To those of us who are of the pre-HIV generation (alas, not me)... are sex parties today different than those of the pre-HIV days, specifically with regards to cumdump bottoms? It seems to me that at sex parties today, there are generally some very cum-hungry bottoms, and all they care about are getting loads, and the total number of loads received at the end of the night is all that matters. Were there such a prevalence of cum-hungry, load-focused bottoms in the pre-HIV days, or is this a recent phenomenon? Were bottoms then more into the fuck itself than the goal of getting a load? Is my observation just that, or have others noticed this too?