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I've never cheated when I was in a relationship but I've fucked guys in relationships when I was single. There are some serial cheaters on dating apps. One of them did a bareback flip fuck with me. I let a married straight guy fuck me with a condom once too. So it's possible to have some great sex when you cheat. But that straight guy probably had an emotional fallout after I left his hotel room. But that's his problem and not mine.

It's because they only want to do bareback if the sex is good. So a one time trial with condoms prevents bad bareback experiences.

One way to get into it is to find a fuckbuddy. I had a fuckbuddy who made me wear a condom the first two times then let me go in bare. IMO one fuck is good enough to decide if bareback's right for both guys. It ensures the top can take care of a guy's hole before taking on bareback's risks.

I only let guys breed me if they give me a good pounding. A passionate top makes me beg for his load. Otherwise I just ask him to pull out. I feel so owned and exhausted when my top starts spurting in me.

It's time to face reality. Taking dick up my ass is an indulgence that affects my health. The negative effects will get worse as I age. A little risk for bottoming is tolerable a few times a year for me. And I may stop doing anal entirely eventually.

Something's wrong if I can't get aroused by being naked with another guy. I don't watch porn while having sex.

My first time was with a friend of a friend when I was 14. I then gave blowjobs to my friend for a while. I always swallowed. Guys will let anyone go down on them at that age even if they're straight. I developed most of my sexual tastes later on when I was an adult. I'm glad I mainly stuck to blowjobs as a teen.

I've been complemented on it before. I use unscented deodorant.

You're gonna contract HIV if you take loads all the time without PrEP. It's a matter of when and not if.

I try not to masturbate too much and aim for every few days. I don't always succeed at that. Sometime I'll jack off daily or twice a day.

I mostly top so I can give a breakdown by load source.

• Three from a fuckbuddy.
• Five loads from random hookups.
• Three from escorts.

I've bottomed more than that. But the tops either didn't cum in me or wore condoms.

Stretch out your ass with a dildo or fingers before getting fucked. Trying to get into an overly tight hole can be hard.

I like guys who are shorter than me. Otherwise I don't have many appearance preferences.  I'm looking for guys who can take my cock to the base and endure a pounding. 

It depends on the rectum's contours. Some holes really hit the right spots and make it hard to control myself. But usually I can control myself and fuck for a while. Sometimes I can stay hard after cumming too and keep pounding hard.

I'm guessing triage on MindGeek's part. Porn streaming sites are a nightmare to maintain. And I have a feeling the Pornhub network's backend systems aren't well integrated. MindGeek have to shut down sites that don't make enough money or don't fit into its business strategy.

I usually prefer lube. But sometimes I'll give a sloppy rimjob. Then my dick slides right into my bottom when I tease my head. I ease my dick in and play around a little before removing it and adding some lube.

Some guys don't wan to clean up jizz out of their asses. Some guys only take loads from regular partners. Some guys want to marginally reduce STD contraction risk. The motivation depends on the guy.

I usually ask if a guy wants my load while I'm balls deep in him. But I won't ask if I already know my bottom likes to be bred by default.

I wore a towel and sandals when I visited a bathouse. Most  men will be wearing that. You could wear any gear or jocks but I'm not that. Think about what you want to do there. I mainly played around with guys in the sauna. Eventually I found a guy with a room and we flip fucked. You'll probably want to stay for a while so make sure not to cum too early unless you can cum more than once.

It's nature and nurture for me. I've been sucking dick since I was young. I started practicing deepthroating when I realized I could swallow cock fairly easily. Now I'm a total size queen when it comes to oral. I love big cock being forced down my throat all the way to the base.

18 hours ago, drscorpio said:

Unless things have changed after Covid, things are much tamer at the Phoenix. The police started watching what was going on upstairs. Now people were still fucking in the street outside the bar still at Southern Decadence in 2019. 

I visited there in December 2018. So it's probably different now. When I was there I was informed it used to have a swing but it was taken down.

New Orleans' Phoenix Bar hosts a sex club in its attic. I had a blast there. The guys there are pretty piggy because of the booze. You can bareback fuck in the bar if you find the right guy. But I preferred to just get some head while I was there, then headed back to my hotel room for a threeway with some guys I met there.

Finding a doctor to breed you in his office wouldn't be too hard. But getting your doctor to breed you is a bad idea.

Here's my answer to the first question.

41 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

Not to be judgmental, but: Why do you reject the option of PrEP? Is it a cost issue, concern about the medication's effects on your body over time, you enjoy running at least some risk with sex, or something else?

I decided not having bareback sex often, occasionally using condoms, and regular testing worked for my needs. The strategy takes a lot of planning and consideration. I acknowledge it only works because nearly all my bareback partners are on PrEP. At the moment I'm transitioning away from bareback so I have no plans to go on PrEP.

Context: I live in a place where bareback culture is popular and PrEP use is common. I do not use prep. I choose to be selective with partners and bareback infrequently to reduce STD transmission risk. It works well. But I don't recommend it for bottoms or anyone who barebacks more than once a month.

I occasionally run into men who are surprised to learn about I'm not on prep while my jizz is dripping out of them. How ridiculous. I specify I'm not on PrEP on hookup apps. And there's plenty of time to ask about PrEP or testing history before I go in. None of these fucks were anon. I even got this reaction from an escort in the past. He should have been more diligent with his work.

I obviously recommend asking about PrEP and testing history before getting naked. But plenty of people here want more spontaneity or anonymity. So at minimum don't be shocked when the stranger breeding your ass isn't on PrEP.