jamie6369

I've met a couple of times the same lad, each time he goes, he seems to delete Grindr completely. Then a couple of weeks later he pops up with a new account.

I just got the feeling it was some kind of dodgy set-up from the beginning. I always had that "this ain't right" thought in the back of my mind. When things went wrong, it didn't really surprise me, what did surprise was his "verbal" attack - or more accurately, why bother with the verbal attack. I guess it's a classic case of, if it doesn't feel right, stay away!

Probably not the place to put this, but I feel like "a problem shared" (can't remember the rest!) Anyway, Grindr - been "talking" to a guy - seemed not quite right from the start, claimed he had crabs for a few weeks. They were itchy, so that all added up. Finally gave me his address and arranged a time (like 30 minutes ago) he was he was home alone. I got there, not a single light on in the house and two cars on the drive. I sent him a "here" message and hung around like a drug dealer on the street corner for 5 minutes before deciding it was a con. I got a message about 5 minutes after that saying he didn't hear me knock on the door. I explained my concerns, and was then met with a ton of abuse saying I kissed kids, was a paedo and a whole host of other crap. I did point out he was acting exactly as I had suspected he would and after a couple more abusing messages blocked him. What I can't comprehend is why he invested so much time over several days messaging back and forth?? Perhaps he lives locally and knows his neighbour is a complete nutter if people wake him up, or something. I really can't understand why he went to so much trouble to keep messaging. Sorry to have vented all this just here!

Just a quick update as I've had the odd message asking how things are going. Much to most peoples amusement, I am still locked - it's been 12 weeks now without cuming. I am still looking for crabs (even if the fetish disappeared, my keyholder is not going to return my keys until he "sees plenty" of crabs in my bush!). Literally all my profiles everywhere in the kink community basically say "gimme crabs" - Grindr is good for a giggle, it appears quite a few have had them (passed tense) and would willingly share - although one user said I should be shot!

lol - I'm not giving up, I can't get my chastity keys back until keyholder "sees plenty" in my pubes!

Nope - I've now been locked for over 9 weeks. I'm searching and basically advertising. I keep getting guys on grindr claiming they have them, but then asking for money. So, I'm still locked and looking. (and willing to travel to get them!)

I'm not into backsides at all, but I do prefer a sweaty dick to suck - soapy just out of the shower doesn't taste nice, give me just off the footy pitch sweaty, much preferred

Always good to hear - build up your time then try and stay locked for a week. LOL after that, you'll be wondering to yourself "perhaps I could stay locked for xxx"

9 months is a long time. I did 26 weeks a few years ago. Yesterday was my 8 weeks of being locked up. I still don't think I am any nearer to being unlocked, but who knows, it only takes one message from an itchy guy.

I've been locked in this since Sept 22 (2020) and it's staying locked until I get crabs 🙂

I really don't know why. It's a crazy fetish that I "need" to do - more so now I'm locked in chastity until I get them. It's been 6 weeks without cuming and I really am horny af 😂😂😂😂

I guess the title of the thread says it all. I've probably annoyed everyone for occasionally asking if anyone has crabs, well, it has been decided as an incentive, to keep me locked in chastity until I get them. I last cum 22nd September 2020, so it has already been 10 days and I am nice and horny (probably why I agreed to this!) Travel - hell yea, to get this thing off my dick, I'll travel to get them! I'm in Lincoln, roughly in the middle of England, but if the donor is in London, that won't be a problem, although it may take a couple of days for me to work things out (work wise) I don't care who the donor is, old/young, fat/thin, rich/poor, black/white, male/female - just pull a few off and lob them into my pubes!

I'm not particularly interested in sex - I'm like 99% fetish driven, leaving the remaining 1% for the odd dick I occasionally suck.

Normally once a day, somedays two or three times. I seem as horny as I was when I was in my twenties (now late 40s) , looking back, I can see I was hornier in my teens (I'd have wank before work, in the evenings, and quite often an extra one during my lunch break!) Having said all that, I haven't cum in about 9 days as I'm trying out a new chastity device. I really to turn into a want-to-please-sub after a few days without wanking. I have had this week off work and spent most of it looking at various porn/fetish websites!

I have been looking for crabs for absolutely ages, I get lots of "I had them" types of messages, but it seems very hard to find anyone with them currently. Anyway, I am off work next week - Monday 14th to Friday 18th so will travel to get them (I've twisted my ankle playing football last night, but can still just about drive!) I am not bothered if I get them off you, or a mate, or off a mate of a mate. I don't care if gay or straight, I'm fine if the donor just wants to pull a few off himself, stick them in a Maccies ketchup paper-cup thing, then I'll dump them into my pubes. I'm based in Lincoln, but to definitely get them, I will travel a decent distance (idk, roughly 150 miles) I know it is just a "minor" STD/STI compared to what others seek, but I've got to start somewhere

I hate the taste of soap, I don't know what they put in the stuff, but I can smell and taste it like 8pm at night, after someone had a morning shower and been at work all day. I'd rather suck his dick after a workout at the gym. (Even better if he makes me wear his sweaty boxers for a week!)

I understand nervousness, and in the past have backed out and made excuses when things haven't "felt" right, although when I did back out, it was before anyone started travelling. Grindr makes me laugh, loads of I'll do this, I'll do that, then as soon as I say that I can host a meeting, they go quiet or even on occasion, block me! Then again, I use my profile as an advert for my weird fetishes, so probably not getting messages from the most reliable users! I now always ask for a face photo. People who will show you what they look like (even in a private message) seem more reliable.

An hour isn't bad, 40 miles, around here (East Midlands) that will get you to several large cities.

I agree with Ranger Rick - traffic is an issue, tbh, if a mate asks for a lift across town at 5pm, it might be 3-4 miles, but it will take over an hour for the round trip! Andy - I think you are right with people who have what they want on their doorsteps, I guess spoiled/lazy - I don't want to insult anyone, I'd probably be the same. I have certainly come across people who travel from Lincoln to Nottingham, small city to bigger city, but don't think I have ever come across people flowing in the opposite direction. I also agree with you in the old saying "A mans word is his bond" - if I say I will be somewhere, then I will be. I know in the past, I have agreed to meet in fairly public places and the person I'm supposed to be meeting has had one look at me and decided I'm not his type and walked straight past! I am not bothered about someone not liking when they see in person, but don't be rude, just say I'm not doing anything for them! One person a few years ago agreed to meet, and when we did, actually said I was too old for him - which was, in a way nice he took the time to say sorry, but on the other hand, my photos tend to be fairly up to date and my age was on whatever profile he saw. I agree with a plan B - I went to Sheffield last year to meet someone, oddly they pulled out at the last minute due to something, but I like Sheffield, I went to Uni there, so it was a good chance to have a wonder around and see how the place had changed over the last 10 years or so. On a positive note - many people have done the meet half-way thing, it's sometimes a little "Well, now we're here in the M1 services, where do we go that's a little quieter?" when neither of us know the local area. Meeting people is nearly always a positive experience, even if it just for a chat and coffee. I guess in many ways, you get out of a meeting, what you put into a meeting. As for accommodating a meeting - yes I can, but people seem to go all quiet when I say I can accommodate. It's like many people want to, but get frightened at the thought of going to someones house. Idk, I think I've waffled on too much here with my random thoughts!

I always get the impression here in the UK, that we think 50 miles is the end of the earth and way too far away. I live in Lincoln - many people here seem to think it is some sort of massive trip going to Nottingham (40 miles, about an hour drive) I have had quite a few "it's a shame you're so far away" comments (admittedly, not on BZ) from people that I consider quite close. A good few years ago (late 1990's) I drove down to Burnham on Crouch in Essex for a caning, it wasn't a problem (although the seat was really warm on the way back!). So, is it distance or time the journey takes? How far would be deemed reasonable. For me, roughly a 50 mile radius, I wouldn't really hesitate about doing.

Oh that doesn't sound good BottlomLad - I hope things get sorted out soon and that you are ok. ❤️

So glad you are getting the treatment you need BottomLad - I more coming to the opinion that it was the press running a scare story that the cancer treatment was suspended. It didn't make much sense when I heard it, I thought there should be somewhere they could isolate from the rest of the hospital for such treatments.

I saw just the lad the other day - dropped a mate off on the local council estate, saw this lad with his hands down his trackies. When I drove past the One Stop shop a few minutes later, he was outside still scratching. If he was a couple of years older, I would have been tempted to stop and ask! (Now that would be an interesting conversation 😅)

It really did seem a bit extreme to cancel cancer treatment, hopefully it was one of those news stories that was something like a one-off, in one hospital, on one day, then the press blew it out of proportion. I guess, all I have to do, instead of stakeout the sex clinic, is linger about the pharmacy in Sainsbury's and listen carefully for the pharmacist recommending Lyclear or Derbac - dam social distancing, I'll be too far away!! LOL 😄😢