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  1. If I remember correctly we had an issue with a migration and we finally got one of the tier 3 network guys in and he looked into the records on the gateway router and with his " vodoo magic " found packets getting dropped. I think he made an entry into one of the tables and it fixed the issue ( might have been the ARP table )

    If you are moving the other parts of the app to this new location early next week this might be a null issuee

  2. 2 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

    Browser restarted (actually the whole machine, as Windows wanted an update again).

    Still getting the error. It's a gateway timeout - at some point the server's response to the submit post is getting dropped.

     

    I wonder if the 2 servers are looking at DNS entries that are propagating properly. I know when I worked in IT we tested with IP addresses and it worked. At least we knew what the issue was.

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  3. 10 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

    The chat is based on a different software platform from the rest of the server. @rawTOP is aware of the problem, and is working on it, but he is in the process of recovering from a stroke, so his personal resources are limited at the moment. He will get things working as soon as he can.

    Recovering from a stroke is rough, very rough. He/ we are lucky he is able to get going again this quickly. My dad had a stroke, he recovered pretty fast but it took a while and some of his patience were dimished, he had a shorter fuse than before and from what I have researched, this change isn't uncommon. Imagine being trapped in your body, your brain seems to me working but you can't talk, communicate , walk or anything. Even going to the bathroom was not possible. 

  4. Last time I went to Club Columbus, pre pandemic, I wore a jock for the first time. I went to the dark room and into the corner,I had my towel around my shoulders. You couldn't see who or what was there. I felt a guy grope the front of me, when he felt the jock he imediatly went to my butt cheeks and started exploring my ass. I was in heaven with this. I turned a little and arched my ass to let him know I was into where he was going. He got to my exposed hole and felt the lube in me and pulled me around and pushed me into a bent position. He fucked me bare for a bit and then blew a lodd in me. As soon as he pulled out another guy pushed a couple gingers in me to feel the guys cum. I was shocked because the next thing I felt wasba mouth on my freshly fucked ass. 

    Lets say the rest of the day was interesting, I layed in the sling with my towel over my head, got sucked, fucked and eaten. Not sure if it was the crowd or the jock, but this was a wild time

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  5. On 6/21/2023 at 6:21 PM, ErosWired said:

    They’re fantasists and voyeurs - they don’t live a life in which they actively have intercourse because they have conditioned themselves to accept the psychological substitute of a fantasy/vicarious/virtual connection for the real thing.

    There are reasons they may do this, most of which boil down to timidity, repression and fear. Sex is a practice that takes one to extremes of feeling, can put one at risk emotionally or physically, and is laden with rafts of social assumptions that these men may buy into more than not. Men with the courage to live their lives and reach for their desires without fear are not common. The rest can only imitate them in some lesser way to try to imagine what their lives really are.

    It doesn’t take an extraordinary person to live extraordinary experiences - there’s nothing extraordinary about me, yet by the measure of most men as I have come to understand it, my sexual experience has been extraordinary, and continues to be so. The difference? I just decide to live it. These men who chat and masturbate have decided not to.

    A very common phrase we see in response to narratives about real sex lives lived is “Wish that was me.” That makes me grind my teeth every time I see it. It’s never going to be him, because he doesn’t have the gumption to make it happen, and by making that statement he’s just letting us know.

     I’m not going to judge him - if that’s all he needs in life to meet that need, then so be it. I’d prefer that he not waste my time, but his need are his own. I do, however, pity him a bit, for he has settled for a life so much less rich than it could be.

    I hear you, I get ghosted a lot. I try to size up the guy I am chatting with . I have chated with some guys and even though i dont recognize the name I readynthe same terminology I get a quick idea if the guy is only for chatting.

    I don't mind chatting, it sometimes gives me ideas for when I do play. I usually tell guys I can only play certain weekdays. If they can't play then, usually because of work, that is ok. Sometimes we keep chatting , other times they drop it. 

    I think as long as you know up front where it is going the chat is OK.

    Oh, and I am much the same way, the guy needs to know, I am looking to get fucked or my ass wrecked, my favorite times have been when the guy grabbs ass right away

     

  6. 22 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

    ^^^ SO MUCH THIS ^^^

    I enjoy a good role-play of "don't cum in me" as much as the next guy (in fact, one of my top favorite porn stories is that scenario exactly). But if it's not role-play, doing it is rape, full stop.

    Rape, agreed. Unless agreed upon prior to the play.

    I had a friend that we played different games with. One was that he had me face down on my stomach, he would hold me down and tell me he was going ot knock me up. I won't go any  more details but when I said no, please don't, that was his sign from me to bang the hell out of my ass

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  7. 4 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

    A little elaboration: BZ is already built on top of an open source platform (like wordpress, but something else). However, the amount of additional structure on top of the forum framework is substantial (as you might imagine).  @rawTOP (the site owner and admin) has for quite some time now been working on a new site that is rebuilt from scratch. That site is already in beta testing. Therefore, modifications to the old site that involve much new engineering are probably not going to happen, but the suggestions are certainly welcome!

    When he gets back, and hoping he is doing ok, things that come to mind is 

    On the profile

    Require age, location ( possibly a map similar to Sniffies  or a Zip code )

    Create dB for searching users close to us. 

    If possible require more info in the profile, position, status, ....

    Again. I hope he recovers shortly and gets back to more enjoyable things

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  8. I talked with a guy a couple years ago about it. Sounded like something I would enjoy, he was experanced in all sorts of play, he said he had used it on a ' victem ' as he called it and used his tens unit with it. Said one of the contacts he put on the hook. He said when the electric hit the guy would jerk and basically fuck is own ass. He said it a lot of fun to watch. His idea was to sit , smoke a cigarband watch the fun .

    Note. His 'victems' like me, all asked for it and he was good at watching and making sure no one really got hurt, at least I trusted him

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  9. 4 minutes ago, Webster9 said:

    I am a total bottom who has never understood the appeal of wearing a cock cage.  When I'm with a top, he gets my total attention.  No cock cage is needed.

    I agree. A lot of the tops that have done me like to reach Under me and grab my cock. I think there are many reasons but a couple that comes to mind are that they  like feeling the cock attached to the hole they are riding. The other reason might be that they feel more dominant feeling a small soft cock under them. 

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  10. 6 hours ago, Webster9 said:

    I tend to be too particular when I'm walking around a sex club or bath house.  That's why I love going into the Dark Room.  I don't get to judge or to choose who I let fuck me.  I just bend over and take it from anybody and everybody.  On many Saturday nights, when I'm already good and spun before I leave the house,  I hit the sex club, get a locker, and head straight for the Dark Room.  Some times I've counted more than 20 cocks fucking my hole.  I wouldn't have gotten any where near that many if I had stayed out of the Dark Room.

    Last time I was at a bath I went to the dark room, I got more up my ass than anytime at Club Columbus 

  11. I have a lot of different toys and tools. Some store bought and others that I made. Some just objects, others electric or motorized. Some with textured or bumps on them so I can feel them working my hole. Lately one of my friends that like to stretch my hole have been combining toys and fingers or cocks. I have had different vegies, chains and more.

    I did get a new one that I haven't used yet, it will really push my limits. 

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