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yup, definitely aside from that -
I think the thing is, it's not a neutral presentation or interest in transfemme, etc. I'm seeing more talk of it as a shameful thing, or part of wanting to be degraded..
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oh trust me, as a fat guy, I get that too. It sucks, and is pervasive, but seems distinct from the other stuff.
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There's a big difference between a shaved chest and a racial identity, though, no? And I think the issue I'm seeing is one of a trend, not just an individual preference. Re: the gendered thing, I don't see a problem with wanting to be femme, etc. but I do see a problem when it is linked to wanting to be degraded...as though being feminine or a sissy is shameful...
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Yeah I’m in DC
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you mentioned your twitter feed - what's your handle?
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I mostly use sniffies, and I don't know if it's just a vibe or actually an increase, but I feel like since January I've been noticing more and more guys stating preferences that are very racialized and others that are very misogynistic. Things I've noticed: - a lot more guys explicitly stating racial preferences for partners, in all directions (e.g. no whites, no blacks, but also parties that are black tops/white bottoms only, white bottoms who express a preference for black tops, etc. etc .) or who state their own race in their posts, as though it's part of their own sexual identity (e.g. come fuck my white/asian/latin ass) - a lot more guys who equate submissive with feminine and female. Lots more "turn me into your little fem sissy bitch" or the like. I'm not trying to yuck anyone's yum, but I do feel like there's a trend here that goes along more broadly with the rise of hate and categorizing people by race, gender, etc ., in the country, and that the pushback I used to see in gay spaces around racial preferences seems to have evaporated, at least in the spaces I've been looking at. Is this just me? I'm finding this depressing and want to see if it's a bigger trend.
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thanks, @SomewhereonNeptune. I agree that attacking someone for posing an earnest question is silly and toxic. I personally practice consistent use of PrEP, testing every 3 months, and abstaining during treatment. After this latest bout of chlamydia, I think I will start using Doxy PEP too. The question was meant as a discussion point since I was musing about the fact that rectal chlamydia is a) extremely common; b) typically without symptoms; and c) easily treated. I wasn't planning on changing my behavior, but apparently this even asking about it makes me a bad person, so oh well 🤷♂️
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apparently, even if it appears in your anus, it can be present elsewhere and spread through your saliva.
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According to my sources, it's still a no-no. Otherwise I would have 100% been on my knees at the ABS this weekend.
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Ok first of all, I am abstaining. I was as a default. I asked what I thought was an interesting question here, and saw what the consensus was. It confirmed my baseline belief and I continued with it. second, I really don’t appreciate you coming into a message board where I asked a question and having you (who do not know me) calling me the “next level of selfishness.” Maybe you should do some “soul searching” about why you feel the need to come online and judge strangers like that.
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Good points to all. Definitely abstaining till I’m done with my doxy!
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I just tested positive for rectal chlamydia, and I'm on a 7-day regimen of doxy. Normally, I'd fully abstain during this time, but I was thinking of what the ethics of this actually are if you're cumdumping...like, if you're hosting and people are coming to fuck you, wouldn't they already be accepting the risk of exposure anyway, given the unknown number and source of cocks and cum involved? This is hypothetical...for now...
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Update: I met a guy off the blowers and went to his house for load 4. Horny daddy type with the hefty ball sack. Ate my ass too, which I loved. Precame like crazy (I thought he was already coming!). then I came home and got load 5 from my sexy nerdy boyfriend
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Outside dc
