tarynholz

Seriously?! That was the only Adult bookstore in town where you could actually find some decent action. You're lucky if you even see another person half the time at ATA. Austin 6 is just too fucking scary and gross. Kinda hard to be turned on with straight porn playing in their theater too. This city gets more and more vanilla and boring each year. I can't wait to get out of here and go to a real city with some bathhouses.

Sadly, there's not a whole lot to do in Austin if you are looking for some dirty, fun, public action. There used to be a crappy bathhouse here about 5-10 years ago called Midtown Spa. It was closed just like everything else that was fun here once. Austin is by far the most vanilla city you will visit in comparison with other major cities its size. No bathhouse, no gay strip clubs. We have a total of 4 gay bars/clubs and 3 adult bookstores/theaters. All Things Adult is a Gay Bookstore way outside of town. It is the cleanest, and there is never a soul there most of the time because of the location. BORING. Then there is Video XXX. Probably the best choice and busiest. Staff isn't friendly, lots of cig smoke, dirty, AC doesn't work well so it's hot as hell in the Summer. Austin 6 is a very seedy, old, gross adult bookstore in the worst neighborhood. There are men and women there so not exactly gay oriented. It has a "theater" or what they call a theater. It's basically a small room with folding chairs and old futon frames that are falling apart. It's dark and the futons and chairs face a tiny pull down screen with porn projected on it. The best part: The porn playing is crappy straight porn so good luck getting in the mood. If you want to have that kind of fun, I would suggest San Antonio, Dallas, or Houston. All three have multiple strip clubs, bathhouses, and adult bookstores that are much more fun. Or if you wish to stay in Austin, your best bet is to log on to Sniffies.com and see what local cruising spots are busy. (99% of the time, they are all dead.) Literally every park, public bathroom, and gym is a gay cruising spot so they are easy to find and close no matter where you are.

Ok this whole "bottoms shouldn't jerk off" shit is complete bullshit. It's nothing more than bottom shaming and degrading the bottom. By saying he can not touch his dick, you are saying his enjoyment is less important than yours. Tops like to be in control and us bottoms feed into that and allow them to feel like they are in control, but when in fact, we are the ones giving you our asses. We are just as much in control if not more. If I wanted to, I could clench while getting pounded and SNAP! That top would be in a world of hurt. Gay men need to realize that the whole dominant/submissive thing is simply role play. It is not real-life governing rules that every gay man has to follow. Nobody is dominant. We are humans not fucking dogs. We have never been dogs. Sex is equal partnership, therefore, it should be equal enjoyment. If you are turned off by a bottom jerking off, and if you think its disrespectful, you need to see a fucking psychiatrist because your brain is fucked up or you are just a fucking moron. That bottom is jerking off because his dick is connected to his prostate. That is the pleasure center. There isn't two different ways to orgasm. Jesus. If you cum hands free it's because your damn dick and prostate are side by side. You slam your dick into one, the other will be stimulated. Either way, your dick is what cums isn't it? Getting fucked without touching my dick is like 1/8 of the pleasure when I do touch my dick. When I jerk off while getting fucked, I'm horny, uninhibited, I love it rough, I talk dirty, you can slap my ass, and I'm loving every moment of it. And the best part, like any skilled bottom, I know how to edge myself and only cum once the top does. If I do cum first, it's usually hands free from getting pounded hard and it doesn't matter anyways. Don't let me touch my dick, I'll do nothing but count the minutes impatiently waiting for the top to shoot his damn load already so I can be done. I honestly feel like tops who don't allow bottoms to jerk off during sex are turned on by the pain and discomfort of the bottom. Or they somehow think they aren't 100% gay if they ignore or don't acknowledge the bottoms dick. That, or it's some sick control/power thing. I don't don't know and I don't want to know. Bottoms, if a top slaps your hand away from your dick, slap that bitch back. Stop letting tops degrade you because you are a bottom. They are trying to feminize bottoms because of their own insecurities about being gay. Fuck that. We are the ones who have balls to take a dick and enjoy it. There are plenty of tops out there who get off watching the Bottom get off. Those are real mean and true tops. Go ahead. Slap my fucking hand away and see what happens. I dare you bitch....