of the room where I’m on my fours.
Blindfolds help me tho when the room isn’t anon friendly. 

When I’m at the baths in an anonymous mood, I just turn the light down - ass towards the open door, and plant my face into the pillow or toss the towel over my head. 

9 hours ago, Satyr99 said:

Depends what you mean by first experience.

It’s all subjective. 

On 6/3/2024 at 12:20 AM, Padrick said:

So many guys will say they only do safe and won’t ever do bareback. Then they turn up, rock solid and it goes in bare. 

Only downside to it is that they tend to rush when they’ve nutted from experience. 

An erection and a pair of blue balls does tend to breakdown the resolve of a man who is not getting any at home. 

On 6/9/2024 at 7:50 PM, AlwaysOpen said:

Nothing is secret for long, unfortunately. Remember gay guys with the hanky code flying in their  pocket of choice, but soon enough mainstream society of a certain age knew all the meanings. Or the keys hanging left or right. Or the pieced earlobe, which a lot of straight men copied but using the other side ear lobe, " to clarify they weren't gay" Bio hazard tats, pretty much well known. 

Point is, nothing stays hidden from other groups for very long. Including the wife. Perhaps the best way to signal your wants is simple eye contact and conversation. I hear it worked magically way back in the early days of gaydom, like 1970 or so. 

Word! Not only do things not remain secret, meaning either changes with time or is regional. When I was young, my mates and I wore our earring in our left ear to indicate we were “straight”, but then in college I met a foreign student who was excited that there were so many gay guys on campus. 🤣