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3 hours ago, pozboy said:

that certainly ought to count, magnificently depraved as it is - has the husband been told? he ough to be, to encourage him to do similar

 

That was no husband, my mate was marrying a woman! 😂 

On 10/23/2020 at 6:09 PM, Sboi91 said:

Yikes after a long old week of staring at numbers my brain is corrupt this will need some serious adding up and brain power... 

Bet it beats mine...

4 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

That brings up an interesting theoretical question.

If we assume, for the sake of argument, that people who claim to be in their mid-20's are actually 2-3 years younger; and we take notice of the fact that men in their 50's with some frequency claim to be "late 40's" and the gap persists thereafter; it stands to reason that at some point between those two, people are actually generally honest about their ages. I'm wondering what the mid-point is - that is, at what point does the the likelihood that someone's overstating his age get passed up by the likelihood he's understating it?

Mae West said you’re as young as the man you feel...

What I find interesting is that the older I get, the younger the guys hitting me up on apps seems to be. But then, when I was their age, I was attracted to guys my age. I wonder when that crossing point was, too? 

5 hours ago, BPS0209 said:

Anyone recommend the best websites/apps for North West, UK?

Grindr is the go to but I'd like to try something different. 

Vers guy looking for BB fun and has plenty of kinks.

Please help 🥺

Grindr in Manchester is a bit of a bore, these days. I’ve found much more luck on Scruff. BBRT is pretty okay locally, but recently I’ve met quite a few guys from FabGuys. I’m not on Recon but friends tell me it’s good, too. I live in MediaCity when I’m there and pre-Covid you could turn on any app and be pretty much knee-deep in cock. It’s a bit quieter now, though. 

31 minutes ago, BPS0209 said:

I'd like a link to whoever is going to record this for me 🙃 lockdown in Manchester really does limit my options! 😅

 

Twitter account: @BPS0209

Lockdown in Manchester isn’t limiting mine. Admittedly, I’m only there two weeks every month- but I make the most of it the two weeks I am there! 

289

Although sleeping with your mate on the eve of his wedding when you’re his best man isn’t on the list...

Then it would have been 290...😇

1 hour ago, rawTOP said:

To be a little more specific… There were a few days where there were hundreds of new account registrations. They then used those accounts to send out spam private messages. The accounts were deleted and the PMs deleted as well. But in some ways the damage was done. People who had "send me an email when I receive a new PM" got the spam messages in their email inboxes. Clearly I can't delete email from your inboxes, so that couldn't be undone. Some of those users then reported those emails as spam to their email service providers. For example Google lets me see the percentage of emails that I send that are marked spam by their users. Most often it's 0%. Sometimes it's 0.2%, but it almost never gets above 0.5%. But this past Friday (days after I'd deleted everything I could) it spiked to 3.3%. Luckily it went right back to zero the next day, so Google should see it as an anomaly, not a meaningful pattern.

The logical way to deal with all that was to simply turn off the messaging system for new users. This is (primarily) a forum site, not a private message system. So now if you come on here and immediately complain that you can't send PM, I'm gonna assume you're a spammer. Participate in the public parts of the community, earn some trust, and in time you'll be able to send PMs. Just not right away.

For what it’s worth, I think it’s a very sensible policy for this site. Yes, I found it a bit frustrating at first. But by participating,  I not only moved up the ranks, as it were, but made some great contacts with like-minded guys all over the world who I might never have been in touch with. 

10 hours ago, Pozguyinchi said:

I think the whole point of this platform is that there is an outlet for like minded thinkers. I haven’t had or seen negative comments but then again I don’t read all content on here. 

I have to say, I agree. Of all the sites I’m on, BZ has the least negativity. 

11 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

The reputation score on here is a pretty good indicator of how engaged someone is in the community and I imagine it is difficult to keep up a charade for a long time and get a good reputation on here if you're a fake. It's only an indication: even with reasonable reputation scores, there are sometimes suspicious posting patterns that do make me wonder if one person is using multiple profiles to promote themselves.

That said, I believe we shouldn't discriminate and we should always be welcoming and accepting of new members who will naturally have low reputation scores.  

I quite like the way you can leave encounter feedback on people's profiles on Squirt.org. You can also do the same on NKP but the nature of that site is that you tend to get some sub/btm guy with a load of comments on his profile from other bottoms trying to attract attention from any tops browsing rather than useful feedback. BBRT has the option to link profiles with play buddies and this is usually a good indicator of how engaged someone is in playing.  

 

I agree with you about the buddy link function on BBRT - indeed, we are buddy linked ourselves on there. Everything I post about my encounters is real - I have no need to exaggerate (as well you know...😂) - but I have no control over whether anyone believes me or not. And, frankly, it’s a matter of indifference to me if they don’t. I’m never rude. Never down vote. And trolls can troll away with me til the cows come home because I’m immune.

3 hours ago, Xantan said:

Another thing I need to try. Drinking piss and getting pissed on. 

Get someone to piss in you - it’s an incredible sensation. 

Swallow, all the time. Last time was just a few days ago when a fellow BZ member obliged...

8 hours ago, Xantan said:

How long until I can send messages and react to posts? When I try to message someone it says I have 0 messages available to send. It's getting boring not being able to communicate with anyone, especially dom guys. 

I felt the same frustration at first, but as @BootmanLA rightly advises, just participating does build up a reputation. This is a unique site of likeminded guys from all over the world. Sadly, the nature of it could lend itself to abuse and I’m glad those restraints are in place. Keep engaging and you’ll find things loosening up (as it were...)

31 minutes ago, SFSloppyAznBottom said:

Do you get many messages on here ? It doesn’t happen much for me it seems 😕

Not many messages. But I always like the ones I do. 

5 minutes ago, Sboi91 said:

Hey guys.. Very new here after finding out about this place at a sex party on Monday... I’ve always chased for charged loads and hope to one day for fill my ultimate goal of being a fully charged pig before I’m 30. Looking to chat to like minded people and meet decent down to earth charged men.  Based in Manchester UK

I may have been at that party 🤔 and I confirm that this guy is one of the sexiest, friendliest men I’ve met in a long, long time. A killer smile and a fantastic body. He’ll hate me saying this (because he’s endearingly modest) but he’s terrific. 

Yes. Until I came across BZ I didn’t know other guys shared my passions. And reading their experiences has opened up horizons...

12 minutes ago, Sboi91 said:

Spigboi91 on kik 

Welcome on here you sexy bugger...

On 5/13/2020 at 2:00 PM, Sleazychap1 said:

I've started a Cumdump group UK ON Kik, if anyone's interested. Let's get loads of members in there and plenty of viral Tops too.

Message me if interested 

RawPlug on there (as on here) 

On 10/10/2020 at 2:53 PM, Littlebill77 said:

look at where the clubs are

Vauxhall

 

otherwise inside zone 2

 

Opinion on south or north of river?

 

if your going to be south of river may as well live in brighton 🤣🤣

South of the river? 🧟‍♂️
 

“Here be dragons...” 😂

Paul Rudd or Matt Bomer. Better yet - Paul Rudd AND Matt Bomer. 

I’m happy to play with other guys’ nipples if it pleases them but, alas, mine do nothing for me at all. Now the base of my neck is an entirely different matter. I suspect that is my body’s compensation for dead nipples. 

On 1/31/2020 at 6:29 AM, chucklockhart said:

I actually don't remember the first guy to fuck me... is that bad 😂? 

If it is, then I’m bad, too...😂

17 minutes ago, Poz-Mcr said:

I don't have a lot of experience on this and the little I do is from a UK perspective, but I stopped my meds in January with the agreement of my doc. Told him that I was going through a bad phase (partially true, although not completely) and that I hadn't been fully compliant with taken the meds daily. The doc's view was that, given the possibility of resistence building up, it would be better to stop meds completely until I knew I could be compliant again that to stop/start them and potentially build up resistance. The aim was to continue with the regular blood tests to keep an eye on my levels, although that plan fell to pieces with Covid coming on the scene. Not yet had any further appointments set up for bloods.

I’m on meds but have been chatting to guys who aren’t on meds with a view to hooking up, so I’m interested in their perspective on this. 

I’m afraid if the other guy doesn’t kiss, I drift away very quickly. 

Docklands Light Railway. Broad daylight. With the train guard. 
More impressive was my mate who had a shag behind a mummy case in the Egyptian Room at the British Museum. 

I hooked up with a really attractive 28 year old Asian guy last week. I was having quite a frantic session with a guy from the next building I’d hooked up with from BBRT and we looked for a third. There was quite a hot poz top from Liverpool who was interested but didn’t want to travel the 40 miles over and we were about to give up when this lad messaged us, also on BBRT.  He got an Uber* over and the night became rather special as he was vers and up for anything. He has a CND tattoo, which was a throwback to the 80s, when he wasn’t even born.

* Uber drivers are often a good bet during Ramadan - at least in Manchester. They’re usually gagging for it. Apologies if anyone finds this offensively flippant but it’s borne out of long experience.