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41 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

Not to be judgmental, but: Why do you reject the option of PrEP? Is it a cost issue, concern about the medication's effects on your body over time, you enjoy running at least some risk with sex, or something else?

I decided not having bareback sex often, occasionally using condoms, and regular testing worked for my needs. The strategy takes a lot of planning and consideration. I acknowledge it only works because nearly all my bareback partners are on PrEP. At the moment I'm transitioning away from bareback so I have no plans to go on PrEP.

Context: I live in a place where bareback culture is popular and PrEP use is common. I do not use prep. I choose to be selective with partners and bareback infrequently to reduce STD transmission risk. It works well. But I don't recommend it for bottoms or anyone who barebacks more than once a month.

I occasionally run into men who are surprised to learn about I'm not on prep while my jizz is dripping out of them. How ridiculous. I specify I'm not on PrEP on hookup apps. And there's plenty of time to ask about PrEP or testing history before I go in. None of these fucks were anon. I even got this reaction from an escort in the past. He should have been more diligent with his work.

I obviously recommend asking about PrEP and testing history before getting naked. But plenty of people here want more spontaneity or anonymity. So at minimum don't be shocked when the stranger breeding your ass isn't on PrEP.

I got gastroenteritis from rimming. Otherwise I haven't caught anything. I've been barebacking intermittently for the past few years without PrEP.

1 hour ago, Cumslutbne said:

Yesterday I went to a cruise club and offered my arse to random guys, ended up with five loads and it was an amazing feeling as each guy fucked me. Just as I was about to leave a guy wanted to fuck me with a condom on, I wasn't one bit interested. It was then that I knew I need loads in me, it feels right.

So are you concerned about being a cumslut or not? I'm getting mixed messages here. We can offer advice if you have any particular concerns. But if you're fine taking raw dick all day long, just own up to. it. There are dedicated places to post hookup experiences here.

I own up to how much of a scumbag I am. I post about downsides of my selfishness if I'm looking for support or discussion. But I don't mix that in with stories of my slutty adventures.

On 4/21/2021 at 9:25 AM, DannyBoyCMH said:

Agree with practice, but also, just take it.  If you are going to be a proper bottom, you need to take a cock no matter what.  Yes, the big ones can hurt, but it's about the top, not you.  

You're blunt but I definitely agree. I make sure my bottom is enjoying his pounding and I'll go slow to ease in. But I'm not gonna be a regular fuck bud with a guy who can't take my dick.

Nowadays I'm usually upfront about only going bare. My bottom has to agree to it before we meet. But I'd sweet talk them into taking by naked dick in the past. I gotta work them down good. Start with a hot makeout session. Play around until we're both laying down naked. Bury my face in his ass and get that tongue in deep. Finger him until I can get two fingers in (if the guy's into fingering). Tease his sloppy hole with my dick. Maybe get the head in a little. At the last moment gently ask, "Do you do bareback?" He'll usually let me in.

This mainly works if the bottom's on prep. And rimming is mandatory. It'll really stimulate his desire to get pounded raw. But I don't rim anymore so I left this technique in the past.

I'm not into condoms when I top. But I'll fuck some safe only guys. I usually pressure them into taking my dick raw. Sometimes it works but sometimes he doesn't relent and I have to wrap up.

My favorite hookups are the guys who keep condoms out on their nightstands. I just go in raw without asking and my bottom starts begging for my load.

As a top I either cum deep inside or pull out entirely. There's no in between for me.

Stop jacking off don't hold your dick while using grindr for starters.

On 4/13/2021 at 6:52 PM, Tassel said:

Still hopeful that they are still in business. I recently made a purchase on the website, they use an independent billing service. 

Never recieved merchandise after 2 months, thankfully, ccbill, is a wonderful  billing company,  agreeded to refund my card.

If they are no longer in business,  they should indicate that on the website.  Maybe  they will come back. 

They're sort of in business even though they don't make content anymore. They changed from Flash to HTML 5 to keep the site up. But I wouldn't recommend anyone subscribe or purchase anything because you're probably not gonna get what you asked for.

I'm quite loud when I'm having a rough fuck. But things are different when I'm going gentle. I usually add in some sensual talk when I top to get my bottom and I going. Saying absolutely nothing is a little weird and I've only done it when fucking anon. But I do have some quiet orgasms sometimes which occasionally confuses bottoms. 

I had a fuckbuddy who wanted me to pull out and I obliged. He started doing porn and made me use a condom. I did that once but stopped hitting him up after that. We met up a few months later. He said he was way pigger than before. He let me go in raw and breed him the night before he was scheduled for a porn shoot. I started fucking him again on the reg and he never asked for a condom or for me to pull out ever again.

Bottom: You're on prep, right?

Me: Yeah. [goes in balls deep]

Bottom: Oh yeah! Breed me baby!

I love deepthroating and getting face fucked. So I'd swallow that dick whole and let my top go all out.

I use CeraVe moisturizing cream. It doesn't leave residue and it's a good hand lotion. But I don't masturbate often so I'm not too picky about lubricant.

I have a fuck buddy I usually top. But he's vers so I eventually let him in my ass. I should have let him in me so much earlier. He was a jackhammer. He just kept pounding my ass after cumming. Then he creamed it a second time. That's the most loads I've taken.

Who needs gang bangs when I have a top like him?

Slap his face. Force his head deep on your cock until he gags.

3 hours ago, chipygmalion80 said:

How do you know it was from rimming and not fucking? Because there was no fucking?

I'm seriously curious.

There's very, very few guys I've rimmed who I've not also fucked. 

Is fucking "safer" because gastro and Ecoli cannot be (easily) transmitted up the cock / urethra??

BTW: I've tried a vaginal condom on my fuck hole and ... It was not easy to get fucked with it much less rimmed...

Norovirus or bacteria have to be ingested to contract norovirus.

It's not very important to me when fucking. It is important when I get head though. If I don't cum after getting head I get some major blue balls.

10 minutes ago, subBottomKink said:

I never really got this. If you've taken his raw Cock, you've taken all his bugs already. Having said that, some guys do seem to separate fucking from breeding in this manner.

I'm one of those guys. Taking a load substantially increases risk of STD transmission since STDs are present in semen itself. Pulling out lowers risk even though it doesn't undo any damage from skin dermabrasion. But the main factor in whether I ask my top to pull out is whether he's good. I don't bother taking a load from a mediocre top.

It's common courtesy to ask during fucking if it wasn't discussed in advance. If you have already talked about it then asking during fucking is just dirty talk.

I'm pretty selfish. So I'll try to go in raw as much as I can. But I'm picky with who I'll let in me without a condom. So I do ask guys to put on a condom on occasion.

I've only ever topped anon, always raw. I can't say I've ever found an anon bottom who was looking for safe sex.

Some of those bay area tech bros really do fuck. I'd like to visit a bathhouse there when one opens.

No thanks. I much prefer Jeremy Meeks.