KindaBasic

On 8/17/2025 at 4:42 AM, BadBob214 said:

Do guys not read profiles? Drives me fucking nuts!!!

Short answer? Rarely, especially closeted bottoms. Not sure who’s hitting you up, but most of the guys I get are horny and desperate suburban guys married to women. My guess is that they are hoping that if they keep hit every profile maybe someone will fuck them. 

Rape fantasies and rape reality are entirely different things. I’ve never come across a real rape victim who thought it was a good time. 

3 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

My point exactly, and it is even more annoying for in person cruising and or orgies, where they waste my time trying to convince me that I will like their preferred activity even better than penetration if I try it. I have tried most of them, they are foreplay and increase my craving for penetration, it's frustrating.

Living out in the hinterlands of the Long Island burbs, I get hit on online by a lot of nervous and repressed cis-het married guys looking for physical contact who, I guess, think that I am Burger King. They probably think I’m one of them, because they are usually surprised when they can’t get it their way. 

5 hours ago, Iker80 said:

Cis is the opposite of trans, it means you're born the gender you are. It actually has no connection with sexuality. I'm a cis man and bi.

This. One day maybe it will be common knowledge that sex, sexuality and gender are not the same thing. 

On 8/22/2025 at 1:00 AM, NWUSHorny said:

It is a relatively new term, for an old problem. What it means to the sides themselves seems to vary as well, some guys using the label claim they do everything but anal, others interpret it as no anal or oral penetration.

Everybody wants to be special and have their own unique label these days. Which I guess is okay, but I wish they would agree on a description. The thing I find annoying is when a “side” hits me up after reading my profile, where I make it clear what I’m looking for is to get fucked, just to tell me they are not into penetration. 

Thick and super veiny for a winning combination. 

On 7/19/2025 at 10:36 AM, topblkmale said:

 

My usual recommendation:

Wait until closing time.

Or when most guys generally start to leave if its a 24/7 bathhouse.

 

Truth. At the one I visit, about 6-7 pm on Friday is often good as the married guys need to rush home to the suburbs for the weekend. 

I’m gonna say 10.5-11 inches. (Was naked at a bathhouse, so did not have my tape measure on me.) It was also the thickest I have taken. Tall, skinny 20-something with a daddy complex who was actually a great kisser and a cuddler. For being young, he knew how to fuck and had me squealing and moaning. (Shot a massive load too.) 

Over the years I’ve hookup with many guys who considered themselves straight. I try not to judge, especially since sex and sexuality mean different things to different people. 

So many to choose from over the years. One of the more fun places was in a major supermarket manager office. It was upstairs at the front with a bank of windows overlooking the entire store. It was an A4A hookup, and I had the evening manager bent over his desk, fucking him while looking down upon the shoppers and staff. 

I will admit that I have become a bit of a size queen as I have gotten older, but not at all a deal breaker. I do like a cock with girth.  

It happens. Disappointing, but all part of the game. 

On 7/8/2025 at 5:11 PM, allrise said:

Iron Fist works best for me. Immediate strong hit.

I like the potency, but find it rough on the nose. 

On 7/23/2025 at 12:01 PM, hungry_hole said:

What triggers your top mode?

For someone who can get into a top mode, once they arrive is better to fool around, get sucked and fuck a few holes, but pump their load in a hole not too long after. Then they can take a break, go to the sauna, whirlpool, etc, even take a nap. The first load is many times difficult to hold, especially without having jerked off for a few days. 

 

You apparently have better baths than NYC. 

On 7/19/2025 at 2:23 AM, nokia88 said:

I often visit bathhouses to relax and have fun too.

When in a bottom mood i'm ass up and wait for cocks to slide in. I have around 15-20 cocks on a visit but it never happened that guys breed me, like cuming inside.

They fuck like 5 minutes and go on.

Should i do something to get bred? Any tips? I'm fit and have a good ass though.

I know when I’m in top mode, I like to pound a few asses, so I don’t usually drop my load until I. Ready to go. As a bottom, I seem to have my best opportunities to catch loads later in the evening, especially Fridays.  I suppose about the time all the married guys have to get back home to the burbs. 

Not exactly sure, but early teens. 

Spit. But then, I’m a bit of a purist. Or maybe just a slut. 

Meh. I think that the gauge and size has to be significant for it to matter much. 

On 6/20/2025 at 1:42 PM, Ridingcox said:

Uncles and older cousins soon followed. 

Got to watch out for those uncles and cousins. 

Just about daily. Sometimes multiple times. 

My chiropractor. 😜

Not that weird or unusual, especially for gay men. A lot of it is established by, if not before puberty. 

Not sure if I have one.  At this time in my life I think I just about hit all of them, and quite a few odd and fabulous places that were not even on my list. 🤣

It’s ok, but not a fan personally. 

Occasionally a jockstrap, but that’s about it.